Just a Bunn

21, genderfluid, just here to read stuff<3

[liyuananan]

I was really happy to learn that Illumi Zoldyck was one of the references! I used to like him a lot, and now that I’ve found out Khol is inspired by him, I’m especially excited. It makes me want to try swapping their outfits and see how it looks…

picked the outfit I wanted to see!

[dragon-in-a-fez]

you can believe victims about what they experienced and also not want to torch the lives of the people they've accused without proof. that is a space you can walk in and usually it's not even that hard. I say this as a survivor of domestic violence. "believe victims" doesn't mean get torches and pitchforks any more than "innocent until proven guilty" means victims are lying. please please learn this "believe victims" isn't about the perpetrators it's about the victims

[catboyandroid]

Everyone say thank you to trans femmes for showing us a version of femininity born from joy and desire instead of just through coercion

Everyone say thank you to trans mascs for showing us a version of masculinity born from joy and desire instead of just through coercion

Everyone say thank you to all people outside of the cis gender binary for showing us a version of gender born from joy and desire instead of just through a simple frame work in which our oppressor have used to kill, erase, and censor us.

Thank you for showing us the existence of a history before and a future ahead.

[starbirbz]

Moon pixel art with the NES color pallete ✨

[velvetterabby]

TOMORROW IS PRIDE MONTHHHH!!! these are my pridekus from 2025!

[infizero]

the way she's literally this image im gonna be sick

[imjunebitch]

if u call urself a misandrist I'm going to assume ur homophobic. I'm gonna assume that ur at the very least weird about trans women like me, that you're going to judge them based on how they pass, on how out they are, on what level of transition they are at. I'm gonna assume ur racist too. like. idk "misandry" very feels like the sorta "feminism" someone is really into when they're in high school and carefully making sure to never think about anything.

[jazzyloveswomen]

Possibly the worst thing about being intersex, for me, was that I was never 'allowed' to be either gender growing up, and yet I was forced to be both at the same time.

My father would constantly viciously mock my body hair and other 'masculine' traits to disprove the idea that I was a 'real girl', but then he was the same man who screamed at me for six hours when he found out I was trying out presenting as male when I was trying out different gender presentations as a middle schooler and tried leaning into masculinity for a bit, then he'd treat me like a boy again when he'd tell me not to cry because 'men dont cry', then he treated me like a girl again when I developed breasts and he clearly decided I was attractive to him.

My mother refused to teach me how to do my makeup or buy me dresses and once she realized I was never going to get a period she practically gave up on treating me like a woman at all, but then when I told her I might try leaning more masc as a teenager she was suddenly so adamant about gendering me as the girliest girl in the whole world, then once I realized I was a woman she seemed to flip right back and cut off my whole length of hair ostensibly because it was 'matted' but probably because she doesn't like me presenting as a woman.

My peers would scream at me for wearing dresses or mock me for wearing makeup because "boys don't do that" and I was seen as a predatory or mockworthy boy dressing up, but then that didn't stop my male peers from leering at me and making sexual passes that revolved around me being 'female'.

My transmasc ex would play up how aggressive I was while making himself look like an innocent widdle guy in comparison, playing on the fact that I was intersex and transfem and therefore he could twist me into being "masculine and scary" when needed, but then he'd put the emotional labor and sexualization and condescension of womanhood onto me just as easily.

It's like no matter what you do, people are determined to oppositely gender you. 'Woman' enough to sexually harass and assault, 'man' enough to be harassed for even trying to present as feminine, 'woman' enough to be burdened with all the emotional labor of my family and relationships, 'man' enough to be painted as the horrible pushy aggressor no matter what I did.

I was simultaneously both genders and neither gender, whatever hurt me more, whatever the people hurting me got more gratification out of, and I think that's something a lot of intersex people experience. The combination of misgendering, malgendering, and degendering, because the only thing anyone really sees you as is a freak to be abused and rejected no matter what you do.

[pmamtraveller]

"Burning Out" byHenry Daubrez

[theconcealedweapon]

I've never heard a Muslim complain about pork being "shoved down their throat" when they see someone on TV eating pork.

I've never heard a Muslim call someone a "groomer" for telling a child that pork exists.

[hotvampireadjacent]

[cosmikazie]

hey remember when people said we gotta keep talking about this and then two days passed and it just went quiet. anyways

[cosmikazie]

due to recent (and frankly ongoing as far as this website is concerned) events

[goslinggf]

"girl dinner" "boy kibble" can y'all just eat a meal gender neutrally

[depsidase]

[therarityofcharity]

Okay, story time! I had this friend that seemed really cool and we aligned on a lot of things. They were hella anti military, which is super fucking valid, but it was to the point where they told me if I wanted to stay friends with them, I needed to force my husband to cut off his mom because she teaches first aid and swim lessons on a base. Being anti us military is an incredibly valid stance, but to try and force me to force another person to cut off their only family because they work on a base? His mom isn’t even a soldier, she’s fucking red cross and is working with the military to teach first aid and water safety lessons! The things he was saying legit felt like talking to a fed that was trying to sow division. It would’ve been bad enough to set that line and try to force me to cut off my family, but that’s not even MY mom! I have zero say in whether someone else chooses to cut off their family, that is not a decision me or anyone else can make for someone! It was just such a wild ultimatum to get from someone I considered a friend and I essentially told them, “hey, i agree with a lot of your points about the military, but it isn’t my place to force someone to cut off their only family and it sure as hell isn’t yours”

Anyways, suffice to say we are not friends anymore and if my husband cuts off his mom that will be his decision alone because that is his family and will affect him, not me and not this random “friend”

[mylordshesacactus]

Something to take a moment today and remember: As a collective, imperfect, often-divided human species, there is one disease--one--that we have ever managed to hunt to extinction. Because after thousands of years of watching it torture our children to death? Saving SOME people, saving MOST people, wasn't fucking good enough.

We have never hated anything more than we hated smallpox.

We have never loved anything as much as we love each other.

Happy Smallpox Eradication Day.

[chens-sang]

[anzuhan]