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Hey everyone, my friend on campus told me I might like looking at some stuff here? Um, don't expect me to be posting much, I'm mostly making this to get past the login wall some of you put up.
She/Her, however they/them is acceptable
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I pretend to be my Alolan Vulpix over at @snowy-thesis sometimes
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//[OOC Notes Below Cut]
It is always a good feeling to be finished with your finals.
Thankfully it seems that my nervousness was most likely unwarranted once again for the finals I have completed so far. We will see once my grades come back after I finish everything this week.
It is extremely strange being in classes that have both graduate and undergraduate students in them. For the first year of your graduate studies you have this strange period where many classes have an extra hour every day or maybe an extra week instead just for those who already have a bachelor's degree.
//Updated Lillie's IC header to reflect that she's a graduate student now. No other announcement of this on her blog at this time
Well, I am officially done with my undergraduate coursework. I am concerned about some of the questions on my finals; it is rather nerve wracking waiting for the results to come back
The dangers of potentially dating a nerds: they might get distracted by such things as roleplay opportunities instead of focusing on other activities
[@/counting-wooloo has been blocked and reported]
I am not sure why I bother looking through the tags on this website sometimes. At least it is not as bad as some other days, but this place can be exhausting.
Nevermind. I just saw some new posts that are telling me to log off for the day.
I am not sure why I bother looking through the tags on this website sometimes. At least it is not as bad as some other days, but this place can be exhausting.
The professor's niece and nephew have arrived...
This might seem mean, but they aren't like the children I was raised around...except maybe my brother. Towards the end. However, they are very...loud, and lack filters. The boy--his name is Elio--is a lot more louder and has very little sense of personal space compared to his sister, Selene. She's a lot quieter, but was loud when she wanted to be. We sat in silence for a lot of the time, and let Elio talk. They both also insisted I call them 'Sun(Elio) and Moon(Selene)', and under normal circumstances I would have but I don't believe I'm close enough to them to use nicknames. Besides, nicknames are very improper to use... I avoided their mother almost too much to be socially acceptable, though. She seemed nice, but looks can be deceiving. I didn't want to bring this up to the professor because I don't wish to offend him, or the twins themselves...that's the last thing I wish to do right now.
I am afraid not using the nickname would be improper to do so now. They informed you of their preferred name, so it is not a nickname that you have assigned them which would require familiarity, but one they have requested.
That said, good job! Meeting someone new can be pretty hard, especially given some circumstances or if you are not used to boisterous personalities. I am certain the professor is proud of you for giving your best shot.
Oh...you're right. I didn't think about that. The names are just very...unusual, for nicknames. Arceus knows mother would have forbidden me from even talking to the twins purely because of that. I'll be sure to call them by their preferred names from now on... Thank you, I think. I'm unsure if I really deserve such praise...all I did was introduce myself and Snowy, and then sat at the table and listened to Sun ramble...I didn't do much to aid in social interaction. They caught me off-guard, though I'll be trying to keep up next time.
First steps are often the hardest. I am sure that they can appreciate that you are trying your best. As to contribution: in my experience someone that enjoys talking but still cares about those engaging with appreciates having an audience that listens, especially a new one that is willing to give them a chance with their topics of choice.
// is there something we can call you ooc? I've never found a name listed so I've never been sure
//You can call me the name of any of my adult characters, including Astra's OC, honestly
//If you're in one of the various discord servers I'm in with me, you can use what I have in intros there, but if you're not... well, adult characters names it is. So pick from Astra, Moon, Lillie, and 457-R4-1701 I suppose.
//Sorry about brain being like this on this topic. Anyways, have a poll about it because I'm feeling silly
WHICH ARE YOU INCLINED TO USE FOR ME
ASTRA
MOON
LILLIE
457-R4-1701
I KNOW YOUR DISCORD NAME PREF AND WILL USE THAT
The professor's niece and nephew have arrived...
This might seem mean, but they aren't like the children I was raised around...except maybe my brother. Towards the end. However, they are very...loud, and lack filters. The boy--his name is Elio--is a lot more louder and has very little sense of personal space compared to his sister, Selene. She's a lot quieter, but was loud when she wanted to be. We sat in silence for a lot of the time, and let Elio talk. They both also insisted I call them 'Sun(Elio) and Moon(Selene)', and under normal circumstances I would have but I don't believe I'm close enough to them to use nicknames. Besides, nicknames are very improper to use... I avoided their mother almost too much to be socially acceptable, though. She seemed nice, but looks can be deceiving. I didn't want to bring this up to the professor because I don't wish to offend him, or the twins themselves...that's the last thing I wish to do right now.
I am afraid not using the nickname would be improper to do so now. They informed you of their preferred name, so it is not a nickname that you have assigned them which would require familiarity, but one they have requested.
That said, good job! Meeting someone new can be pretty hard, especially given some circumstances or if you are not used to boisterous personalities. I am certain the professor is proud of you for giving your best shot.
For my one-month anniversary for staying with the professor, he got me a alolan vulpix...uhm. She's very small. I'm scared I'm gonna to mess up when taking care of her...sorry, but I need to ask if anybody knows how to take care of one?
Brush and walk them regularly. They are very curious and need a lot of play and mental stimulation. Toys, regular talking to, novel challenges with treats as a reward, etc.
I would also highly recommend you find a place that is safe for them to dig, as most will have a drive to dig a den.
Toilet train them ASAP. Foxmon can be bad about that if you do not get started early.
Get them used to being bathed young. You can only really get most of them accustomed to water and bathing if you manage it as an infant or very young. There are exceptions, but you cannot count on it.
Also introduce them to being around humans early. Be sure to teach them "no", heeling, and walking near you. They are not quite as predictable as dogmon, but they still are more inclined to such training than felines.
You are going to also want a large area they can safely run around.
Be aware of tree climbing. They do it sometimes. They are not the best at getting down, but are much more able to do so than, say, a litten.
Have a hiding spot made available for them inside.
Thank you, uh, Ms(I think...I'm really sorry if not!). Uhm, I think she's already toilet trained? The professor said so, I think...I'm not sure, my memory can be fuzzy sometimes...but I think she is. I'll be sure to ask the professor if she's trained to heel or not...if not, I'm sure I can figure it out. Or not. Probably not... I'll have to take her outside to go on walks and to dig and be mentally happy. Oh. I didn't think about that. Oh no. I should give her back to the professor. Sorry, sorry, but I don't think I can do this. Sorry. I know this is really cruel of me to just give her back but I can't go outside so I can't take care of her properly. I'm so sorry. I just can't. Oh, but the professor probably spent such a long time thinking about her and training her and I just can't give her back.
You are correct, it's Ms.
That said, I am certain he thought through such things. Talk over your concerns with him, alright? I am sure he's thought about this as well. Likely something akin to him walking her, or a secluded location has been considered.
That said, I am certain you can figure out how to do any needed training with a little bit of research. You even have the professor to give advice.
...you're right. Silly me. Sorry about that whole...thing, I have a tendency to ramble when I'm nervous...I suppose that translates over to typing. Sorry. I'm sure I worried you, I won't do that again, I promise. Sorry... And yes, I could inquire with the professor about this...he probably won't mind, right? But then again, I'm probably stressing him out enough...he's been so kind to me already, I don't want to push more...
You are perfectly fine. I used to have a large amount of anxiety and self confidence issues, so I know how it can be. There is no need to apologize, but if you feel one is required, try to notice if you are in an emotional rush and take as long as you need if you are. It is ok if it is difficult, it is something you need to practice.
As for the professor, he is the one who got you the alolan vulpix, no? While hosting you? I would imagine he is expecting you to ask questions as a responsible owner who is still learning.
...right. Okay. I'll work on that. I'll get better at it, I promise! I won't do it again. It's just...another thing I have to work on. Yes, he did. You're right again. I should have known...my apologies. I hope you're better...I still need to improve on myself to be like that. Like you. I'll ask the professor about her...I should have known it was a test. I wasn't thinking properly...I'll work on it more. Clear-headedness is a must-have.
it takes time, and it is hard work, but yes, I am much more self confident and comfortable with myself. You want it, and you seem to be willing to attempt to put in the work. That matters a very large amount. That can be the hardest hurdle for some, acknowledging that it is an issue that needs to be worked on and deciding to truly put in the work.
I do have a word of advice that may or may not be helpful for you: you are allowed to say that you will try your best instead of that you will do something. The difference in phrasing can matter for some when you are in the pits of low confidence. After all, if you truly did try your best, then it simply is a learning experience.
A tough truth of the climb is that you will fail and backslide sometimes. However, that might truly be the best attempt you could manage at the time. You have to give yourself permission to fail as well as to succeed. If you can reframe failures as learning experiences, instead of broken promises, it can help a very large amount. At least, it did for me.
I...see. I. Hm. I just...sorry. I don't believe I've ever been told this before...apologies for the late reply. I didn't know what to say...uhm. I'll...work on it, I think. I dunno.
Sorry. I don't know what I'm doing. Uhm. I'll...try and take your advice. I'm...beginning to think the way I was raised wasn't normal. Uhm. Sorry.
It is quite alright. Take your time to process things if you need to. That being said, I will let you in on a little secret: no one, including adults, truly knows what we are doing. We all are simply trying out best.
I...see. Uhm. I think there is one exception to that rule...sorry, I was getting personal there. Uhm. Thank you for the advice...I greatly appreciate it. Uhm. I named the vulpix Snowy, by the way. Just wanted to let you know...I've never seen snow before so it felt like it fit...
There are those who are not trying their best, that is true, I know from personal experience as well, but I did not wish to get too bogged down in the details while giving you general advice. That said, I am glad you are considering my advice.
As for the alolan vulpix: a very classic name. I have one as well, and I sometimes roleplay as her on here, as it is a way to have silly fun.
For my one-month anniversary for staying with the professor, he got me a alolan vulpix...uhm. She's very small. I'm scared I'm gonna to mess up when taking care of her...sorry, but I need to ask if anybody knows how to take care of one?
Brush and walk them regularly. They are very curious and need a lot of play and mental stimulation. Toys, regular talking to, novel challenges with treats as a reward, etc.
I would also highly recommend you find a place that is safe for them to dig, as most will have a drive to dig a den.
Toilet train them ASAP. Foxmon can be bad about that if you do not get started early.
Get them used to being bathed young. You can only really get most of them accustomed to water and bathing if you manage it as an infant or very young. There are exceptions, but you cannot count on it.
Also introduce them to being around humans early. Be sure to teach them "no", heeling, and walking near you. They are not quite as predictable as dogmon, but they still are more inclined to such training than felines.
You are going to also want a large area they can safely run around.
Be aware of tree climbing. They do it sometimes. They are not the best at getting down, but are much more able to do so than, say, a litten.
Have a hiding spot made available for them inside.
Thank you, uh, Ms(I think...I'm really sorry if not!). Uhm, I think she's already toilet trained? The professor said so, I think...I'm not sure, my memory can be fuzzy sometimes...but I think she is. I'll be sure to ask the professor if she's trained to heel or not...if not, I'm sure I can figure it out. Or not. Probably not... I'll have to take her outside to go on walks and to dig and be mentally happy. Oh. I didn't think about that. Oh no. I should give her back to the professor. Sorry, sorry, but I don't think I can do this. Sorry. I know this is really cruel of me to just give her back but I can't go outside so I can't take care of her properly. I'm so sorry. I just can't. Oh, but the professor probably spent such a long time thinking about her and training her and I just can't give her back.
You are correct, it's Ms.
That said, I am certain he thought through such things. Talk over your concerns with him, alright? I am sure he's thought about this as well. Likely something akin to him walking her, or a secluded location has been considered.
That said, I am certain you can figure out how to do any needed training with a little bit of research. You even have the professor to give advice.
...you're right. Silly me. Sorry about that whole...thing, I have a tendency to ramble when I'm nervous...I suppose that translates over to typing. Sorry. I'm sure I worried you, I won't do that again, I promise. Sorry... And yes, I could inquire with the professor about this...he probably won't mind, right? But then again, I'm probably stressing him out enough...he's been so kind to me already, I don't want to push more...
You are perfectly fine. I used to have a large amount of anxiety and self confidence issues, so I know how it can be. There is no need to apologize, but if you feel one is required, try to notice if you are in an emotional rush and take as long as you need if you are. It is ok if it is difficult, it is something you need to practice.
As for the professor, he is the one who got you the alolan vulpix, no? While hosting you? I would imagine he is expecting you to ask questions as a responsible owner who is still learning.
...right. Okay. I'll work on that. I'll get better at it, I promise! I won't do it again. It's just...another thing I have to work on. Yes, he did. You're right again. I should have known...my apologies. I hope you're better...I still need to improve on myself to be like that. Like you. I'll ask the professor about her...I should have known it was a test. I wasn't thinking properly...I'll work on it more. Clear-headedness is a must-have.
it takes time, and it is hard work, but yes, I am much more self confident and comfortable with myself. You want it, and you seem to be willing to attempt to put in the work. That matters a very large amount. That can be the hardest hurdle for some, acknowledging that it is an issue that needs to be worked on and deciding to truly put in the work.
I do have a word of advice that may or may not be helpful for you: you are allowed to say that you will try your best instead of that you will do something. The difference in phrasing can matter for some when you are in the pits of low confidence. After all, if you truly did try your best, then it simply is a learning experience.
A tough truth of the climb is that you will fail and backslide sometimes. However, that might truly be the best attempt you could manage at the time. You have to give yourself permission to fail as well as to succeed. If you can reframe failures as learning experiences, instead of broken promises, it can help a very large amount. At least, it did for me.
I...see. I. Hm. I just...sorry. I don't believe I've ever been told this before...apologies for the late reply. I didn't know what to say...uhm. I'll...work on it, I think. I dunno.
Sorry. I don't know what I'm doing. Uhm. I'll...try and take your advice. I'm...beginning to think the way I was raised wasn't normal. Uhm. Sorry.
It is quite alright. Take your time to process things if you need to. That being said, I will let you in on a little secret: no one, including adults, truly knows what we are doing. We all are simply trying out best.
For my one-month anniversary for staying with the professor, he got me a alolan vulpix...uhm. She's very small. I'm scared I'm gonna to mess up when taking care of her...sorry, but I need to ask if anybody knows how to take care of one?
Brush and walk them regularly. They are very curious and need a lot of play and mental stimulation. Toys, regular talking to, novel challenges with treats as a reward, etc.
I would also highly recommend you find a place that is safe for them to dig, as most will have a drive to dig a den.
Toilet train them ASAP. Foxmon can be bad about that if you do not get started early.
Get them used to being bathed young. You can only really get most of them accustomed to water and bathing if you manage it as an infant or very young. There are exceptions, but you cannot count on it.
Also introduce them to being around humans early. Be sure to teach them "no", heeling, and walking near you. They are not quite as predictable as dogmon, but they still are more inclined to such training than felines.
You are going to also want a large area they can safely run around.
Be aware of tree climbing. They do it sometimes. They are not the best at getting down, but are much more able to do so than, say, a litten.
Have a hiding spot made available for them inside.
Thank you, uh, Ms(I think...I'm really sorry if not!). Uhm, I think she's already toilet trained? The professor said so, I think...I'm not sure, my memory can be fuzzy sometimes...but I think she is. I'll be sure to ask the professor if she's trained to heel or not...if not, I'm sure I can figure it out. Or not. Probably not... I'll have to take her outside to go on walks and to dig and be mentally happy. Oh. I didn't think about that. Oh no. I should give her back to the professor. Sorry, sorry, but I don't think I can do this. Sorry. I know this is really cruel of me to just give her back but I can't go outside so I can't take care of her properly. I'm so sorry. I just can't. Oh, but the professor probably spent such a long time thinking about her and training her and I just can't give her back.
You are correct, it's Ms.
That said, I am certain he thought through such things. Talk over your concerns with him, alright? I am sure he's thought about this as well. Likely something akin to him walking her, or a secluded location has been considered.
That said, I am certain you can figure out how to do any needed training with a little bit of research. You even have the professor to give advice.
...you're right. Silly me. Sorry about that whole...thing, I have a tendency to ramble when I'm nervous...I suppose that translates over to typing. Sorry. I'm sure I worried you, I won't do that again, I promise. Sorry... And yes, I could inquire with the professor about this...he probably won't mind, right? But then again, I'm probably stressing him out enough...he's been so kind to me already, I don't want to push more...
You are perfectly fine. I used to have a large amount of anxiety and self confidence issues, so I know how it can be. There is no need to apologize, but if you feel one is required, try to notice if you are in an emotional rush and take as long as you need if you are. It is ok if it is difficult, it is something you need to practice.
As for the professor, he is the one who got you the alolan vulpix, no? While hosting you? I would imagine he is expecting you to ask questions as a responsible owner who is still learning.
...right. Okay. I'll work on that. I'll get better at it, I promise! I won't do it again. It's just...another thing I have to work on. Yes, he did. You're right again. I should have known...my apologies. I hope you're better...I still need to improve on myself to be like that. Like you. I'll ask the professor about her...I should have known it was a test. I wasn't thinking properly...I'll work on it more. Clear-headedness is a must-have.
it takes time, and it is hard work, but yes, I am much more self confident and comfortable with myself. You want it, and you seem to be willing to attempt to put in the work. That matters a very large amount. That can be the hardest hurdle for some, acknowledging that it is an issue that needs to be worked on and deciding to truly put in the work.
I do have a word of advice that may or may not be helpful for you: you are allowed to say that you will try your best instead of that you will do something. The difference in phrasing can matter for some when you are in the pits of low confidence. After all, if you truly did try your best, then it simply is a learning experience.
A tough truth of the climb is that you will fail and backslide sometimes. However, that might truly be the best attempt you could manage at the time. You have to give yourself permission to fail as well as to succeed. If you can reframe failures as learning experiences, instead of broken promises, it can help a very large amount. At least, it did for me.
So like...what's it like interacting with a younger version of yourself? Is she exactly like you or are there differences because that has to be so weird.
What do you mean?
