it’s so funny how when a lesbian says something as simple as “i don’t want to see a whole ass dick in skimpy underwear” men will always catastrophize it (“tucking is PAINFUL do you want her to be in PAIN”).
When women present a simple, reasonable boundary (eg.“i don’t want to see your dick”) men will always try to over-complicate it and guilt them into rescinding it. One of the most dramatic ways of doing so is to create a scenario where the woman’s boundary causes the boundary-crosser extreme physical or psychological pain (”blue balls” is a famous example.)























