I think one of the wildest parts about discovering you're asexual is realizing almost everyone else isn't.

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I think one of the wildest parts about discovering you're asexual is realizing almost everyone else isn't.
god im reading a text about romance fiction (especially targeted at young adults) for class and one sentence in it literally made my brain explode because ive been thinking about this kind of stuff too, how “Many people wouldn’t fall in love if they’ve never heard about it before.” and like…imagine there was no ideal/overaccentuated image of love and romance painted in postmodern mass media….how would we love? would it be purer? more authentic? what would we do differently? would we fall in love at all if we werent constantly being fed an ideal concept of love as the norm in mass media? like what is a natural process of human feelings and what is just a projection of how we want to love and want to be loved based on what we’ve seen on tv and read in books etc? in this essay i will
w … wh … where’s the rest of the essay, op?
wish i lived in this world @i-suggest-lovelessness @i-suggest-loveless-romance
We have a suggestion!
try not to see two characters caring for each other as romantic challenge: IMPOSSIBLE
taking a break from tour posting for this important reminder
we're better than everyone actually
Sometimes I wake up and I’m like “If I hear about romance today I’m killing the hostages”
Aros Create Pride 2026
Hey, all! I'm here posting this because I'm volunteering to host ACP this year (I'm an AUREA volunteer and participated last year), and I'm trying to get the word out. Aros Create Pride is back!!!
What is Aromantics Create Pride?
This is a celebration of works created by aromantics. If desired, the content will be shared and positive commentary will be given to all submitted works. Your creation can be written, visual, audio, video, or anything else that can be viewed online or shared in a private zoom meeting.
The submitted works do not have to be aro-themed, though we do encourage that you take this event and Pride month as an opportunity to put more aro content out into the world.
This event is not limited to any platform, though updates can be found on tumblr, facebook, and instagram. Submissions are open from July 5th to July 31st.
The submission form is here: https://forms.gle/rhrz6SsqeMrnveEF6
How does this event work?
The first step is for creators to submit their works.
Then, based on submissions, we will set a date for a zoom call when most folks can be available. During the call, participants will be invited to share their creation and receive feedback.. We will focus on positive, celebratory feedback, with room for questions and, only if you want, more constructive feedback.
For folks who are unable to make the call or do not wish to participate, all works will be shared virtually among participants, with everyone encouraged to provide positive comments on at least three works.
Your work must be accessible online via a link. You can use any platform that allows free, public access. While we would love to share and publicize your work, if you prefer for your work to remain private, you may use a private-access link, such as ones used for sharing google documents. Links will be shared only among Aros Create Pride participants and facilitators.
The submission form will ask what is being submitted, i.e. art, prose, music, etc.; content warnings (CW), if any, for the work; and a way to contact you. It will also ask for your time zone for scheduling and whether you prefer for your work to be shared publicly or shared only with Aro Create Pride participants and facilitators.
Once submissions close, we will set a date and time for the zoom call and share works among participants and facilitators. You are encouraged to provide comments for works that prioritise positivity and friendliness. This event is meant to inspire collaboration, visibility, and connection. Please do not provide constructive feedback unless explicitly requested by the creator.
At the end of the event we will share all works that creators would like to share publicly on our newsfeed. For an example, you can see last year’s collection here.
If you have any further questions or comments, contact us at [email protected].
Guidelines
Both original and fan works are allowed. Works may be completed or in progress. We ask that you limit your submission to one piece (for example, a short story as opposed to multi-chapter work) and one entry. The piece should be:
Art: 1 complete visual piece to 5-piece collection
Comic: 1 comic of 3 to 10 pages
Everyday creations: 1 item, taking at least 1 hour to make, photographed, with a description
Handmade items: 1 item, taking at least 2 hours to make, photographed, with a short description
Photography: 3- to 10-piece collection
Poetry: 1 poem, no shorter than 70 words, to 5 poems, each no longer than 400 words
Prose: 1 piece of 3 thousand to 15 thousand words
Song: 1 recorded piece, vocal, instrumental, or both
Video: 1 video of 1 minute to 30 minutes
Art can include traditional and digital drawings, fan videos, edits, etc. Prose can be fiction or nonfiction. Everyday creations would include things like baking or flower compositions. Handmade items would cover such things as: clothes-making, embroidery, pin, patch or badge making, sculpture, or woodwork. If you aren’t sure about a piece, feel free to contact us.
Works that contain potentially triggering or discomforting content are allowed, but we ask that you list this information before sharing your work in any way. You can use this list of common themes to warn for as reference. This way, folks can take care of themselves as needed and enjoy content with less risk.
Important Dates
July 5th: Sign-ups open
July 31st: Sign-ups close
August 8th: We will send out an email with the time and date of the call, as well as links to enjoy and comment on everyone’s work
Mid-August: We will meet on zoom to share and celebrate each other’s work
September: The collection of all submitted works will be posted here on the website
Please feel free to respond to this post with any questions as well.
@aromantic-official @aro-prompts @aroaessidhe @aroacesafeplaceforall @aromanticofficial @arospecawarenessweek @actuallysafe-for-aro @i-suggest-aro @just-aro @our-arospec-experience @aro-ace-culture-is @this-is-aromantic-joy @aggressivelyarospec @arospec-acespec
Please help boost! It looks like whoever is in charge of the AUREA newsfeed isn't available, as we haven't been able to get this posted, so I'm afraid reach isn't going to be as big this year.
Guys ACP is back!
@our-aro-experience @our-arospec-experience @our-aroace-experience @our-demiromantic-experience @our-greyromantic-experience @greyro-problems
Also
@this-is-arophobia (for reach) @this-is-aromantic-joy @this-is-aroace-joy @sortingmyideas
This sounds awesome! I'm not sure I'll participate but I'd like to spread the word regardless!
"Quit making asexual your whole personality" How about you quit making romance and sex your whole personality. No? Then shut up
entering my problematic arc but problematic means having grown fed up with allos and aphobes and being done with tiptoeing around upsetting them while they treat us like shit
god I just
I fucking hate allos
I just need to say it
I have a sunburn this is clearly aphobic wtf man
I love how my breakdowns always either consist of an obscene amount of self hatred or an obscene amount of hatred towards allos specifically and both involve publicly posting about it and making it everyone else's problem
deeply annoying that when for once there is a pretty popular aroace headcanon, people immediately start writing essays about how they dont agree with that (and act like they are being so Smart and Brave for saying that.
Fandom is never beating the aphobia allegations (allegations just fact but yknow)
me as a teenager: man it sucks to have no privacy or autonomy but i guess its for a good reason. when i turn 18 i will realise how young i was and understand why they did all that.
me as an adult: teenagers are an oppressed class, their abuse is normalised and systemic and they need to start killing people
as far as i'm concerned, all romances are unnecessary romances
I wish real life worked like that Tomodachi game in that people couldn't fall in love with you if you weren't capable of reciprocating.
If anyone genuinely were to find me attractive I think I would want to explode them. I'm too fucking repulsed for this bullshit.
The quickest and easiest way to ruin something for me is to put romance in it