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You’re entitled to your anger. You’re entitled to your bitterness. It doesn’t make you as bad as the people who hurt you. It doesn’t make you abusive to finally lash out and snap at your abusers. It’s a recognized and common tactic for abusers to accuse their victims of being the perpetrator of the toxicity and abuse. It’s not your fault though. You aren’t as bad as them just because they finally pushed you to the breaking point.

You aren’t a bad person or a “bad victim” for your justified anger. You don’t have to carry any guilt if the final straw ended in you telling someone how they hurt you. You aren’t the bad guy for resenting the way you were treated. You aren’t deserving of it because you raised your voice or said harsh words.

You get to be upset. You get to be human.

booblessgoddess

Standing up to someone who’s manipulative is the hardest thing to do because you often end up in a situation where you have to “prove” to this person that they’re being manipulative, and of course if it’s just you against them, they’ll deny everything and might even be able to turn things around and make you believe you’re actually the manipulative one and this is so fucking toxic and it’s the reason why I stayed with my ex for so long because I just thought it was my fault, and honestly I’m still enraged by the fact that humans can be that shitty

growth-from-abuse

“When you look at someone through rose-colored glasses, all the red flags just look like flags”

— Wanda Pierce (Bojack Horseman)

learnloveover

“The minute you decide you want better for yourself is the minute the entire universe begins to shift in your favour.”

— (via yourvisionboard)

amargedom

“Just remember that sometimes, the way you think about a person isn’t the way they actually are.”

— John Green, Paper Towns

onlinecounsellingcollege

“So much of what we learn about love is taught to us by people who never really loved us.”

— r.h. Sin

shmwrites

I was so afraid of how unhappy I’d be if I broke up with him that I couldn’t see how miserable the relationship was already making me. I thought that giving up and walking away would be the most painful thing in the world but it wasn’t, staying in a relationship that had been causing me heartache and sadness for so long was. And when I finally let go it hurt, I’m not going to sugarcoat it. It was incredibly difficult and hard and I thought I’d never get through it or over it, but I did. Sometimes you need to realise that holding on to the wrong person will only hurt you more and more in the long run and that letting go and accepting that the person you love isn’t the right one for you might destroy you at first, but overtime, it will build you into a stronger and happier person who will never settle for a relationship or a person who continuously breaks their heart over and over again.

you deserve to be happy.

pessimisticandrealistic

you’re choking me with the same hand that you’re caressing me with. your mouth says the most awful things to me yet still tastes sweet when you kiss me. you tell me you love me yet you act like you hate me. and still, i can’t leave you.

e.s. // abused & loved. (via pessimisticandrealistic)

gitsandshiggles

No one.

Should EVER put their hands on you. Ever. No matter how drunk they are. No matter how angry they are. No matter what you did to piss them off. Nobody has the right to lie a hand on your body, please remember that..

sa2ha

negative self talk and self image are LITERALLY forms of self harm!!!! recognise your own toxic behaviour and the fact that you are most likely your own worst enemy and fight that shit!!!! bitch!!!!