Ziggy Gamma

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[shegavemeroses]

album of the day, 0130/?

album: dandelion

artist: ella langley

original release date: april 10th, 2026

tracks: 18

length: 56 minutes

rating: 9/10

first listen: april 13th, 2026

music page

[muzzlesbian]

just saw a post talking about the misogynistic phenomenon of men frequently offloading household tasks to women & expecting us to do them... and describing it as "learned helplessness"

we are putting that term on the shelf

[muzzlesbian]

Learned helplessness is the behavior exhibited by a subject after enduring repeated aversive stimuli beyond their control. In humans, learned helplessness is related to the concept of self-efficacy, the individual's belief in their innate ability to achieve goals.

literal first paragraph of the wikipedia article for learned helplessness. this is a depression symptom. it is frequently caused by lifelong abuse from controlling authority figures. it is the exact OPPOSITE of an abuse tactic and would most likely be displayed by the WOMEN in that kind of scenario!!

the actual relevant term for what the man is doing is probably "weaponized incompetence" which is an abuse tactic. please for the love of fuck do not conflate the two

[existennialmemes]

Adding "learned helplessness" to the list with "trauma bonding" of words people heard once and never looked up because they thought the meaning was obvious from context, but it's not.

[ziggygamma]

THerapy Session #2

This session felt really good at first. But ended with me heartbroken. But I'm gonna keep going so that I can talk to her again. I thought I was doing so well but they said that I'm not ready to speak to her again yet. I need to have more confidence in myself and have more social skills.

[emmaharwoods]

you seem pretty sad for a girl so in love Olivia Rodrigo's new album — June 12, 2026

[ziggygamma]

OH MY GOD NO SHIT IS THIS ALBUM COMING OUT ON MY BIRTHDAY

[ziggygamma]

Went to my first therapy session and they told me I had an all or nothing mindset. And my task for this week is to write down times in all aspects of my life in which I’ve had this mindset of all or nothing.

They also mentioned how I need to be comfortable with being my self versus comfortable with being alone (the reason I sought therapy to begin with) I’ve accepted that I’m not gonna find my person and that I’m gonna die alone. So I figured therapy would be a good way for me to try and become more comfortable with dying without ever being in a relationship. Now I’m more confused than ever. Like I turned my emotions off so that I don’t have to experience this heart ache of knowing everyone has someone but me and that I’m not love able or attractive to people I like. But now I have to face the emotions and I hate it. Part of me wishes I didn’t start therapy and just kept sleeping my life away thinking about how I wasn’t good enough for her to like me back and how I’ll never be good enough for anyone to feel the way I feel about them.

I scheduled my next appointment. I’m gonna keep going back weekly for the rest of the year at least to try and make progress so that I can understand how I’m suppose to feel that’s socially acceptable.

[yaren23]

[ziggygamma]

Happy April Fools Day

It’s truly my day because I’m the fool that thought I had a shot with the most amazing woman I’ve ever met. And I’ll remain the fool for thinking if I become better than she’ll give me a chance.

[ef-1]

holy shit???

[ziggygamma]

"More to life than relationships"

This is something I get everytime I complain about being single my entire life. I know its meant as a comfort but if thats all I want out of life then its not really a comfort at all. Like every other aspect of life is good for me except that. I have a job, a place, a car, free time, my health. But the one thing I don't have is a girlfriend. Being alone wasn't in my plans for life I always thought I'd be married or in a relationships by now and I hate it. I hate being alone. Going to bed every night with no one around me. Having no one but this blog to tell my days about. No one to lean on and no one to lean on me. No physical touch from others and I'm not talking sex and kissing, no hand holding no comfort at all. I honestly want to die and have thought about it so much every day for years now. But I kept it off because I thought maybe one day I'll find my person out there. But as each day passes I don't think I will. And the weight of that crushes me to my soul.

[ziggygamma]

Why did I think I could be loved

That anyone could love me

I’m short

I’m fat

I’m not a millionaire

I wish I would just die

Not even my own parents wanted me why would someone else would

[owlelight]

i think im getting better at drawing critter each time i draw it :]

dont look at its tail, i totally didnt decide to not draw the rest of it because i got bored. looking away. the dtiys was super fun though! thanks for hosting <3

also my doodle of laika and my oc swapping outfits :]

[cupcakeeees]

i genuinely feel sick whenever i remember how far away australia is, how far from his family oscar spends the whole year, how tiny he was when he came to europe chasing his dreams, and how this incompetent team doesn’t give him an ounce of respect ahhhh 😭

[mandywondering]

[ndiecity-deactivated20241101]

OOHHHHH sopranos like the singers

[ladyfeets-deactivated20211019]

HBO’s Sopranos: hark at the ducks 🦆 give zero fucks 🦆 in Tony’s pool 🦆 pasta fazool 🍝

altos: bada biNg 🔫 bada boOm 🔫 bada biNg 🔫 bada boOm 🔫

[sunshine-tattoo]

this website is a goddamn national treasure

[yaren23]

[cadillacjohnf1]

the McLaren team: now, Oscar, remember to reply to Lando's celebration post in a way that doesn't make you look vaguely suicidal. show a bit of enthusiasm!

Oscar:

[countingstars-17]

GEORGE WAS IN THE SAME CAR OF YUKI AND MAX 😭😭😭

[ziggygamma]

I love this so much

[chachavroomvroom]

These days the Red Bull second seat announcements hit like the Reaping in the Hunger Games. Like sorry your name was pulled Isack may the odds be ever in your favour.