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Autism as a gender slaps actually, it's just objectively very good and cool

@waifu--material literally no one asked for your shitty opinion lol

Anyway Autism is still my gender and it's cool as fuck

Let me level with you. A neurological condition is not a fucking gender identity. That is not my opinion, that is a fact, love.

If you’re trans, good. If you’re genderfluid, awesome! If you’re cis, sure, whatever. Sorry, but autism is not a gender.

Somehow I'm still here and my gender is still Autism lol die mad about it 💕

You’re right up there with the people identifying as ‘fidgetgender’ or ‘zippergender’ or ‘adhdgender’. It’s why no one can take LGBT communities seriously, love.

I'm sorry that's not the reason no one takes the LGBTQ+ community seriously, it's because cis hetero romantic hetero sexual people hate our guts for existing and will use any excuse to eliminate us. respectability politics only hurt inter community solidarity and keep us separated when we're stronger together. then again what do I expect from someone who can't keep their mouth shut on someone else's positivity post

You know, not all cis hetero people are fascist discrimination machines.

Again, nothing to do with respectability politics, love.

I mean I know some wonderful cis het people but the systems in place are there to benefit them and screw over anyone who doesn't fit into their boxes. it is all respectability politics and don't refer to me as love, sweetie

I suppose it depends what country you’re living in - people don’t try to ‘eliminate’ us where I’m from. It’s nothing to do with fitting into boxes, it’s about using words that accurately describe one’s gender expression. ‘Autismgender’ makes zero sense, because it’s a neurological condition, not a gender identity.

How does it have anything to do with respectability politics? This is nothing to do with what the ‘mainstream’ believes.

Also, I apologise. I call everyone ‘love’ - that’s just how I talk.

see even in the most LGBTQ+ accepting places, a good percentage of people in the government still fucking try to get rid of us. it's happening to trans people in the UK currently. And Autigender is how some people express their gender, their ND is so tied to them as a person it impacts how they perceive their own gender. like if you did any research you'd know autigender isn't autism gender, it's a gender impacted by the fact someone is autistic that their is no adequate way to express it in normal terms, hence why autigender was coined. seriously that's all most of all these genders are, putting words to things so unique there is no mainstream way to express it other than having new terms. and policing peoples way on how they talk about their gender is respectability politics, saying this is why we're not taken seriously is literally that. like what does it fucking matter to you if someone has a niche gender, it doesn't hurt you. just fucking respect people and move on with your life. seriously being radically accepting of the diversity of people is far more revolutionary than being a cunt to someone

I can feel my brian cells dying

yeah I know you're so incredibly close minded that even you're brain cells want to escape from you, it sucks for them

I think they want to escape from this conversation.

I’m plenty open-minded about a lot of things, but what I also am, is reasonable.

dappercyborg

So open minded and reasonable that you’re being a transphobic ablest dickhead?

How am I abelist? How am I transphobic?

Autism as a gender slaps actually, it's just objectively very good and cool

@waifu--material literally no one asked for your shitty opinion lol

Anyway Autism is still my gender and it's cool as fuck

Let me level with you. A neurological condition is not a fucking gender identity. That is not my opinion, that is a fact, love.

If you’re trans, good. If you’re genderfluid, awesome! If you’re cis, sure, whatever. Sorry, but autism is not a gender.

Somehow I'm still here and my gender is still Autism lol die mad about it 💕

You’re right up there with the people identifying as ‘fidgetgender’ or ‘zippergender’ or ‘adhdgender’. It’s why no one can take LGBT communities seriously, love.

I'm sorry that's not the reason no one takes the LGBTQ+ community seriously, it's because cis hetero romantic hetero sexual people hate our guts for existing and will use any excuse to eliminate us. respectability politics only hurt inter community solidarity and keep us separated when we're stronger together. then again what do I expect from someone who can't keep their mouth shut on someone else's positivity post

You know, not all cis hetero people are fascist discrimination machines.

Again, nothing to do with respectability politics, love.

I mean I know some wonderful cis het people but the systems in place are there to benefit them and screw over anyone who doesn't fit into their boxes. it is all respectability politics and don't refer to me as love, sweetie

I suppose it depends what country you’re living in - people don’t try to ‘eliminate’ us where I’m from. It’s nothing to do with fitting into boxes, it’s about using words that accurately describe one’s gender expression. ‘Autismgender’ makes zero sense, because it’s a neurological condition, not a gender identity.

How does it have anything to do with respectability politics? This is nothing to do with what the ‘mainstream’ believes.

Also, I apologise. I call everyone ‘love’ - that’s just how I talk.

see even in the most LGBTQ+ accepting places, a good percentage of people in the government still fucking try to get rid of us. it's happening to trans people in the UK currently. And Autigender is how some people express their gender, their ND is so tied to them as a person it impacts how they perceive their own gender. like if you did any research you'd know autigender isn't autism gender, it's a gender impacted by the fact someone is autistic that their is no adequate way to express it in normal terms, hence why autigender was coined. seriously that's all most of all these genders are, putting words to things so unique there is no mainstream way to express it other than having new terms. and policing peoples way on how they talk about their gender is respectability politics, saying this is why we're not taken seriously is literally that. like what does it fucking matter to you if someone has a niche gender, it doesn't hurt you. just fucking respect people and move on with your life. seriously being radically accepting of the diversity of people is far more revolutionary than being a cunt to someone

I can feel my brian cells dying

yeah I know you're so incredibly close minded that even you're brain cells want to escape from you, it sucks for them

I think they want to escape from this conversation.

I’m plenty open-minded about a lot of things, but what I also am, is reasonable.

Autism as a gender slaps actually, it's just objectively very good and cool

@waifu--material literally no one asked for your shitty opinion lol

Anyway Autism is still my gender and it's cool as fuck

Let me level with you. A neurological condition is not a fucking gender identity. That is not my opinion, that is a fact, love.

If you’re trans, good. If you’re genderfluid, awesome! If you’re cis, sure, whatever. Sorry, but autism is not a gender.

Somehow I'm still here and my gender is still Autism lol die mad about it 💕

You’re right up there with the people identifying as ‘fidgetgender’ or ‘zippergender’ or ‘adhdgender’. It’s why no one can take LGBT communities seriously, love.

I'm sorry that's not the reason no one takes the LGBTQ+ community seriously, it's because cis hetero romantic hetero sexual people hate our guts for existing and will use any excuse to eliminate us. respectability politics only hurt inter community solidarity and keep us separated when we're stronger together. then again what do I expect from someone who can't keep their mouth shut on someone else's positivity post

You know, not all cis hetero people are fascist discrimination machines.

Again, nothing to do with respectability politics, love.

I mean I know some wonderful cis het people but the systems in place are there to benefit them and screw over anyone who doesn't fit into their boxes. it is all respectability politics and don't refer to me as love, sweetie

I suppose it depends what country you’re living in - people don’t try to ‘eliminate’ us where I’m from. It’s nothing to do with fitting into boxes, it’s about using words that accurately describe one’s gender expression. ‘Autismgender’ makes zero sense, because it’s a neurological condition, not a gender identity.

How does it have anything to do with respectability politics? This is nothing to do with what the ‘mainstream’ believes.

Also, I apologise. I call everyone ‘love’ - that’s just how I talk.

Where are you from babe

Wales

No transphobia in Wales folks you heard it here first

(no matter than until quite recently trans people in Wales could only get referred to gender clinics in London)

(no matter that the current average wait time for the Cardiff clinic is 30 fucking months)

(maybe go put your energy into helping solve those problems instead?)

Never said there wasn’t transphobia in Wales. I said trans people aren’t being ‘eliminated’ in Wales. Please read what I’m actually writing.

Autism as a gender slaps actually, it's just objectively very good and cool

@waifu--material literally no one asked for your shitty opinion lol

Anyway Autism is still my gender and it's cool as fuck

Let me level with you. A neurological condition is not a fucking gender identity. That is not my opinion, that is a fact, love.

If you’re trans, good. If you’re genderfluid, awesome! If you’re cis, sure, whatever. Sorry, but autism is not a gender.

Somehow I'm still here and my gender is still Autism lol die mad about it 💕

You’re right up there with the people identifying as ‘fidgetgender’ or ‘zippergender’ or ‘adhdgender’. It’s why no one can take LGBT communities seriously, love.

I'm sorry that's not the reason no one takes the LGBTQ+ community seriously, it's because cis hetero romantic hetero sexual people hate our guts for existing and will use any excuse to eliminate us. respectability politics only hurt inter community solidarity and keep us separated when we're stronger together. then again what do I expect from someone who can't keep their mouth shut on someone else's positivity post

You know, not all cis hetero people are fascist discrimination machines.

Again, nothing to do with respectability politics, love.

I promise you no one takes us seriously anyway, love, people being who they are doesn't change that. Identity is fucking weird and if someone wants to be a dick about it and respect us less for having a "strange" identity that's their fault, not ours. On top of that, autism does affect how we perceive gender and identity, AND DOES NOT MANIFEST THE EXACT, PRECISE SAME WAY IN EVERY INDIVIDUAL. Kindly leave people be, love. kisses! <3

I agree with you in that autism DOES affect how gender is perceived and identity. I never said I disagreed with that. However, that does not mean it is, in itself, a gender identity.

Sure and the way it affects my identity is that Autism is my gender

It affects the way you perceive your identity, yes. Doesn’t make you ‘autismgender’.

The identity I'm perceiving is Autism

But autism isn’t an identity, it’s a condition. It can affect your identity.

What pronouns what it even have?

Autism as a gender slaps actually, it's just objectively very good and cool

@waifu--material literally no one asked for your shitty opinion lol

Anyway Autism is still my gender and it's cool as fuck

Let me level with you. A neurological condition is not a fucking gender identity. That is not my opinion, that is a fact, love.

If you’re trans, good. If you’re genderfluid, awesome! If you’re cis, sure, whatever. Sorry, but autism is not a gender.

Somehow I'm still here and my gender is still Autism lol die mad about it 💕

You’re right up there with the people identifying as ‘fidgetgender’ or ‘zippergender’ or ‘adhdgender’. It’s why no one can take LGBT communities seriously, love.

I'm sorry that's not the reason no one takes the LGBTQ+ community seriously, it's because cis hetero romantic hetero sexual people hate our guts for existing and will use any excuse to eliminate us. respectability politics only hurt inter community solidarity and keep us separated when we're stronger together. then again what do I expect from someone who can't keep their mouth shut on someone else's positivity post

You know, not all cis hetero people are fascist discrimination machines.

Again, nothing to do with respectability politics, love.

I mean I know some wonderful cis het people but the systems in place are there to benefit them and screw over anyone who doesn't fit into their boxes. it is all respectability politics and don't refer to me as love, sweetie

I suppose it depends what country you’re living in - people don’t try to ‘eliminate’ us where I’m from. It’s nothing to do with fitting into boxes, it’s about using words that accurately describe one’s gender expression. ‘Autismgender’ makes zero sense, because it’s a neurological condition, not a gender identity.

How does it have anything to do with respectability politics? This is nothing to do with what the ‘mainstream’ believes.

Also, I apologise. I call everyone ‘love’ - that’s just how I talk.

see even in the most LGBTQ+ accepting places, a good percentage of people in the government still fucking try to get rid of us. it's happening to trans people in the UK currently. And Autigender is how some people express their gender, their ND is so tied to them as a person it impacts how they perceive their own gender. like if you did any research you'd know autigender isn't autism gender, it's a gender impacted by the fact someone is autistic that their is no adequate way to express it in normal terms, hence why autigender was coined. seriously that's all most of all these genders are, putting words to things so unique there is no mainstream way to express it other than having new terms. and policing peoples way on how they talk about their gender is respectability politics, saying this is why we're not taken seriously is literally that. like what does it fucking matter to you if someone has a niche gender, it doesn't hurt you. just fucking respect people and move on with your life. seriously being radically accepting of the diversity of people is far more revolutionary than being a cunt to someone

I can feel my brian cells dying

Autism as a gender slaps actually, it's just objectively very good and cool

@waifu--material literally no one asked for your shitty opinion lol

Anyway Autism is still my gender and it's cool as fuck

Let me level with you. A neurological condition is not a fucking gender identity. That is not my opinion, that is a fact, love.

If you’re trans, good. If you’re genderfluid, awesome! If you’re cis, sure, whatever. Sorry, but autism is not a gender.

Somehow I'm still here and my gender is still Autism lol die mad about it 💕

You’re right up there with the people identifying as ‘fidgetgender’ or ‘zippergender’ or ‘adhdgender’. It’s why no one can take LGBT communities seriously, love.

I'm sorry that's not the reason no one takes the LGBTQ+ community seriously, it's because cis hetero romantic hetero sexual people hate our guts for existing and will use any excuse to eliminate us. respectability politics only hurt inter community solidarity and keep us separated when we're stronger together. then again what do I expect from someone who can't keep their mouth shut on someone else's positivity post

You know, not all cis hetero people are fascist discrimination machines.

Again, nothing to do with respectability politics, love.

I promise you no one takes us seriously anyway, love, people being who they are doesn't change that. Identity is fucking weird and if someone wants to be a dick about it and respect us less for having a "strange" identity that's their fault, not ours. On top of that, autism does affect how we perceive gender and identity, AND DOES NOT MANIFEST THE EXACT, PRECISE SAME WAY IN EVERY INDIVIDUAL. Kindly leave people be, love. kisses! <3

I agree with you in that autism DOES affect how gender is perceived and identity. I never said I disagreed with that. However, that does not mean it is, in itself, a gender identity.

It can be if someone identifies with it, again, identity manifests itself differently in different people. What seems nonsense to you might make absolute logical sense to someone else.

Plus, gender has no set of rules, other than the gender binary which is not quite so black and white as people think it is.

Yes, identity does manifest differently. I’m not disagreeing with that. However, autism merely affects one’s perception of their identity. How can it be a gender in itself? It’s a neurological condition. These people seriously take ‘autiself’ as one of their pronouns.

Autism as a gender slaps actually, it's just objectively very good and cool

@waifu--material literally no one asked for your shitty opinion lol

Anyway Autism is still my gender and it's cool as fuck

Let me level with you. A neurological condition is not a fucking gender identity. That is not my opinion, that is a fact, love.

If you’re trans, good. If you’re genderfluid, awesome! If you’re cis, sure, whatever. Sorry, but autism is not a gender.

Somehow I'm still here and my gender is still Autism lol die mad about it 💕

You’re right up there with the people identifying as ‘fidgetgender’ or ‘zippergender’ or ‘adhdgender’. It’s why no one can take LGBT communities seriously, love.

I'm sorry that's not the reason no one takes the LGBTQ+ community seriously, it's because cis hetero romantic hetero sexual people hate our guts for existing and will use any excuse to eliminate us. respectability politics only hurt inter community solidarity and keep us separated when we're stronger together. then again what do I expect from someone who can't keep their mouth shut on someone else's positivity post

You know, not all cis hetero people are fascist discrimination machines.

Again, nothing to do with respectability politics, love.

I promise you no one takes us seriously anyway, love, people being who they are doesn't change that. Identity is fucking weird and if someone wants to be a dick about it and respect us less for having a "strange" identity that's their fault, not ours. On top of that, autism does affect how we perceive gender and identity, AND DOES NOT MANIFEST THE EXACT, PRECISE SAME WAY IN EVERY INDIVIDUAL. Kindly leave people be, love. kisses! <3

I agree with you in that autism DOES affect how gender is perceived and identity. I never said I disagreed with that. However, that does not mean it is, in itself, a gender identity.

Sure and the way it affects my identity is that Autism is my gender

It affects the way you perceive your identity, yes. Doesn’t make you ‘autismgender’.

Autism as a gender slaps actually, it's just objectively very good and cool

@waifu--material literally no one asked for your shitty opinion lol

Anyway Autism is still my gender and it's cool as fuck

Let me level with you. A neurological condition is not a fucking gender identity. That is not my opinion, that is a fact, love.

If you’re trans, good. If you’re genderfluid, awesome! If you’re cis, sure, whatever. Sorry, but autism is not a gender.

Somehow I'm still here and my gender is still Autism lol die mad about it 💕

You’re right up there with the people identifying as ‘fidgetgender’ or ‘zippergender’ or ‘adhdgender’. It’s why no one can take LGBT communities seriously, love.

I'm sorry that's not the reason no one takes the LGBTQ+ community seriously, it's because cis hetero romantic hetero sexual people hate our guts for existing and will use any excuse to eliminate us. respectability politics only hurt inter community solidarity and keep us separated when we're stronger together. then again what do I expect from someone who can't keep their mouth shut on someone else's positivity post

You know, not all cis hetero people are fascist discrimination machines.

Again, nothing to do with respectability politics, love.

I mean I know some wonderful cis het people but the systems in place are there to benefit them and screw over anyone who doesn't fit into their boxes. it is all respectability politics and don't refer to me as love, sweetie

I suppose it depends what country you’re living in - people don’t try to ‘eliminate’ us where I’m from. It’s nothing to do with fitting into boxes, it’s about using words that accurately describe one’s gender expression. ‘Autismgender’ makes zero sense, because it’s a neurological condition, not a gender identity.

How does it have anything to do with respectability politics? This is nothing to do with what the ‘mainstream’ believes.

Also, I apologise. I call everyone ‘love’ - that’s just how I talk.

Where are you from babe

Wales

Autism as a gender slaps actually, it's just objectively very good and cool

@waifu--material literally no one asked for your shitty opinion lol

Anyway Autism is still my gender and it's cool as fuck

Let me level with you. A neurological condition is not a fucking gender identity. That is not my opinion, that is a fact, love.

If you’re trans, good. If you’re genderfluid, awesome! If you’re cis, sure, whatever. Sorry, but autism is not a gender.

Somehow I'm still here and my gender is still Autism lol die mad about it 💕

You’re right up there with the people identifying as ‘fidgetgender’ or ‘zippergender’ or ‘adhdgender’. It’s why no one can take LGBT communities seriously, love.

I'm sorry that's not the reason no one takes the LGBTQ+ community seriously, it's because cis hetero romantic hetero sexual people hate our guts for existing and will use any excuse to eliminate us. respectability politics only hurt inter community solidarity and keep us separated when we're stronger together. then again what do I expect from someone who can't keep their mouth shut on someone else's positivity post

You know, not all cis hetero people are fascist discrimination machines.

Again, nothing to do with respectability politics, love.

I promise you no one takes us seriously anyway, love, people being who they are doesn't change that. Identity is fucking weird and if someone wants to be a dick about it and respect us less for having a "strange" identity that's their fault, not ours. On top of that, autism does affect how we perceive gender and identity, AND DOES NOT MANIFEST THE EXACT, PRECISE SAME WAY IN EVERY INDIVIDUAL. Kindly leave people be, love. kisses! <3

I agree with you in that autism DOES affect how gender is perceived and identity. I never said I disagreed with that. However, that does not mean it is, in itself, a gender identity.

Autism as a gender slaps actually, it's just objectively very good and cool

@waifu--material literally no one asked for your shitty opinion lol

Anyway Autism is still my gender and it's cool as fuck

Let me level with you. A neurological condition is not a fucking gender identity. That is not my opinion, that is a fact, love.

If you’re trans, good. If you’re genderfluid, awesome! If you’re cis, sure, whatever. Sorry, but autism is not a gender.

Somehow I'm still here and my gender is still Autism lol die mad about it 💕

You’re right up there with the people identifying as ‘fidgetgender’ or ‘zippergender’ or ‘adhdgender’. It’s why no one can take LGBT communities seriously, love.

I'm sorry that's not the reason no one takes the LGBTQ+ community seriously, it's because cis hetero romantic hetero sexual people hate our guts for existing and will use any excuse to eliminate us. respectability politics only hurt inter community solidarity and keep us separated when we're stronger together. then again what do I expect from someone who can't keep their mouth shut on someone else's positivity post

You know, not all cis hetero people are fascist discrimination machines.

Again, nothing to do with respectability politics, love.

I mean I know some wonderful cis het people but the systems in place are there to benefit them and screw over anyone who doesn't fit into their boxes. it is all respectability politics and don't refer to me as love, sweetie

I suppose it depends what country you’re living in - people don’t try to ‘eliminate’ us where I’m from. It’s nothing to do with fitting into boxes, it’s about using words that accurately describe one’s gender expression. ‘Autismgender’ makes zero sense, because it’s a neurological condition, not a gender identity.

How does it have anything to do with respectability politics? This is nothing to do with what the ‘mainstream’ believes.

Also, I apologise. I call everyone ‘love’ - that’s just how I talk.

Autism as a gender slaps actually, it's just objectively very good and cool

@waifu--material literally no one asked for your shitty opinion lol

Anyway Autism is still my gender and it's cool as fuck

Let me level with you. A neurological condition is not a fucking gender identity. That is not my opinion, that is a fact, love.

If you’re trans, good. If you’re genderfluid, awesome! If you’re cis, sure, whatever. Sorry, but autism is not a gender.

Somehow I'm still here and my gender is still Autism lol die mad about it 💕

You’re right up there with the people identifying as ‘fidgetgender’ or ‘zippergender’ or ‘adhdgender’. It’s why no one can take LGBT communities seriously, love.

I'm sorry that's not the reason no one takes the LGBTQ+ community seriously, it's because cis hetero romantic hetero sexual people hate our guts for existing and will use any excuse to eliminate us. respectability politics only hurt inter community solidarity and keep us separated when we're stronger together. then again what do I expect from someone who can't keep their mouth shut on someone else's positivity post

You know, not all cis hetero people are fascist discrimination machines.

Again, nothing to do with respectability politics, love.

Autism as a gender slaps actually, it's just objectively very good and cool

@waifu--material literally no one asked for your shitty opinion lol

Anyway Autism is still my gender and it's cool as fuck

Let me level with you. A neurological condition is not a fucking gender identity. That is not my opinion, that is a fact, love.

If you’re trans, good. If you’re genderfluid, awesome! If you’re cis, sure, whatever. Sorry, but autism is not a gender.

Somehow I'm still here and my gender is still Autism lol die mad about it 💕

You’re right up there with the people identifying as ‘fidgetgender’ or ‘zippergender’ or ‘adhdgender’. It’s why no one can take LGBT communities seriously, love.

Cool genders all of them as far as I'm concerned

Sorry that you have fallen for the lie of respectability politics tho :(

Nothing to do with respectability politics. It’s down to the fact autism is not a gender. Sure, it can affect the way you perceive gender - that happens with me too. But calling autism a gender seems to be just a way for people on Tumblr to feel special and unique.

How exactly is ‘fidgeting’ a gender?

Autism as a gender slaps actually, it's just objectively very good and cool

@waifu--material literally no one asked for your shitty opinion lol

Anyway Autism is still my gender and it's cool as fuck

Let me level with you. A neurological condition is not a fucking gender identity. That is not my opinion, that is a fact, love.

If you’re trans, good. If you’re genderfluid, awesome! If you’re cis, sure, whatever. Sorry, but autism is not a gender.

Somehow I'm still here and my gender is still Autism lol die mad about it 💕

You’re right up there with the people identifying as ‘fidgetgender’ or ‘zippergender’ or ‘adhdgender’. It’s why no one can take LGBT communities seriously, love.

Autism as a gender slaps actually, it's just objectively very good and cool

@waifu--material literally no one asked for your shitty opinion lol

Anyway Autism is still my gender and it's cool as fuck