hi! been quite some time since I’ve been active, so a little update:
pronouns and identity—
I use all pronouns except for she but primarily I use they/them/theirs and ze/zem/zyr, and the best way to label my gender would be genderfluid, although I never fluctuate between genders feeling-wise; I just have masculine and feminine feelings. I’m a big fan of the terms non-binary, queer, and gendervoid, though
I now identify as a neurodivergent trans/non-binary person loving over neurodivergent trans and/or non-binary people, however my strong affinity towards women (especially masculine ones) remains, often despite gender identity (although I do tend to attract and be attracted to fellow transgender/non-binary people… sooo…) and I’m still a demisexual, and slighty demiromantic
I use the names Vyper and Ashton interchangeably, so feel free to use whichever!
mental health—
I have been formally diagnosed with ADHD for quite a while now, I’m getting tested for autism, and I feel as though it’s quite possible I have a personality disorder, i.e. BPD (borderline, not bipolar), however I’m working very hard on getting to a healthy place with myself as I also have severe anxiety and severe suicidal depression
yes, I do often get professionally diagnosed—this is more for myself than anyone else. I believe in self-diagnosis however because I wouldn’t be where I am today without it, and not everyone else has the same privilege to get diagnosed as I do. you know what your body needs better than anyone else.
I don’t believe in labels such as low-functioning and high-functioning for anything mental-health related, especially autism. Please don’t label me as such or try to.
Recently—
I just got my wisdom teeth removed this morning! The numbing it wearing off but it’s not fun to say the least.
I have feelings for someone, and he’s the reason my identity has fluctuated to vastly. No relationship, just feelings.
I am fully vaccinated and I recommend for others to get vaccinated too. Complain all you want about having to wear a mask, but if you didn’t get fully vaccinated and had the ability to? You’re part of the problem. Very few of us like wearing masks. If possible, get vaccinated.
I like to say I’m goth punk. Just throwing that out there. I’m an alternative person 😂
anyways, thanks for reading my catch-up post! stay healthy yall 🖤🦷👁☠️🐍🐉🥀⛓
























