A Place for Yandere Venting

Be as yandere as your heart desires here! ♥︎ ♢Mod Rane: he/him♢ ♤Mod Prim: she/they♤ ♥︎ Our official discord server! ♥︎ header by @xigideer! ♥︎ nsfw tagged “yansfw” potential triggers are tagged ask to tag

[yandere-vent]

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Obligatory disclaimer:

We do NOT condone or encourage illegal or destructive actions. This is just a place for people to express themselves and should be a safe space.

Info/Rules

DO NOT send in submissions encouraging or wishing for someone’s suicide. They will NOT be posted and instead will be deleted.

Saying you want to kill them or that you wish simply “they were dead” is… acceptable… relatively… and I understand that, as yanderes, it is a “normal” thought to have in times of strong frustration. HOWEVER, to clarify further, submissions which detail or specify a manner of death for a rival will also be denied. Describing how you yourself would hypothetically do it is fine, as long as it’s made clear to be nothing more than a thought.

Please don’t talk positively about eating disorders or self harm in your submissions. It’s uncomfortable for the mods and the last thing I want is to encourage or promote that sort of thing.

Don’t… don’t say things that suggest you’re actually going to hurt someone. Don’t threaten people. Don’t assault people. Don’t dox people. Making genuine threats is very different from expressing intrusive thoughts. I’m very tired and we are just doing our best.

Don’t mention people by name!

About unsolicited advice from a mod: If there is a submission which contains concerning content* and is not clearly or explicitly just a vent, it may have unsolicited advice from a moderator either in the answer/reply or in the tags. It is NOT a personal attack, so please try to take it as such; erring on the side of caution helps put any anxieties about inadvertently endorsing anything immoral or otherwise unhealthy.

“concerning content” is a very large umbrella term in this context

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Rane

Prim

[yandere-vent]

I devoted my whole life to you, darling… And yet, it’s not enough. You want for more. I’d do anything for you, beloved. Why am I not enough for you? Don’t you see the pain I’m in? Don’t you care? Did our vows mean nothing? All for a fling with someone who could never love you the way I do.

💔-

[possessive-suggestions]

once i was loved obsessive, destructive afraid of yourself caught hold of your prey

you thought it unwell and learned to be gentle the softest of touch your lips on my skin

and though this is nice you loving me softly I miss teeth and nails to tear flesh from bone

[yandere-vent]

Ohhh do I know I shouldn't be like this. I just need him so much, I think about him every hour, I dream about him. I wished we were already married, out of high school, and I could just hold him tight and never let go!

He can do whatever! As long as by the end of the day, we can bake and cook together, and cuddle and have a shower.

I barely care what I need to do. I just want him so, so sooooo bad.

💘~

[yandere-vent]

i feel less valid as a yandere since i feel yandere tendencies towards my best friends... i'm pretty sure i would towards a romantic partner too, but i have a hard time feeling romantic attraction

💘-

[yandere-vent]

Feels weird to be back here after so long.. we've broken up, and when that happened — I felt strangely empty? I moved on so quickly, I almost felt bad..

But I guess I found a wonderful match. Not a real person, but I'm always so happy thinking about him. I love him so so much.. I suppose this is healthier than loving someone real.

- Si.

💔/💘~

[yandere-vent]

this is just a vent about my frustration with the yandere community. it isn't meant to offend anyone who uses the term darling but express my frustration with it.

i HATE the term. it's so often people who just wanna be the object of love and affection and don't give ANYTHING back. they're selfish and are using people who are yanderes to manage their self esteem because without constant validation it'll go to hell. they're like little kids that constantly want attention because they don't contribute basically ANYTHING to the relationship.

and i hate how anytime a yandere is "passive", like more of a worshiper, more prone to doing anything that makes their beloved happy, being submissive (nom sexually) "you're a darling!"

no. I don't just want to be loved by a yandere, i love just as fucking weirdly, just as intensely, just as jealously, just as possessively. i am just not "god", i don't take, i don't manipulate except by constantly making them happy so i get what i want (them).

like i am sorry i fantasize about what fits into MY relationship. "you're a darling"

i throw up when i think he'll leave me for over 5min. i almost always try to stop him from talking to his friends by presenting myself as more interesting and important so he chooses me. i have BPD and i get super fucked up thoughts when i am jealous.

i am not a darling just because i wanna get kidnapped, i wanna get kidnapped because it'd be my goddamn god and fucking savior kidnapping me, and they fucking like that shit. THAT'S why i want it.

i hate this stupid ass terminology, it's only relevant here on tumblr, anywhere else these guys would be seen as fetishists/chasers and for like 80% of them i think thats goddamn correct

💔-

[yandere-vent]

It's been several years since I last talked here, been through a lot of relationships, doing better mentally, still a very clingy possessive partner but I am Better, and this isn't like. Properly a yandere vent but it is a tad too gruesome to say to people I know personally and if I don't tell someone I'll explode so:

I was talking with my darling about a story he's working on (partially novel idea partially roleplay concept) and I casually brought up cozy body horror kinky vivisection roleplay. And he was INTO IT I am WINNING life is AMAZING thank you that's all

✈️

💘~

[yandere-vent]

My darling has started to publicly interact with somebody I hate again… After months of no interaction with that person; I thought my darling had finally left them behind… I’m burning with jealousy. Why can my darling see that that other person is a waste of their time? That I’m all they really need?

💔~

[yandere-vent]

Talk to me!!! Look at me!!! I'm just as amazing, aren't I? Please... tell me I'm amazing, too.

💘~

[yandere-vent]

i think that one of my Loves might be pulling away and i don’t know what to do. :(((

he’s spending more time with them than anyone else and i’m scared he’ll leave me for them.

sometimes i want to just show up at their house with a blade or hold their head under the bath for a while, but i couldn’t do that to him, or them, even if they already broke up with me.

i don’t know what i did wrong, but i’m too afraid to ask.

it might be nothing anyway, he’s been having a hard time lately, and he’s trying to recover from an ED, so he might just need some more space than i’m used to.

i dunno, RSD go brrr-

(may i be ~🥀, if it’s available?

otherwise ~Hearts works fine.)

[yandere-vent]

🖤-

[yandere-vent]

i think that one of my Loves might be pulling away and i don’t know what to do. :(((

he’s spending more time with them than anyone else and i’m scared he’ll leave me for them.

sometimes i want to just show up at their house with a blade or hold their head under the bath for a while, but i couldn’t do that to him, or them, even if they already broke up with me.

i don’t know what i did wrong, but i’m too afraid to ask.

it might be nothing anyway, he’s been having a hard time lately, and he’s trying to recover from an ED, so he might just need some more space than i’m used to.

i dunno, RSD go brrr-

(may i be ~🥀, if it’s available?

otherwise ~Hearts works fine.)

[yandere-vent]

its almost unbearable how much i want you to want me in this very same way. you might already, i can't tell. my love is scorching, all-consuming, bloodthirsty and your love is sugary sweet and it permeates everything but it is not quite the same. i need it, i need you to consume me too, to overwhelm every sense with your obsession. the way i always do, a favour i would happily return. i want to feel watched, followed, known in light and dark, unable to hide from your sight. i want you to tear yourself apart when you can't be there to watch me, i want you to provoke me further. ohhhhh my love.

💘~

[yandere-vent]

i want them to break up i want them to break up i want them to break up i want them to break up i want them to break up i want them to break up i want them to break up i want them to break up i want them to break up

💔/🖤-

[yandere-vent]

I can't believe I fallen for them again. Someone so out of reach I can only grasp a remnant of them

I want to whisk them away. I want them to be safe within my grasp. So many people have hurt them, and I can't allow that anymore

I wish them good luck in chasing others, but it will turn into an "I told you so" if they get hurt again.

Gods please let them be mine, they need to realise that they need my help. They need to curl up into my arms and let me soothe them. They need to realise that others discard them without second thought. Sooner or later they will realise they need me

I am so jealous of their gaze upon others~ 💔

💔~

[yandere-vent]

My darling has to leave for his job a week after we get married, and he’ll be gone for a year. A year! He might miss our anniversary!

But that’s okay. When he comes back, he’ll come home to the most devoted and loving wife ever.

But a year without him is going to be so hard…

💘~

[safesuggest]

thank you for loving me so easily even when i feel like i’m difficult to love