Hold on swettie!

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Dark Turquoise - Shoki/beta miku

Countdown Miku prompt list

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happy 13th to my muse

[wholeheartedsuggestions]

some very important life reminders to help you through your days:

“i’m taking up too much space.”

this is hard to get into your head, because it can feel like no one wants you around. you are not a waste of space and you are not taking up too much space. you are a person, and people know that. we are so focused on ourselves in different ways. for you, you might worry you’re annoying people with your presence. but for them, they don’t think much of it because they know you’re a person who will take up as much space as needed.

“crying is a weakness.”

some kids are raised to think it’s not okay to cry. which is crazy because it’s a normal bodily thing to release emotions. don’t feel bad for crying. do it. cry. let it out. no one has a right to judge your feelings or your tears. we all have those days that are overwhelming and call for a good cry.

“i’ll never be enough.”

you will always be enough for the right people. you will always be enough in general but some people won’t appreciate that and that’s on them. you are you. you are you doing your best. don’t let anyone, and i mean anyone, take that away from you.

“my friends treat me like a therapist and i need boundaries.”

it feels great to be trusted enough that your friends confide in you, but it’s okay to be honest with them when they’re asking for too much. you can’t replace a professional who is trained to help with mental illness and shouldn’t be held to that expectation. let them know that you have to take care of yourself too.

“i always drive people away.”

people will come and go no matter how much we want them to stay. sometimes they’re not the right people for you, especially if they make you feel like it’s always your fault. if being yourself drives them away, you dodged a bullet. but it’s okay if it takes you time to come to terms with that. it’s easy to blame yourself for people not staying, but try to slowly learn not to.

“i don’t know how to live with myself.”

learning to live happily with yourself takes so much time and patience. start with a little time. get to know yourself apart from other people. understand it will be frustrating. do things for yourself you normally wouldn’t think you deserve. the time will come when you realize it’s not so bad.

“i need help but feel like a burden for asking.”

everyone needs help sometimes. that does not make you a burden. it does not make you weak. the people who love you are more than willing to help especially if it means you don’t drown in the things you have to handle. reach out. don’t fear coming off as annoying. people can be more understanding than we think.

“i’ve been told i have an annoying personality.”

first i want to say you do not need to change yourself to make other people like you. their perception of you is theirs and it doesn’t define you. the opinions you should actually listen to will come from those who know you and love you because they know you.

“if someone doesn’t like me back i feel like it’s my fault or there’s something wrong with me.”

we can’t be everyone’s cup of tea. and we can’t choose who we like. there’s nothing wrong with you, and how they feel about you is out of your control. it’s out of their control. you deserve someone who accepts you as you are. you deserve to know that there are people out there who will fall in love with you as you are. rejection, unfortunately, will happen a lot in life. it’s not your fault. it’s a part of being a person with your own personality.

“i do everything wrong.”

everyone makes mistakes but they don’t define us. it may feel like you’re always messing up, but what it really means if that you’re learning and growing. you do a lot of things right that you don’t think outweigh what you do “wrong”. but you’ll do good things and make mistakes too. the presence of one does not mean the absence of the other.

“i feel useless if i’m not helping my friends.”

we all play a part in other people’s lives, but the most important part is the one you play in your own life. your value does not equate to how much you do for others. it’s wonderful you can be the kind of friend they rely on but you can’t realistically put all the pressure on being only that friend. i’m sure your friends will love you no matter how you contribute to their lives.

[vandebright-deactivated20210222]

lumity doodle bcos i have a lot of feelings about them

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Some content from my latest streaming. Today’s featuring : “why you shall never grab the man by the skull”, some cape/hoodie combo appreciation, “shitty theories : how Eda met Hooty”, and “when Luz uses a human glyph to mess with people”.

[epscole]

a humble messenger for the titan

[elementalist-kdj]

Thank you Dana Terrace and crew! The Owl House’s first season already made history and has a special place in my heart!

[frankielucky]

*swings bottle of coffee to steel my soul for the hiatus

Thank you for commissioning our fav family of weirdos

[helperhoopoe]

remember to cry for help without guilt-tripping. i know it feels like you’ve been abandoned and betrayed, but it’s probably not true, and it’s not okay to accuse the people around you of something they might not have done.

“i guess none of you like me” could be better phrased as “i feel unloved right now”

“but nobody cares anyway” could be better phrased as “i feel insignificant and i need reassurance”

rather than assuming others’ feelings, give them time to explain them. you’ll usually get a much better answer.

[randomslasher]

This is really important for future predictions, too. “You’re eventually going to leave me” is impossible for someone else to disprove without just sticking around forever, but no one wants to stick around when they’re being constantly accused of future abandonment. Giving someone no choice but to either stay with you forever in order to prove you wrong or leave you and prove you right is incredibly emotionally manipulative, whether you mean it to be or not.

“I get scared sometimes because I’m afraid of being alone again” is easier to address and doesn’t leave your partner(s)/friend(s) feeling as though they’re being preemptively accused of something.  

[rob-walks-deactivated20210614]

i dont know who needs this but stop waiting for other people to go with you to do shit. go out and experience shit by yourself. sometimes you have to create your own experiences without other people.

[kounyoukai]

I actually made sticker ghosts!

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Co-op Haven Banks (5835) 10 Mile Cage Push

Help Co-op Haven Banks 5835 raise money to support Mind

Okay just in case the Facebook link doesn’t work, here’s the direct link!

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Co-op Haven Banks (5835) 10 Mile Cage Push

Help Co-op Haven Banks 5835 raise money to support Mind

Okay just in case the Facebook link doesn’t work, here’s the direct link!

[smiles-advice]

Co-op Haven Banks (5835) 10 Mile Cage Push

Help Co-op Haven Banks 5835 raise money to support Mind

Okay just in case the Facebook link doesn’t work, here’s the direct link!

[smiles-advice]

I’m sharing this once more, because it’d really make my mums day if a few people just sent a lil bit in, she’s worked so hard on this, and she always puts her all into everything, especially when it’s a good cause, and I’d love to just make it worth it.

I’ve donated obviously, and just a lil bit of something from some of you would be awesome! It goes towards a good cause, MIND, which is a mental health charity.

Thank you for reading this, and thanks to anyone who does donate

[yellowfantress2]

PLEASE DONATE IF YOU CAN

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Very quick Balan meme doodle that got thought up while watching @squigglydigglydoo  , @kaleidraws and Monpian’s stream this afternoon~

[dustyzippo]

… few can afford. ⭐🎩