venus + and -
venus in aries
+: active approach to connecting, knows how to instantly link with strangers, above-board about affection; believes weāre all brothers and sisters; tells it like it is, takes the initiative in sex and in love, exciting, independent, warm, passionate, demonstrative, gives love openheartedly
-: bores easily, rides roughshod over subtleties, naive, too idealistic, impulsive, comes on too strong, sees love as a contest, lacks ability to express tenderness or romance, selfish, impatient, emotionally immature, wears themselves and their lovers out with their fiery intensity, lacks stability
venus in taurus
+: sensual, tactile, loyal, decadent, loves beauty, has innate good taste, often dresses well, affectionate, emotionally vibrant, romantic, intuitive, graceful, loves nature, knows how to please their partner physically, believes in love, generous to a fault, steadfast and true
-: boring, stingy with resources and with love, possessive, jealous, territorial, lazy, only appreciates what they can see and touch, wants constant companionship, feeling > thinking, less than understanding of their loverās shortcomings, cloying, demanding
venus in gemini
+: verbally charming, witty, has a way with words, light and effervescent, artistic, complex, outgoing, curious, warmly expressive, loves to communicate, reinvents themselves, enjoys intelligent people, aesthetically gifted, fun, lively, experiments with possibility, free spirits, intriguing, flirty, loves variety, open to all the possibilities of life, others often find them very attractive
-: flighty, bores easily, noncommittal, evasive, disloyal, shallow, faddish, relationships are often impermanent, changeable in relationships, romantic attractions are often sudden and causal, often feels stifled and restless, promiscuous, thinks too much, talks that talk but doesnāt act on it, hates to feel bonded to something or someone, not fond of emotions/emotional scenes, flesh and blood often falls short of their ideals
venus in cancer
+: gentle, generous, caring, loving, sympathetic, devoted to their loved ones, nurturing, compassionate, artistic, romantically idealistic, vividly imaginative, emotionally strong, loyal, attentive, warm, domestically gifted, supportive, sincere, wants the best for their lovers, good business sense
-: insecure, allows loved ones to take advantage, clingy, needy, undisciplined, too sensitive, mawkishly dependent, susceptible to flattery, possessive, shy, excessively emotional, takes things for granted, bad at communication, emotionally blackmails their loved ones, unrealistic expectations of their lover, codependent, manipulative, controlling, secretive, often tries too hard to create the type of environment from which their partners dare not leave
venus in leo
+: warm-hearted, fun-loving, romantic, heartfelt, playful, courtly, surprisingly sensitive, makes grand gestures of affection, often sets standards of beauty and fashion, generous, exciting, ardent, loves others as they love themselves, likeable and friendly, stylish, makes others proud to be with you, desirous and has a healthy sexual appetite, colourful
-: very selfish, dramatic, love standards are often too high and this placement looks down on those who donāt meet them, too preoccupied with appearances, too prideful, sulks childishly when they feel unappreciated, ostentatious, uses others to bolster their own self-image and ego, self-serving, domineering, overindulgent, bossy, honest yet calculated
venus in virgo
+: neat, conscientious, dependable, has high standards for their love and wonāt settle, patient, will talk about how to resolve issues in their relationships, helpful, often extremely romantic, creative in love, kind-hearted
-: highly strung, too practical, overcautious, overanaylzes emotions and relationships, nothing is ever good enough for them, inhibited, covers up their many insecurities and inadequacies in love by being hypercritical of their lover, too self-conscious and neurotic
venus in libra
+: charming, polite, socially skilled, loves the concept and reality of love, promotes peace and harmony, aesthetically gifted, gracious, good-natured, often conventionally attractive, a friend to all, diplomatic, tactful, refined, doesnāt hold grudges, sophisticated, thinks the best of everyone whether they deserve it or not, canāt love someone they donāt respect, emotionally direct
-: fake, too nice, often goes along to get along, their relationships lack substance and depth, tries too hard to be liked and perfect, often quite contrived, terribly vain and will hate when old age takes away their looks, lacks integrity, easily hurt, superficial, canāt handle honest displays of emotion, insincere, social climbers
venus in scorpio
+: dynamic, sexy, desires orgiastic merging with another, expresses their sexuality like no one else, believes in transformation when it comes to love and relationships, their love is deep, seductive, magnetic, believes that nothing of value comes easy, not afraid of the darkness of life or the soul
-: obsessive, jealous, territorial, volatile, suspicious to the point of paranoia, touchy, becomes so intertwined in their lover that they canāt tell their emotions from their lover, vengeful, unforgiving, self-frustration, destructive, too intense, domineering, controlling, manipulative, takes love too personally and seriously, bitter, has no sense of humour
venus in sagittarius
+: generous, intentions are good, exciting, rapturous, adventurous, light-hearted, demonstrative, honest, open, wild yet ethical, has a natural and healthy appetite for sex, friendly, outgoing, loves to laugh, funny, needs spontaneity, dares to feel, is unafraid of love and will push the boundaries of race, religion and class in order to find their true love
-: tends to love the unattainable, lacks perspective, may be a bit wanton, immodest, impersonal, wants their lover to behave in the upright manner that they feel they themselves ought to but fail to, needs game-playing more than a relationship, is as anxious for a stable relationship as anyone else but they want to be the one to stabilize it
venus in capricorn
+: strives to make their loved ones happy and secure, controls their desires very well, steadfast, creative, responsible, patient when it comes to building a relationship, offers unconditional support to their loved ones, devoted, deeply emotional but controls it well, enduring, trustworthy, has a slow-simmering sexuality
-: emotionally cold, opportunistic and calculating in love and relationships, repressed, fearful, selfish, tremendously insecure, relationships are based on what someone could do for them, self-abnegating, their ability to love is hidden by a self-protective wall, judgmental
venus in aquarius
+: believes in fairness and equality, believes in universal love, canāt stand jealousy or possessiveness, independent, open-minded, unusual, easily bored, objective, friendly, needs excitement and experimentation, stimulating, needs a relationship based on friendship, often one-of-a-kind, sensuous but not sensual, excellent as friends
-: fears getting too close to people, cool, distant, impersonal, a bit outlandish, affections are often unstable, sexual habits are often eccentric, has stubborn emotional attitudes, too idealistic, spreads their love around, generalities > specifics, may be superficially attracted to beauty
venus in pisces
+: loves unconditionally, sensitive, unselfish, accepts their lover as they are for better or worse and doesnāt hold it against them, affectionate, helping others makes them feel better about themselves, understanding, has a wonderful sense of fantasy, romantic, can be compassionate
-: sentimental, maudlin, suffers from a martyr complex, insecure, expects their lovers to read their mind, too fanciful and is unrealistic about their relationships, naive, easily trusting, often refuses to see the ugly truths in front of their face, escapist, deceptive
