On Vampires and Companionship
As a long time admirer of the vampiric genre, I have often wondered why vampires have managed to have such a persistent hold on the human imagination. After all, every generation seems to reinvent them in some form - whether it be as monsters or lovers or even tragic heroes or all three combined - but beneath each authors interpretation, there are specific themes that remain remarkably consistent. In this post I wish to tackle one of them; companionship.
Immortality is more often than not portrayed as unbearable isolation. The vampire exists outside of the ordinary human life; they watch empires that thought themselves immortal turn to dust in front of their very eyes while they themselves go on living. And while they might sometimes find some temporary place of residence for themselves, they’re eventually always forced to abandon it, because people will naturally grow suspicious if a person remains looking the same for well over 20 or 30 years. To put it simply; if for us mortals death presents the greatest certainty, then for a creature of the night that is unable to become a long term member of the human society, its loneliness is its greatest curse.
I’d say that there is no better example of this than Anne Rice’s The Vampire Chronicles, where loneliness is portrayed as the greatest threat to the existence of the undead. She certainly portrays actual violence and the general passage of time as a major threat, but what is really capable of destroying her vampires above all else is solitude. The much beloved Lestat and Louis still carry the same old passion for one another in spite of the ages of conflict because neither is capable of bearing an eternity alone. And their daughter Claudia was at one point in time a desperate attempt create a family where one shouldn’t exist. Armand and Daniel (a big favourite of mine) eventually come to regard each other as the most extraordinary thing to enter the others lives that they can’t go on without. Even Akasha, an original vampire and arguably the most powerful creature being in existence, seeks companionship. In spite of the fact that she is a being with nearly limitless power and the one that carries the source of all vampiric life in her, she longs for someone to stand behind her as an equal, a lover.
Interestingly, this desire for companionship can also be traced back to the first modern vampiric fiction - The Vampyre by John Polidori - where Lord Ruthven takes Aubrey to travel with him out of the seeming desire for a confidant. In Carmilla, the connection between Laura and Carmilla is described to the reader as something that transcends all ordinary affection. Stoker’s Dracula - undeniably the most famous work of vampiric fiction ever - makes Jonathan the objection of affection that points at a fascination as much as hunger.
Modern vampiric media continues this tradition; in The Vampire Diaries, Klaus becomes captivated by Caroline Forbes because she challenges him in spite of knowing exactly who he is and what is he capable of, time and time again he invites her to leave her ordinary human world behind and see the world through his ancient eyes out of a desire to have someone capable of sharing eternity with him. Likewise, in Sinners, Stack and Mary are able to build a life together that was otherwise denied to them as humans.
Thus, this recurring motif raises a very fascinating question; what does this say about us?
In my humble opinion, vampiric media confronts this age old fear of living an eternity life without ever finding someone who truly understands us. We fear that our thoughts, contradictions and darkest impulses and desires might always remain fundamentally unknowable to everyone around us. And the vampire, by the sole virtue of existing forever, takes the fear to the absolute max. An immortal creature may possess infinite time and powers beyond our imagination, but none of these things will ever compensate for the absence of a genuine connection. Vampires above all seem to seek recognition. Which is perhaps the most human thing imaginable; the desire to be seen as we truly are and not cast away.
The greatest vampire stories portray this idea that intimacy doesn’t come from someone loving an idealised version of ourselves, but from someone encountering us with our worst impulses and thoughts and somehow, choosing to stay. The greatest fear of a vampire is not death, but the fear of being condemned to exist forever without truly being known. And that is one of the reasons for why they continue to fascinate us; they present this idea that somewhere in the vastness that is existence, there is someone who will completely see and choose us.