zinnia's blog

vae/vaem

[zinnia09]

hi, i just formed as of 5/23/26, so this blog is very much a WIP for now

no dni but be nice

[mousidy]

sick of wishing people would understand or respect my stupid fucking dysphoria can I just have bottom surgery already lol

[mousidy]

I ask people not to slice me in half using the slicing me in half machine and then they do it anyway and they're like haha whoops, didn't mean to! honest mistake! can you like apologize to me for being upset with me though

[mousidy]

dysphoria is so stupid fucking embarrassing it's like yeah haha actually I'm not just like cool and sexy and fine with it I actually don't like being talked about that way thanks 👍 oh I'm being unreasonable? right ok cool thanks for letting me know

[zinnia09]

just remember this: we ain't got infinite energy to painstakingly correct everyone, but we DO have a conveniently large amount of hammers

[ayagdos]

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[shitty-conspiracies-i-invented]

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[byjove]

ages 0-7: slowly gain sentience

ages 7-12: be an ‘old soul’

ages 12-16: allow the darkness to consume you

ages 16-19: be a kid for the first time ever

ages 19-30: develop dad lore

ages 30-35: court a beautiful lady

ages 35-40: get married, start a family

ages 40-55: promise to clean out the gutters and never do it again

ages 55-60: allow the darkness to consume you once more

ages 60-75: swinger cruises with your beautiful wife

ages 75-86: be an eccentric grandfather

age 86: mysteriously disappear

[byjove]

somewhere between 13 and 19. would highly recommend transitioning from a depressed little girl who is “mature for her age” directly into a dumbass teenage boy

[t00thpasteface]

sorry to everyone out there who thinks they have the funniest tshirt but i think i can confidently say i just saw the actual funniest tshirt just now. i passed by a beautiful black woman with long multicolor braids blowing majestically in the beach breeze & she was wearing an oversized tshirt that said in gigantic letters "WHITE BOY OF THE YEAR"

[cali]

name your baby boy gargoyle. do it for me. and if its a girl... hmmm... name her gargoyle

[desk-drawerr]

since i got a few comments about bowling alley graphics, have this whatever. ducky goes bowling.

[tomboyhousewife-deactivated2024]

queer people who have done zero self reflection when they see someone who doesn't look fem in their space

[predatory-lesbians]

ACTUALLY FUCKING THO

[derinthescarletpescatarian]

#the bioessentialism is gross and inescapable#‘oh i’m just not comfortable around this person bc i don’t know them!’#is that it? or is it that they’re masculine presenting and you only think of non-binary people as girl lite

[coelpts]

[alteredpanel]

[appleotters]

One thing I don’t understand about endogenic hate is that if someone wanted to fake having a disorder, they would just… say they have the disorder??? You don’t see people creating entirely new names and separating themselves from the disorder that they’re ‘faking’ for literally ANYTHING else.

I have never heard about a not-quite ADHD that an entire community says they have, just so they can say words like ‘hyperfixation’ and get attention for being different.

If someone wanted to steal your terms, resources, and lie about their experiences, they would just SAY THEY HAVE what you have, not paint a target on their backs by calling themselves endogenic. Why would a group of liars say outright that they’re lying?

And even if they wouldn’t lie about having a disorder, they wouldn’t make up an entirely new term for their existence. You see a lot of neurotypical using terms like ‘special interest’ ‘overstimulated’ ‘hyperfixation’, etc. None of them created their own neurodivergent identity just so they can use those words. They just use them.

[prairiemountain]

Bart forms in our system -> a double of him forms in our bf's system -> our bart starts system travelling to his system and spending time over there -> another bart shows up in my system -> there are now three Barts

[donotenter-sys]

they call this a bruh moment

i dont even have an inner world appearance

[dnesys]

epic epic epic

[gayvampyr]

if you want to dress gay but aren’t sure how, you need to focus more on finding clothes you actually like and that make you feel good when you look in the mirror. develop your style independently of what you think looks gayest and trust the homosexuality will follow. it goes where confidence and self acceptance are

[donotenter-sys]

they call this a bruh moment

i dont even have an inner world appearance

[arteei]

you use ai baby pictures i use stupid gifs that don’t fit the situation we are not the same

[pro-plural-tenth-doctor]

“there’s never been a positive anti-endo to pro-endo case” except there has been .. ever since i became pro-endo, i started to feel more confident in my plurality as well as less ashamed about it and our headmates got comfortable expressing themselves. i constantly felt judged by anti-endo’s honestly, esp bc my experience with being plural has been a lot more diff than others experience with it

the pro endo comm has personally been nothing but kind to me and i’ve made some genuinely good friendships with people here

no clue abt the rest of yall

[zinnia09]

we've seen several ex anti-endos (including ourselves !!)

[liarsblade]

There's this perception, I've noticed, that if you're going to have a cultural conception of something like "mental health" in your fictional setting it has to be like Ideal, it needs to be the ideal version of mental health awareness/conception/care or it needs to not exist at all even a little. Does that make sense.

[liarsblade]

Similarly there's also this idea that either a character knows what therapy is, has had some, and has had an overwhelmingly positive experience and result from it, or they have literally no concept of therapy at all, like Harry Du Bois not knowing that he's a cop style. Total blank. Very odd.

[liarsblade]

The options are not "this story takes place in the Instagram infographic universe" or "you get nothing. Everyone has a caveman's understanding of what depression is." is all I'm saying. Make a setting with a concept of mental health that sucks. Send the character to therapy that doesn't work. Officially diagnose them with something that sucks and is absolutely going to be taken out of the in-universe dsm in a couple of editions. Try something difference.