Sans titre

[julaibib]

Herat, Afghanistan

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[thequraanfm]

Marriage Is Not a Game… It’s a Responsibility 🤍

It’s strange how casually people speak about marriage today…

While scholars like Imam al-Nawawi (RA) feared it -

not because they rejected it…

but because they understood it.

They understood the weight of rights.

The accountability before Allah.

The responsibility of a zawjah (Wife).

💭 A Reality Check:

Some speak about 2, 3, 4 wives…

as if it’s a game.

But they forget…

Justice is not optional.

Responsibility is not light.

And Zulm is not small in the sight of Allah.

🌿 The Difference Is Mindset:

It’s not that the past was perfect…

and today is careless.

It’s that understanding has become shallow.

Marriage is not just love…

It is amanah.

It is accountability.

It is Abadah.

💍 What Marriage Really Requires

If you truly understand marriage…

you don’t run away from it.

You prepare for it.

With:

▪️ Maturity

▪️ Commitment

▪️ Sincerity (Ikhlas)

▪️ Respect

▪️ Fairness

▪️ Patience

▪️ Taqwa

🕊️ Reflection: Marriage in Islam is sacred. It is not about “having”… it is about being responsible. And the one who understands this… fears failing Allah more than anything.

[eymurn]

Some of the best conversations happen when nobody is trying to sound smart.

[shifa-ameen]

[heartbeatsallah]

Protecting Your Spouse’s Honor

“They are clothing for you, and you are clothing for them.” (Qur’ān 2:187)

Marriage is a bond of love, trust, and protection. As a spouse, it is your duty to stand up for your partner and never allow anyone i.e. be it your family, friends, or society to mock, belittle, or put them down, whether in jokes or otherwise.

The Prophet ﷺ said: “The best of you are those who are best to their wives, and I am the best among you to my wives.” (Tirmidhi 3895, Sahih)

Defend your spouse’s dignity,

uplift them in public and private, and ensure they feel valued and respected.

A strong marriage flourishes when both partners protect each other’s honor.

May Allah ﷻ grant us wisdom, strengthen our marriages with love and mercy, and help us implement these teachings in our daily lives, Aameen.

[anaseshaafi]

"سعيد من لا يحمل في قلبه ضغينة أو شحناء، من كف لسانه عن إغتياب الناس، من رأى السيئة فكتمها ورأى الحسنة فامتدحها، من انشغل بذاته عن تتبع حياة الآخرين سعيد من طهّر قلبه من الظنون الخاطئة ووصل لمنزلة يتمنى فيها الخير لغيره كما يتمناه لنفسه".

"Happy is the one who holds no grudges or hatred in his heart, who restrains his tongue from backbiting, who conceals faults and praises goodness, who focuses on himself rather than tracking others’ lives. Happy is the one who purifies his heart from false assumptions and reaches a state where he wishes good for others as he wishes it for himself."

[la8icy]

[vbdulrvhmvn]

اللَّهُ أَكْبَر مِن كُل ما أَخافُ وَأَحْذَر

Allah is greater than all my fears and worries.

[soft4youu]

I’m not meant for chaos. I don’t resonate with raised voices, constant tension, or unnecessary back and forth. I don’t welcome anger in my spirit or anything that pulls me away from who I am at my core. I am gentle. I am loving. I move with intention. If something disturbs my peace or shifts me into negativity, it no longer has a place in my life.

[unconditionalstudio]

[iamwizzzzz]

[bayynah]

[scorpionlafemme]

[naelrose]

Gonna start doing this a lot more

[classycookiexo]

[julaibib]

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