iNtj Female

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INTJ with Narcissistic parents

Concluding that a lot of my I and J ways may have been subtly shaped by having

narcissistic parents. and it finally makes sense why all of these years..

people viewed me as self-righteous.

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Things you should know being friends with an INTJ:

- We’re not that good at giving sentimental advice

- Or comforting you if you’re crying

- But if you need someone to plan something hit us up and we’ll whip up a detailed plan and about 9 backup ones in the span of a few minutes

-We’re probably not that great with physical contact either

- “Am I supposed to hug? Give a handshake? What proximity do we have?” Literal things we think about because social interaction is CONFUSING

- If we’re reading or wearing earphones please do not interrupt us unless you actually have a death wish

- There is a chance we will question you a lot and doubt your intentions at first but don’t worry thinking that means we don’t like you

- And don’t be annoyed if we correct you

- Actually, be concerned if we DON’T correct you (Because that probably means we don’t think there’s any hope you’ll understand.)

- If we express an emotion to you or talk about our feelings you probably mean SO much to us because that’s not a very normal thing for INTJs to do casually

- Our minds are literally black holes of random information and endless possibilities so we may retreat into our own thoughts if nothing’s capturing our attention

- If we accidentally stare at you while daydreaming don’t be bothered

- Don’t be intimidated by how direct and blunt we can be because it’s probably quite natural for us

- We may not be the warmest people ever but we’re very loyal friends

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The first image shows a comment of ignorance or an honest curious question I think I’d like to address it. @wolfman-14 asked why do black people committ majority of the crime being that they’re the minority.(in America that is)

Well this is common sense quite honestly Let’s break it down a bit A crime is considered crime when a law is broken correct? Okay, if you’re surrounded by majority of people who in the past have been a potential threat to your entire race…what would you do to survive? Follow their laws, which by the way, were not initially designed to protect your race but to keep your race in place? You can say you would, but I doubt it.

But just in case you say you would follow those laws..let’s go even further. The laws were written with protection of your rights as well. Well blacks weren’t protected..and quite honestly they aren’t today either. Don’t tell me they are. Please don’t. They committ “74 ”% of the crime because 85% of the population already appears to be against them and will do almost anything to ensure they don’t succeed in life. There’s a 1% of whites I’d like to believe aren’t racist in America however.

The second image shows a demographic of the world. It’s not recent but it is within this decade. Lets compare the percent of whites to non-whites now wolfman…

Whites, an uncultured group of individuals who divide, conquer, steal, and force non-whites to believe they are the superior race. Why? Because they are the minority race of the WORLD. Sure they don’t break laws in America, but they are evil minded and sly, I mean..how do you steal an entire country and give them back a proportion of it and consider it a deed well done? How do you take an entire race, bring them to a foreign country, consider them savages because they are different, force your own ways own them..then hate them as if they ASKED to be here ? How? Because when you are a minority, you will do whatever it takes to preserve your race, and your life. Even it means breaking families, breaking spirits, and breaking laws, wolfman.

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Losing him Won’t kill you But thinking that way Could do.

M.S. Things I have learned in 2014 #10 (via coffee-crinkled-pages)

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I like when I'm talking about something I love, and I'm really passionately into it, and I have this energy as I speak and the person listening secretly acknowledges my excitement and reflects the energy back by asking questions or bringing about a debate

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so much time so much to do so many thoughts so much to say And yet I still end up doing And saying Nothing

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Why I prefer talking to people one on one or in small groups.

You know what they say about committees.

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Cute INTJ things

INTJs normally:

*smacks into literally everything*

*trips over thin air*

*Loses touch with reality and gets lost in their thoughts*

*Mentally checks out of 90% of the conversations*                                                                  

INTJs suddenly one day:

“Oh my god look at the sky today, it’s such a beautiful shade of blue!”

“I loooveeee the feeling of the wind on my face. Love it.”

“Oooh thunderstorm! Thunderstorms are awesome.”

“Wow the world is so fucking beautiful I should go out more often and appreciate its beauty and learn to live in the moment”

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INTJ Problems

*spends 624824 hours planning each and every aspect of the plan of action*

*Ends up procrastinating and not doing the thing at all*

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I can’t believe how much time I spent trying to change myself into an extrovert because I thought something was wrong with me

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INTJ Things

Getting adrenaline rush from solving problems

Silently judging everyone

Love for studying

Being that one smart kid in the class that all teachers love

Social awkwardness

Adjusting your behavior and responses depending on who you are talking to

Loving your alone time more than people

Being able to improvise quite well, but sticking to your plans to play it safe

Ending up doing all the group work on your own, because everyone else just wastes time chatting and procrastinating

Not caring about your emotions to the point that most people stop caring about them too

A good book and a cup of tea is much better than any social event

Being somewhat afraid of failing at every single thing you do

Being a nerdy weirdo

Love for stationary

Mastering new skills very quickly

Being a bit old-fashioned

Being lowkey afraid of your emotions, because others might use them against you

People have high expectations of you

Having deep knowledge in many topics

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One of the risks of being quiet is that other people fill your silence with their own interpretation: You’re bored. You’re depressed. You’re shy. You’re stuck up. You’re judgmental. When others can’t read us, they write a story for us that usually doesn’t reflect who we truly are.

Sophia Dembling

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How can I do so little and be so exhausted?

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More often than not you can find me daydreaming about the impossible or fantasizing about the inevitable. It’s how I make plans

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ENFJ aunt: I remember that when you were a baby, you used to cry when there were a lot of people.

INTJ: it still happens, though internally now