Just Ranting Again
One of my coworkers put in her 2 weeks notice yesterday and we're happy for her, lol. But also gonna miss her and are jealous XD
It's annoying that honestly this job wouldn't be bad at all if it wasn't for shitty customers. (What else is new when working with the public, eh?) But legit, I don't think prior generations would have been like this where I work.
For context, this is at a children's museum. We're pretty light on the museum/educational aspect these days and if I'm being honest are just an indoor play-place, so that's definitely a part of the problem. But still.
Like why is it that EVERY. SINGLE. DAY. I have to listen to children screaming like there's an axe murderer loose in the building? And when they don't scream? Their volume is still very, very high. Does no one teach inside voices anymore?? My mom would have told me to stop screaming like that unless I was in danger. I get so exhausted just because I'm exposed to so much noise on a daily basis, at this point I'm convinced parents are all deaf. It hurts less than the shelter did, but the shelter hit decibels that are similar to being near an airport runway. And like....listen to this shit:
(Keep in mind this is downstairs, away from the noise, and my phone automatically cancels out background noise.)
In addition to not teaching kids inside voices I'm convinced our generation overall just sucks at parenting. Not to say EVERY parent is bad, but holy shit a lot of us suck y'all. Distracted pushovers is how I'd describe the majority of it. Although too many grandparents seem straight up scared of their grandkids and let them get away with stuff as well.
I'm forever pissed off that people don't understand what gentle parenting is. WAAAAAY too many people seem to think it's the same thing as passive, absentee, or permissive parenting, whether they're trying to practice it or are criticizing it.
Like we had one regular that'd come in with her two sons, and they were both awful but especially the younger one. He felt entitled to getting something from the gift store every visit and would throw the biggest fits about it. Like he'd literally hit his mother, or one time he punched her pretty good in the stomach. He was like 6, so I'm not talking about a toddler here, I mean old enough to know better. And what would she do? Give him what he wanted, or a very close compromise. That child is gonna be in jail some day.
And while that's an extreme example I see parents all the time giving in to what kids want instead of standing firm. Buying things from the store after the parent said no, refusing to leave because they're having fun even though they have other things to do that day, misbehaving then refusing to sit and calm down about it, etc. The number of times I've heard, "Do we need to leave??" from parents who then proceed to just keep repeating that line and never follow through on it is absurd.
Also? Lack of accountability. I'm so fucking tired of finding something broken around the museum. Just tell us if your kid breaks something, don't hide it in a corner! It's usually dangerous to leave something broken out, we need to get it off the floor. We're not gonna yell at you or something. I mean shit, we should be charging for broken items but we don't even do that. Spills happen all the time that people don't tell us about. Half the time when a kid wets themselves we don't find out until another parent comes up and mentions a mystery liquid somewhere. Or heaven forbid a toilet gets clogged or something (plunger is RIGHT THERE but no one will dare to use it). JUST TELL US! WE'RE ALL ADULTS HERE! YOU'RE NOT GONNA GET IN TROUBLE! WE NEED TO FIX THE PROBLEM!
Another thing is the fact that no one wants to watch their damn kids. I'd say "anymore" but I know my parents relied on letting my bro and I play outside by ourselves, so it's been a thing probably forever. At any given time if you look out into our facility you'll see most if not all of the parents glued to their phones. Kids are supposed to be supervised at all times in our facility, it's not a daycare or a playground. There have been so many times where I've had to help a child because their parents seemed oblivious to their crying. Yesterday I had to yell LOUDLY for kids to stop throwing plastic and metal toys down the big slide (that slide is FAST so when things get thrown down it they genuinely do become dangerous projectiles). The parents were right there and didn't even fucking flinch. Some days I have half a mind to go up to the parents and say, "I know your Instagram reels that half the room can hear you watching are enthralling, but I need you to be an adult now and go parent your child instead of expecting strangers to do it for you."
Sometimes their disinterest in their child goes so far that I, someone who is pretty anti-natalist at this point thanks to this job and doesn't even like kids, can tell the child has unmet needs. The other week we had a kid who was at our facility for way too long and through the lunch hour. You could tell he was getting agitated because he was tired and probably hungry because his play style went from normal to "I'm just going to start throwing everything." Then the crying and screaming. Then he was literally laying on the floor barely able to keep himself awake. Mom was actually watching him (shocker!) but just kept encouraging him to play! He finally hit the stage where he was so tired all he could do was throw tantrums, so she...brought him into the store to look at toys. Oh, but not buy any, just look. He finally resorted to screaming at the top of his lungs so hard his voice was nearly cracking before she finally fucking left. Again, extreme example, but we see smaller doses of this all the goddamn time. If my childfree ass can see your kid is tired and/or hungry why the fuck can't you, their parent who should know their kid better than anyone else, see it?
Also, I'm tired of the entitlement of some people. Today we emptied out our coin vortex, so I was rolling coins behind the desk so we can take them to the bank. We *used* to have a "karma penny" pile from pennies someone donated that kids could put in the vortex. Then we had to stop doing that because it was being horribly abused, and the coin vortex lost its original purpose: being a fun donation box (we also lost one of our donation boxes because the museum we were loaning it from wanted it back). People are so upset that their kids can't come up to our desk and ask for handfuls of coins anymore. Like bruh, how many places have you gone to with gimmicky donation boxes that GAVE YOU MONEY FOR THEM? This isn't a toy. We don't pull in enough money most days to even stay open anymore. WE NEED THE MONEY. If your kid is upset that they can't put coins down the coin vortex because you don't want to break a dollar quite frankly that's not my fucking problem. That's a lesser issue though. One thing that annoys me a lot more is how people will just leave trash all over the floor, or on the tables. There's a trash can at every single table. Our facility isn't very large, and there's always a trash can within eyesight no matter where you go. Also why does no one teach their kids to clean up after themselves? Every exhibit has a sign saying to keep toys at that exhibit, and clean up when your kid is done. I don't expect kids to keep toys in the exhibits, that's fine. But taking every toy out, throwing them all over the place, then leaving does piss me off. You don't have to do a good job at putting things away. Just try a little. I swear the only time people do try is 5 minutes before we close when they should be putting on their kid's shoes and getting a last potty break in. Then they take 20 minutes to do a piss-poor job that I then have to fix before we have to leave (our museum can't afford to pay us outside of our scheduled hours, knock it off).
Some days when I come home I'll show my husband pictures of the messes left behind and recently he said, "Wow, that's like if someone used the bathroom then expected you to flush the toilet for them." OH YEAH, FUNNY THING, PEOPLE DO THAT TOO! Every goddamn day! Either they use the bathroom or their kids use the bathroom and instead of FLUSHING THE FUCKING TOILET they just leave it there. And those toilets are BEASTS, the building is old, there's been many times where I thought for sure they'd clog but they didn't, so no it's not because the toilet didn't flush properly. They just think everyone else should enjoy the stench of their piss and shit while the employees have to check the bathroom regularly to flush for them. YOU CAN KICK THE HANDLES. YOU DON'T EVEN HAVE TO TOUCH THEM WITH YOUR HANDS IF THAT'S THE PROBLEM. JFC.
I dunno. Everything is petty and I know it. It's not like my last job where lives were quite literally on the line. I'm just tired of people in my area, I don't know if it's just customer brain or what but they're so fucking stupid and entitled. I don't like working with the public. I'm working on saving up money so I can quit my job and just not have one for a few months (trying to save up enough money that I could afford to take a whole year off). I put in so much work into stuff no one appreciates or even notices, people are always looking for ways to take take take but get offended if you even suggest they give back, and I'm so tired.












