How to not attract creepy fucks:
Don’t sound illiterate in your profile. Talk about your goals, dreams, passions. Bring up things you want to do - not buy. Be clear. Be assertive.
Don’t put your lifestyle expectations as “Negotiable.” Be greedy. Put it as “Moderate” or “Substantial” (what I put) and live by it and more importantly up to it.
Face picture, smiling as profile photo, little to no cleavage. Full body dressed normally/classy in the Public. Slightly sexier body in the Private, if any.
If you’re gonna respond to people who call you babe, baby, hun etc., right off the bat, don’t be nice.
Say “fuck no.” more often, but be nice.
Read “The Art of Seduction,” figure out which you are (I’m the siren) and play it up. Be dramatic with it - it works 9.5/10 times.
DON’T BRING UP MONEY UNLESS THEY BRING UP SEX EXPLICITLY.
Manners and openness. Don’t make it feel too business. Make them feel wanted. Make yourself feel wanted.
TELL THEM EXACTLY WHAT YOU WANT. No: “i’m looking for…” or “I was thinking…” Yes: “I want…”
When it comes to sex, I am in the middle - if they are offering a pay-per-meet, I’ll tell them $1000-$2000, depending on how much I think they have, and do it;they stay around. If they want a trial run, tell them to fuck themselves.
FOLLOW UP. Tell them you had a great time, and you’d love to see them again. They WILL see you again.
Get all their info. Look it up. Verify
This isn’t match.com - bring up the allowance and gifts aspect.
Listen to what they say: if they say they have a wife, 9/10 times they are bored and want excitement. If they ask you if you missed them, 9/10 times they want someone who will crave them, and let them know how great they are. PLAY ALONG. Don’t try to act hard to get. Be easy for them to get, by playing along to stay in control.
Be exciting still: seem more interested than the first meet, be more open - but don’t tell too much. I’d advise acting slightly sexier. Kiss them. Touch their arm. Let them know you want to choose them if you both get what you want. Fake genuinety. If you are naturally engine, play it up.
FOLLOW UP again. I advise meeting with a POT who you are interested in more than once per week, until you are in an arrangement. It saves the awkwardness of “should I text them” four days after, when nothing is being spoken of, even though you both explicitly stated desire to see each other. Trust me. Meet them for the first meet and second meet a day or two apart.
“I miss you,” “thinking about you,” “hope you are doing well,” texts get you everything. Play up your emotions and theirs will follow.
Don’t be too available. Keep them waiting, wanting. Cancel some times, but send a sexy pic. Be late, and tell them how sorry you are and how you’ll make it up to them. Keep them on their toes, by being on yours.
Be fucking open. if they want the perfect girl, tell them to hire an escort. You’re human. They are a guest in your life. Hence, keep it your life. Tell them about your day, don’t let them do all the talking (except on the first meets), but don’t do all the talking. Make them feel apart of yours, and they will want to stay there.
Get what you want by asking. If they are your SD, they know what their part is. Don’t think “maybe they’ll get the hint…” TELL THEM THE FUCKING HINT. Nobody can read your mind. Especially an SD’s whose mind usually is off when he’s with you.
Increase your worth, through looks, availability, experience. Look better. Be less available, busier. Be more seductive, play up your role in their life more. Become priceless, to them, and they stay.
