l'appel du vide

i'm maeve • i'm a lesbian • they/them • clowns get a bad rap

[ksubiis-deactivated20190118]

I just asked why his name was footpussy

[grammery]

[tastefullyoffensive]

[glitter6ug-deactivated20190325]

hot take: if women’s sexuality wasn’t severely shamed and suppressed even in the context of heterosexuality, if sex was framed as reciprocal rather than something men do to women, a hell of a lot more women would realize they’re not actually attracted to men at all

[katekaned]

the fact that so many of the people reblogging this post are interpreting it as a bitter lesbian whining about how women won’t sleep with her instead of a discussion of how society’s framing of sex negatively affects gay women is incredibly telling of how this website views lesbians

[lesbianherstorian]

leigh crow aka elvis herselvis, the female elvis presley impersonator, published in family: a portrait of gay and lesbian america by nancy andrews, june 1994

[sphinxofgrease]

hi is anyone here good at photoshop and can make a version of leonardo da vincis st john the baptist where hes flipping the bird

[sphinxofgrease]

this is incredibly important

[officecyborg]

how’s this?

[sphinxofgrease]

god bless

[sphinxofgrease]

every motherfucker on this post:

I KNOW!!! I KNOW AND SO DOES WEIRD AL!!!

[ubercharge]

[oppa-homeless-style]

[closet-keys]

Lesbian is a beautiful, strong word with a long history and a loving, diverse community

[trevenanl-deactivated20200913]

[pizzaotter]

OK THIS ONE IS ME

[mandaloriangf]

i know y’all don’t want to hear this but coping mechanisms aren’t inherently healthy and just because it helps you in the moment doesn’t mean it won’t hurt you in the long run

[mandaloriangf]

when people tell you your coping mechanism is unhealthy they aren’t trying to police you or tell you what to do, they’re pointing out that you are hurting yourself and possibly hurting others and that you should find better ways to work through your trauma to have a better outcome in life

[mandaloriangf]

listen if this post makes you mad, I’m sorry, but i made this as someone who is mentally ill, as someone who is an abuse victim who has and still uses unhealthy coping mechanisms because people on this website discouraged me from seeking help

it’s hard to recognize youre hurting yourself. it’s hard to break out of that. im just tired of the prominent anti-recovery rhetoric on tumblr dot com and a lot of others are too.

[world-abyss-pit]

Good post here.

And for anyone who missed it the first time reading, like I did: inherently is an important word there. There is such thing as healthy coping mechanisms. They exist. But there’s also such thing as unhealthy coping mechanisms, and you need to figure out which one is which if you want to better yourself.

[startreklesbian-deactivated2020]

What I need, what I need, what I need Is to tell me that it’s yours, no no no And who you do it for, no no no Need you to be sure, no no no, no no

Hayley Kiyoko - What I Need (feat. Kehlani)

[bloodsisters-deactivated2023013]

its so frustrating seeing people treat compulsory heterosexuality as something you Have or Don’t Have and can Appropriate if youre straight and not like. a societal force that universally limits & shapes womens relationships 

[a-queer-seminarian]

i love experiencing how my classmates work to avoid misgendering me. for instance, today one classmate greeted the rest of our small group: “All right ladies and gentlemen — and Avery”

another time a classmate went: “Pardon me, ma’am — uh, sir, uh….esteemed one”

and, my absolute fave: “Hey ladies! — and gentleThem”

i love these moments both because they’re humorous and because they show how hard these folks are trying! it’s not about getting it right every time at first, but consistently correcting yourself!

[yesterdaysprint]

The Des Moines Register, Iowa, May 10, 1936

[winx3]

[70sscifiart]

Dean Ellis

[real-retail-stories]

Chipotle Customers Suck - She Don’t Want You, Bro.

Y’all seemed to like my last story, so I got another! So, I know a lot of women that work retail and the thing I hear the most is that guys are creepy and they hit on you because they know you have to be nice to them or risk losing their job. As a straight man, and a manager, that doesn’t sit well with me, so I promised all of my female coworkers that if someone starts getting a little too pushy, let me know and I’ll take care of it. Most people think that means I’ll just kick them out. Not me. So, we had this one cashier (let’s call her Joy), and she was blessed in the gluteus-maximus region. Fun, yet important fact, I am as well. Joy pretty much stays to herself, does her job and gets the hell on. She’s about the money. One, not so busy morning, a group of custodial/construction guys come in and sits right in front of the register. When they came through the line, they said a bit of things, nothing too inappropriate but enough to make me keep an eye on them. I’m moving between the FOH and the BOH to make sure everything is running smoothly. While I’m in the back, Joy walks in and her face is a bit flustered, which never happens. I ask her was it those guys. And she gave me the look. So, she goes back out to the front to take care of the lobby and I walk out to the line. A guy approaches her to ask for her number, and I walked up to them and proceeds to tell him my number. He looks at me confused and begins to back off. Another made a comment about her derrière to his friends so I say loudly, “you like what you see?” I proceed to walk to their table and say, “how are you doing? Can I get you anything, boys?” in an exaggerated, gay tone. They all fall silent. I pick the one who made a comment on her buttocks and say to him. “Ooh you cute, you single?” Their faces ranged from shock to mortified. I went back to my normal tone, “You see how uncomfortable you all feel. That’s how my employee feels. Say something else to her and I will have all of you removed from this restaurant.” They proceeded to take their food to go. They were talking mad shit on their way out, but better me than her. To all guys. Defend the women that are in your workspace. They deal with a lot more shit than we know so do the right thing and help defend them from the pervs.

[editionsmatiere-blog]

Dirt map, Kayla Mattes, 2017