Unnecessary Social Comentary

TRY NOT BE TOO OFFENDED!! I basically go on long winded rants about shit in society that either pisses me off, makes me happy, makes sad, and all the feels. But, besides that, i talk about whatever the hell i want. i am always up for debating!! l❤️ve yall

[zephw]

Okay but this

[zephw]

Crush my heart and I'll kill you

But i dont believe you will

Reality, maybe

The truth, maybe

But not you

Never you.

[zephw]

Although beautiful, the cover of your book doesnt do much justice to the content inside.

[zephw]

I dont know you

But i want to know you

And thats the most beautiful part

The longing to know another as much as you know yourself

To want be with one as though youre kin

THAT is the most beautiful part

[zephw]

i used to think of myself as the moon.

But with you, im the sun.

My light seeks out what lurks in your moons darkness.

Youre the moon, bright, beautiful, mysterious, untouchable, unreachable

And i am the sun big bright and gassed up to be with you.

[zephw]

Lol a good amount of the things i post is social or political commentary but the picture of ROCKS got 95 likes ?? 😂😂😂

[zephw]

Toxic masculinity runs RAMPANT in the black community. We have very specific standards for what defines a man and if you dont meet them, then you must not be a man but thats bullshit. There is no one definition of a man. Period. I understand tradition, trust me, i do. But, we are evolving the social climate is changing, nothing is the same and there is less and less room for "tradition". Our generation is steering further away from it everyday, every child thats born. You do slick shit and say slick shit to hurt and suppress us because your traditional values matter more than our feelings but all your doing is building up resentment towards your damn self within US.

The best and smartest thing you could do is talk to your kid, do a bit of your own research (if you must) and just try to understand and accept them to the best of your ability.

[zephw]

I feel like theres a lot of supression in the black community. OUR community. Whether its religious reasons, morality, or just tradition. We often times hold each other back JUST to fit our own norms. A boy cant dress how he wants or else your community will ridicule you.

[zephw]

I think we all need to acknowledge the affects of depression on a greater scale instead of just sadness because to be 100% honest its not. This post and many studies before that prove this.

[zephw]

hey, living is a BIG job. Give yourself some credit.

[zephw]

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[zephw]

Ooo pretty blue lace agate!!

[zephw]

We need to destroy the past and build a better future with its pieces.

[zephw]

I cant stress enough how much i hate our parents generation. lemme rephrase that, i cant stress enough how much i hate the MINDSET of the DARK AGEISTS in our parents gen. Im sorry dude, but they are complete dumbasses. They only operate in stupidity. And im super glad our generation is steering VERY CLEAR from their toxic thinking. Im glad we're steering in a direction of caring for our childrens emotions and helping them when they're in need of OUR help. I cant wait to breathe the fresh air of change.

[zephw]

I know this has been touched on before, but what the hell. Why cant women do certain things that guys can or else society deems her a hoe or something worse... its freaking ridiculous.

[zephw]

You cant tell me there werent moments where agatha seemed slightly genuine to her approach with wanda (slight further backing up my theory). Making her face all her issue as if to recognize them as trauma and a real problem in order for her to realize she needs a therapist, not the revival of her dead hubby, dead brother, and some reimagining of the kids shes always wanted.

[oodlenoodleroodle]

I’m getting fed up with this whole “feminism as an identity” thing. Time for “feminism as an action.”

So instead of asking “can a feminist do x?” ask “is doing x a feminist action!”

Can a feminist take her husband’s last name? Mu. Null. Question un-valid, please un-ask question.

Is taking your husband’s last name a feminist action? No it isn’t. It doesn’t challenge the patriarchy in anyway, it is the status quo thing to do, it is what is expected of women, and it carries a lot of historical baggage about ownership and shit like that.

But that’s okay, your life choices don’t have to be 100% dictated by your politics unless you want them to. And it’s okay to really want to take his name while recognizing that you also want to do the feminist thing and keep your own, and it’s okay to feel conflicted and have a hard time making the choice. But no more of this enabling “as long as I made the choice myself it is a feminist choice” -bullshit. Own your choices, even the ones that aren’t informed by your feminist politics. You are still a human being and people do shit that contradicts their politics and even interests all the time. Just stop pretending that everything you do is feminist because you are a feminist, that’s not how it works.

[hauntedpamplemousse]

^^this is why bell hooks challenges us to say “i support feminist movement” or “i support feminist action” rather than “i am a feminist.” she says that once we say “i am a feminist” and make “feminist” an identity rather than a political movement or a set of beliefs and the actions resulting from those beliefs, we can become complacent and think the battle is over.