Is it crazy if I reread sweet for me on a weekly basis 🫣 please bless us with some more soft and condescending praise from the big LB😍
No not crazy. Honestly one of my favourites to also read. I like the escalation of the sex. Although I would change up some of the dialogue if I rewrote it. (more condescension)
I get so insatiable when I make a girl come. I can’t stop and I need to make her come over and over. Feel that tightening around my fingers, squeezing me, soaking me until she’s a trembling, sensitive mess.
thank you, ive never had anyone ask these questions too so thank you.
okay,so how do u eat a girl out and finger her?
Okay, next one. I’ll answer fingers in another ask (someone else also asked).
When you have her squirmy and very clearly wanting your mouth, make your way down there. Take it slow, kiss at her chest, hips, stomach, whatever works.
Spread her open, kiss the inside of her thighs. Skin here is super sensitive, be gentle but hold her open and make it super clear what comes next before actually doing it. Anticipation.
When it’s *time*, kiss around it. Explore a lil, lick at her outer lips, taste how wet she is. Put your tongue wherever it wants to go, but stay gentle. Then it’s play time.
I can’t tell you *exactly* how to eat her out, but you’re gonna need to get comfy bc it’ll usually take a while. But generally speaking you’re going to want to focus most attention on her clit. Try kissing it first, see how she reacts. Maybe lick it gently, see how she reacts. Keep things soft and gentle and think about the journey. You need a rhythm to what you’re doing.
Some people say to spell out letters or whatever, but to me, that really doesn’t give the rhythm or predictability needed to be really pleasurable.
The most effective technique I have won’t work on every girl but it’s done me pretty well. When you’ve played around and got her a little squirmy, use your fingers to part her outer lips. Put your mouth on her clit, suck super gently to create a seal, press the flat of your tongue against her, and kinda nod/rock your head against her to build a rhythm. You’ll literally be sucking, licking and rocking against her at the same time, but I promise it’s super easy to do when you get the mouth shaping right.
Keep your tongue inside your mouth when you try this. I like it because it makes it super easy for her to rock against and for me, that’s so fucking hot. Also when you lick/flick outwards too much, your tongue will get tired really quickly. If you can make that action more of a neck/upper body movement, you’ll be able to do it for ages.
Keep your attention on her while you mess around. Most girls are so good at letting you know what they like by how they moan, gasp, tense up. Listen. Do it again. When she stops making noise, change tactics. Some girls want penetration - more on that later.
If you want to, take her hand and put it in your hair. She might start to guide you, or hold you tighter against her if she wants it harder etc.
Don’t be afraid to take a moment to readjust and breathe. You need to be comfy. Think about when you masturbate - if you stop for ten seconds to do something, it still feels really good when you come back. Your arousal doesn’t just die off.
Lastly, use your hands if you can. Personal preference with regards to positioning. I like to slip my arms under her thighs so they’re over my shoulders, because then I can hold her waist or reach up and play with her chest. If she’s squirmy, it’s easy to lock my hands over her stomach and keep her there too. Alternatively, stroking along her open thighs and manhandling them to where I want is… also hot.
