一日三秋; @yeosoyy - Tumblr Blog

your bare minimum isn’t actually that bare or minimum. my dad once told me that there’s nothing in this world that’s easy and that’s true tbh. everything we do takes energy, time, and effort. even the little things. if you feel like you’re not doing enough please try to think about your circumstances and what’s currently available to you: chances are, there’s something that’s diverting or otherwise draining you. and to pull away from that and get something done regardless? well, i think that’s really admirable! please try to take pride in the things you do accomplish in a day, no matter how small or trifling you perceive them to be. you can’t be proud of your growth if you don’t notice where you already are!

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8xns

If you think about it in the shower, you’re not over it

cheruib

a list of simple yet beautiful things to live for:

the feeling of sunlight on your skin

the smell of pastries as you pass by a bakery

being wrapped up in a blanket with a cup of hot chocolate in your hands on a cold night

holding hands with the person you can’t imagine living without

discovering a new favorite song and listening to it on repeat

having a relaxing bath after a long exhausting day

secretly admiring a beautiful stranger you saw on the train

zootycoon-archive

Chunnel…

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Keep in mind

toastbutteregg

what’s going on

Someone who puts your personal thoughts or feelings on social media to attack you shows how immature they are and how much growth they need to fill in because they feel the need to expose someone in order to make themselves feel better. The situation is between you and them. The world doesn’t need to know and doesn’t care.

ignwhore

*teacher hands you test* “sorry I’m not interested”

sexanax

do u ever think about that one person u thought u would never get over and ur like damn i was so dramatic

#lmao

Ok but Bill Cunningham. His work is amazing wow iconic

lilcowgirl7-deactivated20210223

It’s not that you have issues…… it’s that you have a tendency to continue using instincts you picked up in childhood that are no longer useful to you on your journey towards achieving openness and intimacy and reliability in your personal relationships w others. It’s not that you’re defective or difficult or incapable it’s just that what you learned to do to save yourself from the experience of abandonment or rejection or ridicule or failure is not helpful here anymore and you need to start thinking creatively and collaborating on better ways to cope with that instrinsic fear that you are not correct, that you are faking, that you will be found out and left, whatever it is

Have you ever feel really at peace after you stop talking to someone because everything became toxic

that’s how I knew it was one of the best choices I made for me because I lost myself and I deserve better. I still send love. it felt really good when I walked away from the situation.