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The Ultimate Guide To Being A Sugar Baby

*** Hey guys, I just updated this! Please keep coming back to my page for the most updated links. I just thought I’d post this for anyone not familiar with my blog. Happy reading. ***

The Ultimate Guide To Being a Sugar Baby

Opinion Pieces

Staying Humble And Gracious How Being A Bad Bitch Hurts Your Sugaring Plus Sized Girls In The Sugar Bowl Why I’m Scared For Aspiring Sugar Babies Dear Minor Aspiring Sugar Babies My Warning To Those Approached My Journalists and Filmmakers What Is A Good Age To Start Sugaring? Why No Job Is “Beneath” You Do I Have To Be Conventionally Attractive To Be A Sugar Baby?

How To Become a Sugar Baby Beauty Sugar Baby Makeup

Mind Is Being A Sugar Baby Right For Me? Advice To New Sugar Babies Sugar Baby Reading/Media List On Etiquette Education If You’re A Shy Sugar Baby Fashion Affordable Clothes For A Starter Sugar Baby Affordable Clothes For A Plus Sized Sugar Baby Sugar Baby Fashion: The Casual Date (Spring)

How To Find a Sugar Daddy

Warm-Up, Practice, and Training Freestyling Guide My Routine For A POT Date How To Ask For A Platonic Arrangement Sex Free Sugaring Sending Your First Message to a Sugar Daddy Sites I Love, Sites I Hate Do I Need To Live In A Big City To Find An SD?

How To Keep A Sugar Daddy

What Your Sugar Daddy Is Paying For Date Night Ideas On Flirting and Seduction What Normal Relationships Can Learn From Sugar What To Do When You’re Falling In Love With Your Sugar Daddy How To End An Arrangement

Safety and Privacy Basic Online Safety Tips Indicators of Aggression and Violence Should I Post Full Facial Pictures? Public Face Pictures How To Remove Personal Information from Pictures Should I Use a Fake Name? Enrolling for an SB Site With A School Email

How To Hustle What Do I Say When __________? How Much Do Sugar Babies Make? When To Ask For Your Allowance What Makes A Successful Sugar Baby? When To Use A Card When You’re A Cash Only Sugar Baby

My Favorite Places In…

San Diego

Misc

Returning Items to Your SD After An Arrangement Should I Fly Out To Meet An SD? Should I Send Sexy Pictures To My SD?

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This text works every time

Hey handsome. How’s your day going? Just wanted to let you know that I’m thinking about you. Your smile, your face, other…things😏. Have a fantastic day.

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Site alternatives to BP!

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Spending Sugar Money

As most experienced sugar babies will know, when first starting off an arrangement, determining how to spend your new windfall allowance is difficult.  To assist newbies and other babies in the bowl, check out my strategy below!

Beginning Allowance (when first entering the bowl/a new arrangement):  

Save up three months worth of rent (keep in savings for rainy day, continue paying rent out of pocket from vanilla job)

Purchase general necessities (stock up on things like shampoo, toothpaste, other toiletries, etc. also for rainy day; stock up on non-perishable food also or grocery store gift cards)

Pay off all credit card debt (minor debt)

Begin chipping away at Student Loan Debt (major debt)

Percent of what goes where:

50% - student loans (or other large debt you may be carrying.

30% - high yield savings account (I use Capital One 360 because I like the ability to make sub accounts)

10% - personal spending fun (if you’re in a lot of debt you might be tempted to put all your money in savings or paying things off, but be realistic here. You will always want to have a little bit of fun spending money! If you don’t include it in your budget, you will throw your whole budget off)

5% - sugaring necessities (makeup, hair, nails, tanning, lingerie - don’t forget to invest in yourself! This is important!)

5% - house cash (random necessities - food, toiletries, cleaning supplies, bed sheets, etc.)

What does this look like in monthly allowances?

…And so on.  You get the idea.  It doesn’t matter what kind of allowance you have.  It’s still money you didn’t have before!  Remember to think of your sugar money as a windfall and put it to good use! 

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Sugar Baby Guide w/ 200+ tips!

So I recently ran into a sugar “master post” on here but noticed a lot of the links were broken. Since there are so many aspiring sugar babies with a ton of questions I thought I’d make a new one! Here it is: a very long compilation of my favorite tips and tricks from sugar babies all over tumblr. Enjoy! Xoxo

Safety

Deleting yourself from the internet

Sending pictures via google voice texting 

Square cash warning 

Amazon gifts safety

COP or POT?

Tips to remaining safe as a sugar baby

Phone safety

What information should you give your SD?

Verify him

Safety links for sugar babies

All about screening

How SD’s can track where you live

The Miranda warning

Internet safety tips

Receiving packages

Staying safe as a sugar baby

Sugar baby safety 

Sugar baby safety tip

Sugar baby safety & catfishing

Free background check website

Is he the real deal?

Tricking him to keep your privacy

Keeping your privacy

Very important hoe safety tip

Free-styling

Free-stying guide

Eye-contact

Turning vanilla to sugar

How to approach men while free styling

Free-styling and where to meet sugar daddies

Where to freestyle

All about free-styling

Free-styling and how to trigger a mans generosity from the start

Free-styling tips

Top three places to freestyle

Free-styling & staff

What NOT to ask him

Meeting SD’s online

Craigslist title tip

Ashley Madison

Sugar dating and craigslist

List of sugar dating sites

Sugaring using tinder

Tindering tip

How to tinder

Craigslist masterpost

Craigslist sugar

Writing/writing back to messages

The perfect message

How to message men on sugar sites

Sugaring: Tinder and OkCupid

Perfecting your message

More messaging advice

Sugar sites to check out

Weeding through messages on sugar sites

Allowance, financials, and budgeting

How to get the allowance you want

How to ask your sugar daddy for an allowance

Allowance or pay per meet?

All about money

Cash/gifts on a POT date

What form should I take my allowance in?

How to make real money

Sugar baby banking tips

Spending your sugar money

Asking for money on a POT date

Getting him to buy you something

Financial advice

Drain his bank account

When he says he doesn’t feel comfortable with allowance…

Saving money

How much can he really pay you?

Budgeting tips for sugar babes

Tips on spending your sugar money

Allowance and AmEx cards

Let’s talk budgeting

5 questions to ask before agreeing to allowance offer

What to say to get the allowance you want

Sugar banking

Allowance and bank laws

Random cash tips

He pays for what he wants

Investing 101

Allowance negotiation tactics

The art of sugar dating

How to handle a first date with a POT

What NOT to talk about on a POT date

Organizing your POTs

How to: manipulate the conversation 

How to create a positive impression

6 ways to make your sugar date the best date he’s ever had

What the hell am I going to talk to him about?!

50 unusual date ideas

Checklist the night before your date

What you need to do before your POT date

Your first POT date

Dining etiquette

Dining etiquette pt. 2

How to fake confidence

Conversation tips

Confidence

Classy conversation topics

First date conversations with your SD

What to bring in your purse on a sugar date

Bullshit to spit on dates

Things to know about wine

First date advice

How to handle a first date

100 “non allowance” questions to ask a POT on a date

How cheat your way through small talk

Conversation topics

Developing your personality

The psychology of persuasion

Seduction, manipulation & negotiation

Remember: You are an actress/actor

The art of seduction

Strategies to try on your SD

Sugar negotiation

Bullshitting 101

Make him take you seriously

How to make him want to say yes

Body language 

Master guide: Body language linguistics 

Manipulation tips

How to manipulate people into liking you more

Sugar manipulation

How to keep wealthy men coming back to you to give you more

Emotion, seduction and manipulation

Marketing yourself

How to attract a man

Perks of sugaring - power

Being your SD’s fantasy

Manipulation success

The girlfriend experience

Keeping your SD

Treat your SD right… Or someone else will

Keeping him hooked

Don’t become familiar or ordinary

Become his fantasy

Don’t forget the details

Keeping your sugar daddy

 Bedroom tips

Treating your SD right

How to keep an SD interested

Showcase yourself to yourself to your SD

Blowjob tips (for uncircumcised penises as well)

Blowjob tips

Appearance

How to make yourself more attractive

Fashion tips and dress codes

How to dress “sugar”

Hoe products

Fuck-proof makeup list

How to be a kept woman

Looking elegant

Sex prep

Lingerie masterpost

20 beauty tips

Charming cash out of your sugar daddy

Vaginal hygiene 

Invest in yourself

Sugar tote essentials

Contouring cheat sheet

A hoes guide to body care

Sugar baby check list

Platonic Sugar

A tip for aspiring sugar babes

Being a platonic SB

Being a pure sugar baby

Sugar Travel

Traveling with your SD

Travel etiquette for sugar babies

Sugar baby travel tip

Traveling sugar

General tips/info on sugaring

The rules of sugaring

Sugar baby manifesto

Sugar baby academy

How to find a sugar daddy in 6 simple steps

This lifestyle isn’t for everyone

The secrets to being a successful sugar baby

Random sugar baby tip

Great sugar tip

“Thing’s I’ve learned from living with sugar babies”

25 tips to make you better sugar

Being a successful sugar baby

10 golden rules of sugar dating

General sugar baby tips

Sugar baby general guide

Apps every sugar baby needs

Sugar baby mentality

Sugar baby survival tips

Sugar baby wisdom

Sugar baby resources

What being a SB is all about

6 common sugar baby mistakes

Remain calm, cool and collected

Things you need to remember when you start sugaring:

What SB’s often forget

You are not asking for too much!

Beginning advice for newbies

Tips for new sugar babies

Always have a plan B

Tip to new sugars

So you want to be a sugar baby…

What would you tell your newbie SB self if you could go back?

5 newbie mistakes and how to avoid them

Patience

Remember this when you become a sugar baby

4 things every aspiring SB should know

“How do I become a sugar baby?”

How to stand out as a sugar baby

“Learn from my sugar mistakes”

“When is right to start sugaring?”

Tips from a successful sugar baby

6 tips for aspiring SBs

All about him

How to know if he’s the right sponsor

Sugar daddy check list 

Don’t believe what he says

How to get him to raise your allowance

POTs

Filtering the POTs

How to spot a fake POT

Things POT’s say when they’re trying not to pay

Distinguishing sugar from salt

10 questions to ask a POT before a relationship

Figuring out if they’re salt without going on a date

“What should I say?” And personality

Don’t be mundane and predictable

When he asks “What are you willing to do sexually?”

When he complains about paying you

When he asks if you’ve had an arrangement before 

Communicating your standards

How to say “no” to your SD

How to insist on a condom

What to say when he asks “What are you looking for?”

When he says “I’ll pay you later”

Your sugar profile

Writing tips

Make your profile work for you

Face shot or no face shot? 

Random tips/things/misc.

P.O. boxes and why you should have one

“Advice I received from a whale SD”

Long distance sugar

How to be a boss ass bitch

Why love is poison for a heartless gold-digger and a guide to the antidote

How to organize your hustle 

Sugaring from scratch

“Sex is sex, but money is money”

Mandatory sugar tool

No luck finding a sugar daddy?

The official sex worker reading list

Getting your sugar daddy back

Sugar baby texting

Suggested sugar reading list

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How do you stay safe while being a sugar baby. That is my biggest concern.

Normally I’d just send you a link to A-Pinch-Of-Sugar-Please’s blog, buuut since she’s a psychotic bitch, I’d be happy to help you out.

BEFORE MEETING:

Invent fake facts about yourself. Create an email address specifically for sugaring and only email them there. Get the Google Voice App and create a phone number to text/call men from distinct from your own. Use a fake name for the first few dates. List the next town over as your location on your profile and never tell them the actual college that you go to — especially if it’s small! If they ask what your parents do for a living, make it up or be vague. Once you’re super comfortable with them, you can tell them “Oh my name’s actually Katherine, not Katelynn” or even give them your real phone number if you want to as I often snapchat with NASA. But he’s the only one of my SDs who knows it as Google Voice works flawlessly and the others don’t really need it. 

On an opposite note, get as many details as possible about him from him or through background searching. If he tells you he’s the CEO of Apple, go to Apple’s website and confirm that. Also, invest in a Spokeo Account. Don’t be that annoying SB who begs girls to look men up for her. A lot of girls only buy the monthly plan which has a search quota so if these girls are kindly looking men up for you, that’s less POTs they can search for themselves. I think it’s like $49.95 per year and it’s well worth the money for the amount of information it gives you. You can reverse search his phone number, email, name, etc. to find out his address, income, family members — anything! I love to find their children’s names then look them up on Facebook to see how they live. Riding horses on vacation in Santorini as your cover photo? Okay, I’ll break bread with your dad tomorrow. Little Ashley’s making duck faces and wearing Abercrombie? Sorry, John, I’m actually no longer searching for an SD — best of luck!

Get as many photos as possible (5+) from a man you’re talking to so that you can reverse search them and find out company info, criminal history, or if he’s on any other sites to cross-check age, location, and other facts on the profile you first saw him on.

Before a first meet, Skype with him (for 5 to 30 minutes) to again make sure the photos he sent are of him and not some handsome model on JCrew’s website (guys on SD4M do this all the time — you’re not slick)! While you don’t want the skype date to replace the first date, it is a good way to keep and/or build up his interest and by revealing yourself in 3D and decreasing his chances of cancelling/flaking on you. New SDs in particular often get nervous by the whole process, especially if they’re married, so if he sees “Wow! She’s gorgeous/real/funny/witty/ and excited to see me Thursday!” he’ll be more at ease not only to go through with the meet, but to spend more chedda. Moreover, a Skype date can show you “Wow! He’s an asshole and begging me to slide the camera down to my boobs.” So you can know way before you spend hours on hair and make-up that the date will be a waste.

NON RED-FLAGS:

Need for discretion. If a man doesn’t tell you much about himself, his job, or his life, is using a GV number or a fake email, is going by a fake name, it does not matter at all. 9 times out of 10 I show up to POT dates knowing the results of their latest colonoscopy while they think I don’t even know their name. Focus on the steps above and let them think they’re slicker than you. Nigerian Prince never told me his real name. I knew it from 5 seconds after he emailed me, but I played along and feigned ignorance because I knew he was safe and rich and whatever other secrets he kept from me were irrelevant. After our first date, he revealed his real career, location, (still not his real name) etc. and I’d already known it all, but, like us, he was simply wary of giving too much info to the wrong person. My favorite is when a guy emails you from his real email using a fake name. “Inbox: New Email from Steve Jobs” “Hey it’s Mike!” lmfao Hey Mike! Whatever makes you comfortable enough to meet me for dinner and pay me. All this being said, sometimes a man’s “need for discretion” makes it fucking impossible to find out anything from him. In that case, I say “While I respect your need for discretion, it does not trump my need for safety and I would not feel comfortable meeting you for dinner without…(at least a skype date)(as many photos as I’ve sent you)(information about XYZ)(etc.).” If he refuses to accommodate, he’s blatantly disrespectful of your safety concerns and he’s not worth your time.

RED-FLAGS:

Asks for sexy photos. You really need to make sure your profile photos are serve their purpose and depict what you look like from head to toe. If you only include iPhoto face shots, that’s dandy but you need a full body shot of you in a cute outfit and I also always include a bikini shot. Nothing raunchy, just a fun day at the beach. If they’re asking for sexy photos and you already have full body shots on your profile, then kindly end it because they’re 12 year old horn dogs stuck in 45 year old bodies. But if your photos suck and they just want to confirm that you’re not Shrek, then you need to amp up your profile and oblige.

Asks your favorite position, kinkiest moment, sex history, what you’re into etc. There’s no space for immature, tacky, desperate rapid fire sex questions in the sugar bowl. At its core, sugaring is about companionship, chemistry, and fun times. If he needs a rap sheet of what you will and will not do in the bed room, then he should call up a pimp and ask for a very specific hooker. Even if you tell him this and he apologizes and stops, you still know that that’s his main incentive for joining this site so he’s probably looking for pay for play but has too much pride to admit to wanting a prostitute. If you’re fine with 4 hours a month with this man for however much you agree on, then boom! You just landed on easy money. But if you’re looking strictly for a sugar arrangement with outings, dinners, etc. then you need to move on. But be mindful that a lot of these men might be into BDSM, so if they ask specifically if you have interest in that then that’s not necessarily a red flag so much as them not wanting to waste either of your time. If you do say yes, however, and he presses you with sex questions, he’s equally guilty of the above offense.

Sleezy username/bad grammar. If “Hotsex69” messages you, you already know what he’s there for. He’s not a sugar daddy. He’s blatantly looking for pay for play.

Takes offense to your precautions. A lot of men will quickly realize that you both have iPhones and that your messages aren’t coming up blue. If he questions it, let him know straight up, “I’m using an app called Google Voice so that I don’t have to share my real phone number with strangers. Once I’m comfortable enough with you, I will give you my real number and you can reach me there.” 99% of guys completely get it and think “Damn, I wish I’d thought of that. She’s smart and safe and not full of shit! I can tell a lot of guys have wasted her time and I don’t want to be one, so I better step it up if I ever want the honor of using iMessage with this hottie!” The other 1% will cry like little bitches and be like “We’ve hit it off thus far! Don’t you trust me?!?” If he honestly thinks trust can be fostered after a few email messages, he’ll be equally pissy when you don’t have sex on the first date or when you reject his marriage proposal on the second date.

Insists on meeting for just drinks. 10:00pm drinks at the hotel bar so you can get drunk and then go upstairs? Um no. In a fun way, tell him you’d rather meet for dinner at this great restaurant you’re dying to try yada yada. I had this one guy come back at me with “How about we start with drinks and if we hit it off, then we can get dinner?” Lmfao why?! I literally see no incentive to that besides wanting to roofie me. If you’re that awkward and can’t be around a younger, more attractive woman without drinking then let’s drink at dinner. Have 10 glasses of wine with your food. I don’t care. But if I’m getting dolled up, I’m eating food. You are not skimping out on buying me dinner and you are not roofie-ing me and you are not getting me drunk so you can drag me back to your lair. I do too much damn cardio to drink my calories. Buy me dinner, you fuck.

MEETING:

Meet in a public place and STAY in a public place. Stroll in Central Park? Awesome! He wants to wander past the “DO NOT ENTER” sign and show you this ‘amazing view of the river’? Nope. Restaurants, coffee, theater — doesn’t matter as long as you’re surrounded by witnesses.

Have your own transportation to AND from a first meet. And from. And. From. AND FROM!!! Not “Oh I took a taxi here, but let me save $10 and go home with him — he was so funny and obviously legitimate!” Even if that’s true and he’s a sweetie and who he says he is, these men never need to know where you live. (Notice I did not say never should know. Doctor knows where I live and that’s fine. But he doesn’t need to.) If you ultimately decide you’re comfortable with having an SD over at your apartment, then that will come after several dates, not the first. Plus, the chase is half the fun for him. Don’t reveal all of yourself too quickly. For this same reason, never get into his car on the first date. Besides just safety reasons, you don’t want him to feel like (physically and mentally) that he has you 100%. Leave something to be desired.

Tell someone where you are and who you’re going with. If you’re close with a friend or relative who is non-judgmental, make sure they know where your date is and when you’ll be back. Otherwise, find a resource on here (I’ll gladly help you out)and text them (from your GV number) where you are going, when you get there, when you leave, and when you are home. Whenever I get in an SDs car for the first time, I always text my sugar friends his license number.

Some SBs insist on staying sober. I like to drink and I can handle it, so I do. But definitely don’t get drunk. It’s sloppy and unattractive but will also distract you from your goal of setting an allowance/arrangement in place and getting to know this man better. Plus, it will impair your judgment and prevent you from remembering the rest of these safety tips.

NON-RED FLAGS:

Doesn’t bring a gift or cash to the first date. Stop being so entitled. At this point, he owes you just as much as you owe him — nothing.

The car he drives. The $3000 allowance of a man who drives an Aston Martin is just as green as that of the man who drives a Jeep Grand Cherokee.

Offers you a ride there or back. He might genuinely want to save you the hassle of travelling. Most of these men are fathers and have that protective instinct. It’s 9pm, dark out, she’s waiting for a cab, this is nonsense, I’ll drive her. It’s not a redflag that he’s trying to be a gentleman, but either way, maintain your stance and politely decline.

Awkward behavior. Steve Jobs gave brilliant speeches, but outside of that, the dude was awkward as fuck. Nonetheless, he was richer than God. If a guy reaches to hold your hand on the first date and you don’t want him to, just say, “John, I’m having an absolute blast but I’m just not comfortable with that yet.” There’s no need to flip out and write a post saying OMG THIS GUY WAS SO CREEPY HE LIKE TRIED TO RAPE ME BLACKLIST!!!!! Doctor is the most awkward guy I’ve ever met in my entire life. Like him, many of these POTs were valedictorians of Harvard who went on to spend the next 8-12 years of their lives accumulating degrees in the dungeons of the Ivy Leagues. They lack sunlight and social skills. It’s okay. That doesn’t mean be wishy-washy when he tries to cop a feel. No. Be firm and put him in his place. If he makes you excessively uncomfortable, end the date and don’t pursue another. But if he stutters or can’t maintain eye contact or holds eye contact for too long or snorts or recites how beautiful you are or has a creepy smile, that doesn’t necessarily make him a potential serial killer.

RED FLAGS:

Talks about hotel time, private time, intimate time, ‘getting away’. There will be no sex on the first date. There will be no sex on the first date. There will be NO SEX on the first date. If he thinks dinner and a few hundred dollars gets you two “alone time” at the Ritz Carlton, then send him packing. Be blunt and embarrass that loser. Literally say, “John, I’ve had a blast getting to know you thus far but I have zero interest in trading sex for lobster and a gas money. I’m a lady who is looking for a gentleman with the means to provide for her and support her. If you’re only interested in sex in exchange for money, then you’re looking for an escort, not a sugar baby, and a second date would be a waste of both of our time.” Scare the shit out of him and make him realize just how crass and pathetic he’s being. You wear the pants. He’ll straighten up very quickly, or realize that you’re right and head down to the corner of main street instead.

Cringes at the bill or what you’re ordering. If he can’t afford lobster, desert, or how many drinks you’re getting, he can’t afford you. This is an absolute no brainer. Even if he says he can afford your $3000 monthly allowance, if it means he’s going without food, laundry, or anything else just to afford it for you now, there WILL come a later when he leaves you hanging. A real SD loves to treat you and doesn’t care if you buy the bar!

Switches stories. It’s one thing from initially stating he’s in finance to getting more specific about which sector or region he works in, but if yesterday he was CEO of Apple and today he’s a professor, he’s probably full of shit. Don’t be afraid to call him out on it. “I thought you said —-?” Learn the dynamics of body language and be able to discern when someone is lying or hiding key information from you. He could very well be the manager of the local K-Mart hoping to spend as many free dates with you as possible before you catch him in his lie.

Insists on anything. If he’s choosing your meal for you, forcing you to ride home with him, or backing you into a corner in any way, ditch him. If he’s that pushy on the first date, he’ll be even more pushy on the second or on the third because you let him win this time.

DATING:

Use a condom.

If you don’t use a condom, get tested regularly together and show each other the results.

RED FLAG 

Doesn’t meet allowance. If he owes you $500 per meet and misses a meet, he needs to bring it to the next meet, or else he’s breaking the terms of the arrangement. If it’s the end of the month and he shows up without allowance, he needs to send it to you/bring it to the next meet, or else he’s breaking the terms of the arrangement. Do not let him get comfortable and think of you as a friend or girlfriend. This is a SUGAR ARRANGEMENT. Do not let him treat you like something that you’re not and get sloppy with the reason why we’re here.

Wants to meet your family. Doctor still insists on introducing me to his sisters. Eck. Whatever. But he’s never meeting any of my family. I am not your girlfriend. This is not a relationship. We have no real future together. Read this haiku. It is the anthem of the bowl.

Insists on not using a condom, trying XYZ in bed that makes you uncomfortable. As always, don’t do anything you’re uncomfortable with and let them know. A real SD will put his desires aside for your safety and comcort. If he’s being pushy in bed or otherwise, he’s not there for your best interest.

NON-RED FLAG

Asks about your personal life. It’s not weird for a man to want to know what classes you’re taking or what’s new in your world. He’s not being creepy or nosy, he’s just curious about what makes you tick. He shouldn’t be prying into if you have a boyfriend or anything super specific, but don’t get weirded out if he asks a lot of things about you.

Asks for sexy pics or texts suggestively. After you’re intimate together, this really is fair game to ask. As always, you need not oblige, and if you do, play it safe and don’t include your face or use SnapChat. But just because he’s thinking of sex more doesn’t mean he’s still not invested in being a sugar daddy. If it makes you uncomfortable, say so. If he’s a true SD, he’ll respect your boundaries and get over it.

Is affectionate in public. Just because he likes to hold your hand and kiss you, doesn’t mean he’s thinking of you as a girlfriend and less of an SD and forgetting your arrangement. If PDA makes you uncomfortable and you need a bit more discretion, let him know. But just because he likes your soft skin doesn’t mean he’s going to propose and leave your arrangement in the dust. He might just like your soft skin.

Hates shopping. Not surprisingly, a lot of men hate shopping, especially for women or with women or in women’s stores. So just because he’s not buying you louboutins doesn’t mean he won’t give you the money to buy them yourself. 

IF YOU REMEMBER NOTHING ELSE, REMEMBER THIS:

Your token line is: “I’m not comfortable with that (yet).” Don’t be wishy-washy! If he wants to have sex and you lie and say “Oh uh I’m on my period” he’ll just ask again the next time. Instead, be honest and be firm saying you’re not comfortable with sex, riding in his car, his hand on your leg, meeting his mom, etc. etc. etc. Drop this line WHENEVER you need to say no. It sets the tone that you are the one who sets the boundaries of the relationship and that those boundaries will not be crossed. If a man ever persists against something you’ve blatantly stated makes you uncomfortable, then you know it’s time to end things.

Never let the prospect of money trump the prospect of danger.

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This is hands down the best sugar baby guide post I’ve seen for newbies. It hits on every important and crucial point. It’s straight forward. Organized. And doesn’t drag on. Excellent advice.

[kingrudegyalchina]

I have decided that I don't like to spend money .

[trulynae]

Mann. Who you telling?

[kingrudegyalchina]

My family calls me Mr.

&I’m ok with it .

[vbdul]

We gon save dat money

[kingrudegyalchina]

I Love that song .

[astellababe]

I need to get on this..

[kingrudegyalchina]

10$-40$  a check in savings you spend 20$ on food easy . When you get the urge to spend on bs you don’t need look at your bank activities . Everything  devalues so don’t cop when its hot . Learn how to coupon especially on groceries . If you use the internet more than cable cut the fucking cable . Everything can be streamed live or next day now .

Whats your cell bill look like ??

yall niggas out here paying 1,2,3 stacks for the same plan you can go to Walmart and get for 40$ a month . tmobil , verizon , at&t , cricket , metro all have 30-40$ plans . You can get your phone unlocked or buy and unlocked phone /

Unlimited data , calls , texts .

No contract .

[astellababe]

I just redid my budget last night. I live rent free with gma so rent isn’t a problem. I cut spotify. I don’t have Internet but i am moving in 4 months so i upgraded my phone bill to include mobile hotspot instead so i can look for jobs on my laptop before and after the move (which brings my phone bill to $56 a month.) My problem is the understanding that everything devalues. When I’m out having a good time, i get the impulse to spend (the more the merrier mentality). So I’ve stopped going out so much and let my closest friends know I’m saving to move so i won’t be able to enjoy the festivities for a while.

[maeday-universe]

I don’t know how to budget. Someone give assistance or ideas. This is serious

[kingrudegyalchina]

@howtogrowup​

[kingrudegyalchina]

@maeday-universe​

YOU DO NOT NEED A FUCKING WIRLES PRINTER - YOU CAN EMAIL YOURSELF THIS SHIT ALSO HIT ME UP FOR APPS . I OVERLOADED YOU ON PURPOSE GO FORTH AND LEARN . SHES

DEAD ASS RAMBLING SOME O THE SHIT SHES IS SAYING IS IIGHT . BUT YOU DONT NEED TO BUY COUPONS THEY ARE AVAILABLE ONLINE . 

( THIS :)

[kingrudegyalchina]

chill LINK ME UP FOR APPS AND OTHER SHIT = plus you reposted an unfinish post - anyhow g this lady breaks it down for you .

some coupon websites :

http://bricks.coupons.com/

https://www.pgeveryday.com/tag/printable-coupons

https://dg.coupons.com/coupons/

@maeday-universe @badgyal-k

[badgyal-k-deactivated20190901]

Laad ave mercy thank u baby love!

[kingrudegyalchina]

Don’t worry I’m still learning I think I have saved maybe 300$ on my first grocery ride . That’s including cleaning products but I made mistakes and after search for some of this shit I learned more stuff . It’s a lot no lie but it helps . I need to make a grocery budget .

[kingrudegyalchina]

Rb again because I need to re watch this shit myself tonight because I am currently couponing and matching .

Also y'all

Don’t forget about the coupons , BOGOs and store apps .

Feel free to seduce my ask box so I can spam you with other apps

Hallaaaa

Oh I kinda want to start a coupon text group I guess idk . Lmk if y'all down Text free app - cause I don’t give out to my number . Oh also : http://couponcommunity-blog.tumblr.com/post/20964143398/how-do-you-find-coupons

Couponing in college http://thekrazycouponlady.com/tips/couponing/a-college-students-guide-to-extreme-couponing/

Couponing 101 http://thekrazycouponlady.com/2012/08/05/couponing-101-watch-and-learn-how-to-shop-with-coupons/

[mrdavisspeaksout]

Reblog to save some ones wallet

[onlytwitterpics]

[luvlylifting]

how to de-tag using a golf detacher

[liftinlolita]

@ everyone 

[we-love-short-videos-blog]

this is strangely adorable

[rathsin]

NOOO THIS IS SO CUTE!!!! OH NO!!!! THE FUTURE IS HERE AND IT IS ADORABLE!!!

[breaktotheotherside]

*powoop* *pewoo pewoo*

[breaktotheotherside]

reblogging this again because you people need to see this

robot: “how is your stay?” person: *taps 5 stars* robot: *pewoooooo!*

[thatsthat24]

Isn’t this how the events of Wall-E start?

[mysterylifts-blog]

Which stores have magnet detectors?

I’ve been looking for the master post forever but i still cant find it 😒 HELP

[yourlocalbrokebitch]

So far i only know of forever 21 and urban outfitters but I'm sure there are more

[yourlocalbrokebitch]

Excited

so excited to get back on this shit about to cop a golf detacher.This is about to get very serious lol

[yourlocalbrokebitch]

brokebitch again

guys i just spent hella money on school so i am officially a broke bitch again :) SO IM BACK LOL

[stealyprincess]

i was wondering do any lifters dine and dash? idk i was just thinkin abt it and i know ppl lift food but is that a thing lifters do?

[lifing-little-secret-blog]

I would try that but a lot of places around me if someone skips out on paying for the meal it usually comes out of the waiters pay

[stealyprincess]

i feel that. idk i never have but if i did i would like leave a huge tip lmfao

[ittybittyliftingcommittee-blog]

It’s illegal to take it out of someone’s pay, just like with shoplifting. That doesn’t mean it doesn’t happen but I’ve never worked anywhere that made me pay for someone who skipped out. I have had managers take the tip from that table and put it towards the cost of the meal though. I honestly wouldn’t but I’m a waitress so it’s more personal to me.

[princessklepto]

i dined and dashed on a $6 bill at steak n shake at like 1 AM because we were all drunk as fuck and hungry after running from the police and me puking three times

also i stole four gift cards with nothing on them and my friend took a milkshake cup

[ittybittyliftingcommittee-blog]

That story is gonna be so much fun to tell at family gatherings when you’re 80

[princessklepto]

honestly I’m so excited to tell it the funniest part is that it gets wilder

we almost bought a dog at the party we were at and then after we got picked up one of my friends was really drunk and kept saying my friend hit the dog and convinced everyone she actually did

also while we were running from the cops the same drunk friend refused to give me her phone because she thought it was funny and I kept chasing after her trying to get it so we could call our dd who basically stole my car and she kept giggling and running in a circle going “ahahaha you’re following me!! hahahaha!!” it was torture

we heard there were cops at the party so we started to leave then we turned around to go back downstairs because we thought people were bullshitting and we came face to face with a cop and he just goes “you guys have 30 seconds to leave” and we hauled ass out scariest moment ever

definitely a crazy ass night, we ended it with Fritos and a few blunts at my friend’s house

[stealyprincess]

yo when can we fucking party together jfc

[princessklepto]

dude one day I’m gonna throw a huge lifter rager and we’re gonna party hard it’s gonna be lit as fuck

[stealyprincess]

yaasss bitch. awe but think abt how sweet tht would b like everyone could lift lil party foods and alc for the party we could all bond over lifting and then get totally fucked up ah, in my dreams

[swifterlifter-deactivated201610]

Yeah they can’t take out of waiters/waitresses pay. Some places give them like 2.25 an hour and the tips usually pay the rest out and then some. And if they didn’t get enough tips to make minimum wage the restaurant will pay the rest. I still wouldn’t do it tho just bc I’d wanna leave a tip.

[liftinlolita]

that’s way too far for me can’t do it.

[almostenchantingcupcake]

As far as dine n dash goes. It’s not legal to take out of someone’s paycheck but restaurants do get away with it. I made good money at a waitressing job. The rule was if they dashed you had to pay. People just did it to keep their shifts. It did come out of my pockets twice, not to mention the restaurant was always packed The people who dined and dashed took money from my pocket from the check and also $40+ in tips minimum. Lots of restaurants still hold employees responsible esp if they are privately owned and not franchises and the like. Take it from someone who bartended and waitressed and busted their ass for over ten years. Dine and dash also screws with the tip out percentage to the server assistants and bartenders. Always be kind to your restaurant servers. :) Sometimes they may not deserve it, but it’s a thankless and stressful job.

[gayestlifter-deactivated2016032]

Please don’t dine and dash. Waiters make around 5 dollars an hour, and if you ‘left a huge tip’, it would go towards paying the bill you skipped out on, not the server .

[lifter-sphie-blog]

As a someone who used to be a waitress, my boss told me that if someone dined and dashed, then we were held responsible if we weren’t paying “well enough attention” to the customers, so basically he gets to decide if someone who dines and dashes is my problem or not

[yourlocalbrokebitch]

I'm currently a waitress and I share tips with my coworkers who ever worked that day.So if you dine and dash they deduct it from the tip jar so everyone loses tip :/

[awesomevines]

[kaible-deactivated20181205]

they scream for their fallen breathren

[dosomethingprettywhileyoucan]

Money spell! Reblog to charge it with your intent; the more people see it, the more powerful it becomes. Magic should be fun!

[tempestttossed-deactivated20170]

NOW THIS MONEY POST I AM HERE FOR

[deadgorl]

this actually does work the witches of tumblr really are out here doing something lol

[kvtrina-deactivated20151106]

well it better work or else I’m gonna cry I need to make rent h0e

[mollyfrank49]

Dear Fuck Boys,

Thank you for making us numb. It is an honor and a privilege to bow down to your every whim, with you leaving unexpectedly in the middle of the night. Thank you for making it nearly impossible to figure out whether you want to just hook up, or actually caring about my heart and mind on a deeper level. Thank you for making me feel like the only worth I have is between my legs and that my mouth should be used for only one thing. Thank you for making me feel insane as I sit alone in my room thinking “why isn’t he texting me back, did I do something wrong last night”. Thank you for leaving right when you have had your fill. Thank you for making us feel nothing anymore. Cheers to you fuck boys. At least I know when I go to bed at night, the someone who I will spend the rest of my life with will be thinking about me also. That he is waiting for me to come around someday. He will be the one who will stick around. Thank you for taking your time to have me realize that you are no more than only a speck of the love I will feel in my entire life. Thank you for teaching me what love isn’t, so when true love comes around, I will have my breath taken away. Thank you.