[thoodleoo]

grieving as an adult is so funny it's like. im sobbing my eyes out i'm laughing like a maniac im pondering the mortality of everything around me. ok glad thats out of my system because i have a dentist appointment in an hour

[givemearmstopraywith]

you are not unloveable you are just sad and a little bit angry. let’s go have some soup

[ineffectualdemon]

I don't think some people understand that true joy in any relationship (romantic or whatever the fuck I have going on) is when you say or share a thing that makes your partner sigh and then stare off in the middle distance as they regret ever having met you

And I can hear some of you saying that's some heterosexual nonsense but NO

NO

This is UNIVERSAL

And it's not genuine hate or regret at like being with you. They still love you and shit it's just you said or sent them something SO CURSED that they just are filled with Regret

And then you cackle like the horrible little gremlin you are and scuttle off to find more things so you can respond to their eventual retaliation

And that is what love is

[shera-dnd]

“I love you” is all nice and good, but nothing compares to “I love you, but shut the fuck up”

[guooey]

me after loosening up on the routine that keeps me functioning as a person: why am I not functioning as a person

[anexperimentallife]

[juncst]

[frenchsiren]

[ID: A white piece of paper on which is written: I’m down in the garden. I love you. Here’s coffee.]

[theselfcarelifestyle]

The book: I Have to Tell You Something available on amazon internationally ♥️

[kiyomimooon]

does anyone else completely ignore the queue option on tumblr. i’m here when i’m here

[dumini]

alley cat gives unsolicited advice

[bucksangel]

this is immensely funny to me

[soberscientistlife]

My best is always enough.

[constellatedlove]

just because your traumas and losses have taught you things, it doesn’t mean you deserved to suffer. people often break bad experiences down to “learning opportunities” and “growth” and while they may have helped you grow and change as a person, it doesn’t mean you deserved the pain. ive so often been told, “well it’s horrible but at least it’s taught you abc!”. don’t let people minimise your struggles just because you’re strong enough to grow from them.

[deanwinchesterapologist]

the problem is that going to bed at night feels like a chore whereas lying down for a forbidden nap at 4pm feels like the pinnacle of decadence

[theselfcarelifestyle]

The book (available on amazon): I Have to Tell You Something

[stuckinapril]

girl it’s the start of a new day. girl the sun is shining and the breeze is blowing and the birds are singing. girl you can accomplish every dream you’ve ever had

[theselfcarelifestyle]

You don’t even realize how good it’s going to get

[ashstfu]

crazy how sometimes u dance alone to your favorite song in your bedroom and you are like oh yeah thats why im alive