[wawagooba]

Its just not a healthy approach to life in general to be so very comfortable in looking down at ppl from ur high chair that u crumble at the first brocolli plane

[cparti-mkiki]

a date?

[birdplushie]

"it's not that deep" START DIGGING!!

[despazito]

[m--bloop]

Dinner in America dir. Adam Rehmeier (2020)

[cinematicstills]

KYLE GALLNER & EMILY SKEGGS Dinner in America (2020) dir. Adam Rehmeier

[leadmetothegardenbetty]

patty and her attack dog bf who will literally kill u if u look at her the wrong way <3

[pattydia]

dinner in america bts ft. chomby

[usermovies]

DINNER IN AMERICA 2020, dir. Adam Carter Rehmeier

[hotdadlicense]

DINNER IN AMERICA (2020)

[kermitlesbian]

So True Bestie!!!

[nbchannibalheritageposts]

Hannibal Heritage Post

[lesbian-space-fish]

I finished my hannigram love crime sweater!! I love it so much it’s my favorite thing I’ve ever knitted <3

[nbchannibalheritageposts]

Hannibal Heritage Post

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[wawagooba]

Im watching the hannibal series for the first time and my god is hannibal just so annoying! Im at the encephalitis episode and im just pissed as hell for will, but also, I dont get how he gets to manipulate everyone around so easily when he oozes distrust and smarm lmao. also just from a practical perspective, will sees a therapist and his life and health is getting wrose since he started seeing him, like just change the therapist??? Hes making u worse??? Hes getting u in trouble at work and compromising your moral values, dump his ass! Also hes making everyone arouns him worse! Like this doesnt ring any alarm bells for anyone except mass effect captain?

[kiefbowl]

I think a lot of people expect to have a woman in their life doing all this work for them. so when they don't have her they think "I'm poor, because if I wasn't poor I wouldn't have to do this myself with my own money." mostly men, but I think some women think this too. cooking + cleaning + kin keeping, that's "women's" work aka mommy's work. I think soooo so so so many people see mommy's work as detached from time, effort, and money. mommy is supposed to buy christmas ornaments. mommy is supposed to plan my birthday party. mommy is supposed to keep the kitchen spotless every day. it free, it's supposed to be free. if I don't have it, it's because I'm being oppressed, I'm burdened, I'm the lowest class. etc etc etc. and that extends to political action, too! I can't organize my friends, I have a shitty apartment! I'd have to buy pizza! I'd have to have a couch! I'd have to cook! I'd have to clean my bathroom! I don't have mommy to do it!! So it can't be done!! It's self evident of my station!! you know what I'm saying?

[wawagooba]

Im reading wuthering heights for the first time, emily bronte is so ridiculously funny, I mean how clever is it to couch a family tragedy through the eyes of characters with a sense of humor, she is peak!!!

[fforsythiaaa]

Once when I was in undergrad, someone described something as “problematic” in class and our professor was like, “That’s cool, but ‘problematic’ doesn’t really mean anything. It means that the thing you’re describing has a problem, and in and of itself that’s not bad. Art, especially, should always have problems, or else it’s not interesting and not art, either. It sounds like you’re trying to say that this is bad, but you don’t want to say ‘bad.’ Is that right?”

So from then on whenever one of us called something problematic, he would make us talk it out until we could name the “bad” thing we were hinting at. In this particular class, 7/10 it was some type of oppression, and the remainder was like, “I’m uncomfortable because this is very new/confusing/pushing boundaries that made me feel safe.”

Once we stopped calling things “problematic” and stopping at that, class got way more interesting and... we all had to say, like, “that’s racist” or “that’s misogynistic” or “ew capitalism gross” out loud, which a lot of us had never done in a classroom before. Or we had to be like, “Uhhh... I’m not sure what’s so bad?” and confront our own beliefs and that was maybe even more useful.

Anyway. Whenever I see the word problematic, I can’t help but think of this professor being like, “Good starting point, now let’s get specific.” I think when we have to commit to saying “that’s ___” it requires a lot more careful thought about the truth and impact and complexities of whatever we’re claiming. Sometimes there really is some bullshit afoot, and also sometimes it’s art, and it should be full of problems, because that’s what art is.