My thoughts about the topic “The man that God has for you will look for you or pursue you.”
To be honest, I was really skeptical to post this one because I don’t think I would even made a point. Bur somehow, I wanted to share my thoughts about this so here it goes.
“The man that God has for you will pursue you.”
As a young adult, I can’t help but think about building a family of my own in the near future. But how can I do that? I am not dating or even going out to meet somebody or whatever. And tonight, I saw a video on Youtube about dating or marriage that somehow had an impact on me which is that quote.
As a woman who is afraid of getting her feelings hurt, I somehow believe in that piece of advice. So maybe God really has someone for me? But for now he is a work-in-progress? (well who doesn’t? ugh sorry).. that I just have to be patiently waiting for him and just focus on myself first. And according to that video, if someone showed up, it doesn’t mean that he is already THE ONE so you just have to ask God for help (which is a thing that i would be grateful for). But I am slightly confused rn.
There are questions that pop out on my mind that says… “How can a man pursue me if I don’t show any interest in him? How can I know who my potential husband is if I wouldn’t let him know me in a deeper level or vice versa?”
I think in a man’s point of view, if he could feel that a woman has interest in him or is showing/reciprocating his feelings, then that’s the time he will pursue you or continuously pursue you. With that, you would know each other in a deeper level. So that’s the time to ask God if he’s really the one for you. And if not, still, ask God for help. Because letting a man do all the walk and talk without showing even a slightest effort would just lead you nowhere. it’s like you are saying that all you have to do is wait for a perfect knight and shining armor who will still pursue you regardless of how you treat them. Uhm that’s not always the case. It’s as if you have to wait for something to be spoon fed for you? Uhm no.
I think what God wants us to do is to enjoy our singleness for now and make that time to know more about Him first and everything will be revealed to us after. Revealed meaning God will make us realize first what we are really looking for exactly in a man. After doing that, then that’s the time we will let/entertain potential people (like smiling to them, not being snobbish, try to go out on a date etc) whom we feel/think would be the one who we can spend our lives with forever. And praying to God the right decision we have to make.
A work with no action here on Earth would be nothing (except for a miracle all thanks to God) We are not just looking for marriage but a HAPPY marriage. To attain that, we must all pray to God the decisions we have to make. We also have to work some things out if we really wanted something to happen.
Idk. Just a thought. I don’t think I am making myself clear. Very unorganized thought. Just typing what’s on my mind *sighs*
