see even in the most LGBTQ+ accepting places, a good percentage of people in the government still fucking try to get rid of us. it's happening to trans people in the UK currently.
And Autigender is how some people express their gender, their ND is so tied to them as a person it impacts how they perceive their own gender. like if you did any research you'd know autigender isn't autism gender, it's a gender impacted by the fact someone is autistic that their is no adequate way to express it in normal terms, hence why autigender was coined.
seriously that's all most of all these genders are, putting words to things so unique there is no mainstream way to express it other than having new terms.
and policing peoples way on how they talk about their gender is respectability politics, saying this is why we're not taken seriously is literally that.
like what does it fucking matter to you if someone has a niche gender, it doesn't hurt you. just fucking respect people and move on with your life.
seriously being radically accepting of the diversity of people is far more revolutionary than being a cunt to someone