Co Parenting....
I wish I didn't have to. How do you go from co-parenting with the grandparents for like 5-6 years to than the father. He literally just leaves his kid and responsibility behind while i have to take care of our child. As her mother i needed to be both parents to teach love and discipline her. She had a routine that has been going for almost 4 years and you come back like nothing happen. My significant other and myself have been there for her. She is no longer a toddler she is now a preteen. You still want to treat her the same way as if you never left. When it comes time to discipline her you dont care. You get on my case about she will do it again so why does it matter just leave it alone. NO you need to understand and she as well needs to understand that there are consequences to her actions. Always making us look like the bad cops and that I’m the worst mother she can have. Which really hurts and sucks because I was the one at her side while she cried when you come visit and not even pay attention to her. The way things were when i was growing up is definitely the not same as it is now. They have access to the world with any device connected to the internet. I get she wants to be on social media because all her friends are but that doesn't give her the right to do it when we say no she cant have anything that, yet doesn't seem like you care, even I say well shes doing it all g it under your roof. You had no idea makes me wonder why do i even bother being nice. We as her parents NEED to be on the same page and it doesn't look like you really want to. Which is sad I hope one day she sees what kind of father you are and that my significant other and I are not the bad cops. #coparentingsucks #coparenting #shittyperson #badcopgoodcop
