Sex and the Arab Woman

This is the Tumblr page for Sex and the Arab Woman This Tumblr page is creative with the use of graphics and jokes, rather than words (as in the blog). Sometimes I reblog posts that have to do with women in general, sometimes with sex, others with Arab women. In my Wordpress blog I talk about anything that has to do with relationships, love, sex, and being a woman in the Arab society. I'm an Arab NOT a Muslim, there is a huge difference. ASK me anything, and I'll be honest. hits since November 25th

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Important Elements in relationships

Important Elements in relationships

Dating is not easy, let alone having a good relationship. I’m a single woman in my late 20s, (I started this blog when I was in my early twenties), time flies, and as we grow up, we repeat the same experience, look at it differently and come out with the same conclusion. I’m still single, and I’m finding difficulties understanding why. I look around me and find out that there are two reasons I’m…

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Reblog: The Secret Language of Narcissists: How Abusers Manipulate their Victims.

Reblog: The Secret Language of Narcissists: How Abusers Manipulate their Victims.

I read this article on Elephant Journal and I would like to share it here. http://www.elephantjournal.com/2016/03/the-secret-language-of-narcissists-how-abusers-manipulate-their-victims/ I really find myself been with a narcissistic partner/lover and that nearly killed me. It took me a while to understand this, and now I know what kind of abuse I was going through, so here you go. Narcissistic…

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The five men theory

The five men theory

I once heard of a guy who has a theory or a habit that is called “The five women”. He tends to date five women at the same time. This guy likes to date and go out with many women at the same time. He was a classic womanizer and he enjoyed it. He had issues with commitments until he was in a serious relationship, and he got married. Turned out he is in an open marriage. But what does that have to…

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Happy not a mother day

Happy not a mother day

Being a mother is a choice, not a duty. Being fertile isn’t a choice. Getting your period is always a torture and by all means not a choice. Yes, I still complain about my period, getting it every month isn’t something I look forward to, but the PMS before always begs for it. And sometimes, most times when I’m sexually active, I beg for my period. The fear of getting pregnant is one of my great…

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Private investigator

Cheating is a common habit that many people do. Many people, men or women, constantly cheat on their partners/spouses. After the first time it becomes a pathological habit that they cannot stop. I’ve never met a girl who cheated, but I’ve heard about lots of men talking about cheating girlfriends. Sometimes they lack intimacy, romance, love or anything that should make a relationship work. But…

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Cheating

I’m back to talk about cheating. We all cheat. We cheat during exams, we cheat during playing video games (at least I did when I was a kid), but do we all cheat when it comes to relationships? We all lie. We lie to our parents, teachers, bosses, and even our friends and partners. We lie about our weight, our cosmetics, hair color, and we even lie about our sex habits. But when it comes to…

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Sex and blogging

I started this blog to talk about women, men, sexuality, dating and love. I was trying to be the Arab Carrie Bradshaw (Sex and the City). I wanted to write and explore through my writing. I opened this blog in March 2011 (read my first post) and I wanted to continue writing and see where I can go with that. I had to use a different name than my own to write freely about sexuality. Many people…

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I'm back

I’m back

Ranin is an alter ego. She’s still me. I’m still Ranin. I made a mistake of putting myself in danger because I contacted someone using this alter ego. I had to deactivate my Facebook account, delete my Gmail account and hide this blog. I was scared. I had done something to someone that made me want to hide for a while. I will not get into details now, but might share the story later. Point is,…

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Define Fun

“When the working day is done. Girls, they wanna have fun.” one of the songs I grew up loving, and singing, in every chance, and sometimes even when the working day is done, I just want to have fun. But that’s the thing about fun. What is fun anyway? Define fun. That shouldn’t be difficult. Moments we enjoy. And yet, I feel like I have no idea what this term includes. For some people it means…

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Only Fuckable

Maybe this is just another pathetic and sad entry about how no one likes me. I’m an average girl. I’m not too young, yet not too old. I’m still in my twenties, but why do I have to reach the age of thirty to think that I’m such a pathetic loser who’s now too old and tired of this dating game? Many women my age find a husband in a second. Most of my high school friends are married. Hell, one of…

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Only the crappy ones

Only the crappy ones

After many years of dating and falling in love. I can’t help but ask myself and the world one question: Why does everyone find the one, while I’m stuck with crappy men?

I know I used the wrong word here to describe many men I went out with. I used the word “crappy” because I have no idea which one to use. “shitty”? “creepy”? “asshole”? “dumb”? “weird”? “jerk”? so, I’m just going to use the word…

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Purely sexual

So, it’s just a random day at work. Trying to figure out what I’m doing exactly. This job is not for me, but does it matter? I’m getting paid anyway. And it will be fine. If I lose this job I’ll go on finding another one. It will be fine.

I never spoke about my career, work or any job I had on this blog. And I won’t. I will only say that I’m currently working at an office. Doing a job that is not…

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Most Women Fake Orgasms because Most Men Fake Foreplay. ~ Bella Bliss

Most Women Fake Orgasms because Most Men Fake Foreplay. ~ Bella Bliss

I found this article and felt the need to save it and share it here on this blog.

Most women fake orgasms because most men fake foreplay. It’s supposed to be a joke, but it’s also kind of true.

I don’t remember ever having faked an orgasm in my life, honestly. For many years I just didn’t have orgasms with lovers, but somehow it never occurred to me to fake it. However, I am realizing lately how…

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Why do we need male prostitutes?

Why do we need male prostitutes

Most men I meet nowadays express their complete refusal to relationships and commitments. And they have the right to. It’s their life and it’s their needs.

Most men I meet nowadays want to have sex. They love to fuck. That is a fact and you can’t ask for different things.

While too many girls love to fuck too I’m not one of them. Yes, I want to have sex, but not just sex. Not because of society,…

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What do I know?

What do I know?

So, I opened this blog around 3 years ago, and back then I had no idea what I’m talking about. I was in my early twenties and I thought about sex as I saw it, not as I knew it. I wrote anything that occurred to my mind, I had no idea that my mind wasn’t aware of what’s going on.

I wrote and rambled as much as I wanted, because for me, writing is better than holding thoughts within. I like writing…

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Subjects and objects

It has been a while since I last posted anything here, and for that I apologize.

I would like to share this video, today, even though it has been on the internet for several months. It is a call for taking action, for actual women liberation.

In every single society in the world men are sexual subjects and women are always and…

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They want me

I know for a fact that many men (not most, but many) want to sleep with me. That is a fact I know and surely it took me a while to deal with it.

A lot of men I meet want to have a piece me of, a piece of my body, and yet I know that none of them want a piece of my heart. Why is that? why men would never really like me for who I am, but like me for what I look like?

They all want a piece of me,…

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