i support arthur bennet's rights and especially his wrongs. @whoupsqlointing - Tumblr Blog

toad finally makes an intro post for their main blog after putting it off for a billion years wow

o/ im toad/tad. 30, they / he / ve/ver.

on this blog you will find some bullllshit. i dont post about anything in particular very consistently but some things you might find are - JRWI - VTM - Slimecicle - MCSR - ChilledChaos/PR1 - so much fucking yapping i love to overshare

its not the focus here but i do sometimes reblog sexual posts untagged so be aware when following and curate ur own experience

i do have a couple nsft focused blogs, one more personal and private that adult mutuals are free to ask for (if you find it on your own thats also fine), and one more public but very specific kink blog that i can also give if youre open minded, but you can also find it through my ao3 if anything there appeals to you. there is jrwi posting and rpf on both, especially the kink blog

i block extremely freely and on a whim cos id rather not spend my free time on my relaxation website being irritated about unimportant shit. if ive accidentally nuked a mutuals side blog or if we've talked somewhere else before, shoot me a message and i can unblock you, otherwise i am very sorry if you are caught under fire <3 i wish we had a mute feature most of you are literally fine

#toad rambles - my yapping tag i will use this so very often

#toads art tag - surely i will have something to post again one day

#toad answers - my ask tag. older asks are not in there its newer and im not going back to look im so sorry

my ao3 - mostly just kink be aware. im a bit hyperfixated

my jrwi spoiler tag format is #jrwi (campaign name or common abbreviation) spoilers. im fully caught up on every campaign

#toad rambles #intro post #put it off for so long cos i liked pinning my art to the top so it wouldnt get buried #but i barely post art here anymore so it feels a little pointless

editionsmatiere-blog

Cocaine and Minecraft, Nacho García, 2018

chortlebot

before someone screenshots this and posts it elsewhere this is me

clawcakes

PREV TRUTH NUKE

slmcclupdts

📱Slimecicle uploaded a new Instagram story!

📱[ESP] Slimecicle subió una nueva historia de Instagram!

“Estoy tan orgulloso de mi chico, @/ bizlychannel, por lo lejos que ha llegado tanto como creador como persona. Es una de las personas más auténticas y trabajadoras que

-he conocido, y se merece hasta el último gramo del éxito que se gana. Te quiero, gordito. 🫃”

rabbitkinglune777

Hitomi and Hitch !

rabbitkinglune777

ahhh these are their refs for my comic! but they will change outfits cuz it keeps them grounded!!! look at them! my babies

hotvampireadjacent

sabertoothwalrus

tumblr giving us the option to sort likes oldest -> newest is kind of diabolical. babygirl that was 2012. I was 14. I’m 28 now. That was half my life ago. And you’re just gonna let me and moots put each other on blast? PvP website for real

#its probably for the best ive changed blogs like 3 times over the years lol #even in the time ive had this one ive changed a lot. being able to see back like 15 years ago would be. horrifying.

got an automated text from the mechanic saying i have an appointment scheduled at 1:45 today that i did Not schedule myself and ive tried calling twice and went to voicemail both times. bro why. why is every mechanic incapable of normal communication

#i have to presume this is to discuss the diagnostics for my car that ive been waiting on for two weeks #he better not be expecting me to drop my car off for repairs cos i am busy today and also we havent agreed on anything #jeez louise #toad rambles

quietautumn

i love you trans women i'm so sorry about the world

quietautumn

if you don't love trans women i'm standing outside your house with a really big sword. so consider that

gaybichon

not even funny how true this is for me

transxfiles

this pride month i want everyone to consider the benefits of abolishing the sex binary

transxfiles

furthermore, abolish the government systems that require people to categorize themselves into gendered categories. why do y'all need to know that.

transxfiles

no more assigning babies a legal sex at birth. i feel like this should go without saying, but no more surgeries on intersex infants. no more surgeries on intersex children. embrace intersex traits as natural. because they are.

no more gendered dress codes. no more gender markers on passports, driver's licenses, ids. i'm not talking about "adding x" or "adding a third category" i'm talking about no more categories, period. why does the government need to know what my genital situation is? why does the government feel the need to assign me a sex on the basis of genitals? why does the cop who pulled me over need to see an m, or an f, or an x?

no more "gender is a social construct, sex is the thing that's binary." sex is not binary. abolish the idea that it is. normalize conversations about intersex traits. being intersex is natural. the sex binary is a thing imposed by the state.

no more gendered sports. if you really care about equity, sort people into categories based on skill level and athleticism, not gender or sex. the concept that there are only two sexes and that one is inherently weaker than the other is pseudoscience. the male/female hunter/gatherer dichotomy is not based in fact, and is a product of modern sexist cultural biases. one gender is not inherently subservient to the other. people are not inherently different on the basis of sex or gender. it is just more complicated than that.

the concept of multiple genders and sexes beyond the man/woman male/female dichotomy has existed as long as humans have existed. the sex binary only serves to benefit the patriarchy. the gender binary only serves to benefit the patriarchy. continuing to impose it just controls (and harms) the people it forcibly categorizes.

i'm not asking for the end of gender, i'm calling for an acknowledgement of gender and sex that understands the infinite diversity of the human species. i'm suggesting an end to binary systems that only benefit the ruling class. just think about it. okay?

weirdcultstuff

To myself, raised in an environment that glorified and romanticized restriction and suffering:

There is no victory in skipping dinner, or lunch, or breakfast, or morning coffee, or dessert.

There is no victory in refusing heaters and air conditioners and fans and heated blankets.

There is no victory in denying yourself sleep, or showers, or movement, or water, or a comfortable bed, or taking the elevator vs. the stairs.

There is no victory in refusing pain meds and heating pads and ice packs and medical help.

There is no victory in punishing yourself needlessly, in telling yourself that this pain you feel is because you are bad to the core and deserve it.

There is no victory in choking back your laughter and your tears, to keep an imagined equilibrium of safety that is really just a dry, cracked, empty, endless emotional desert.

You are here. You are in this body, and this body is yours. You deserve good things. You are alive, and that is messy and loud, and messy and loud are okay.

It’s okay to live abundantly. It’s okay to make mistakes, it’s okay to indulge. This paralysis of self-punishment, self-restriction, self-loathing is not healthy or good for you.