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Z or Snowy | 20 | she/her | tme white

[escuerzoresucitado]

[crazysodomite]

[perdvivly]

What are some good beginner wants for someone just starting to get into desire?

[sadhoc]

when I say autistic people can write poetry, I mean autistic people with higher support needs. I mean people whose poetry is written via symbol based AAC, who are putting cards with pictures and sight words on them in order to make something that has meaning to them, even if it doesn’t make sense to a neurotypical.

when I say autistic people can play baseball, I’m not talking about “this pro pitcher has a special interest” I’m talking about how the local little league team should take a chance on a nonspeaking kid with a care aide who comes with them to practice, so they get the experience of hanging out with friends and doing a group activity too.

when I say autistic people can date, I’m not talking about people who say they have “a touch of the ‘tism” on their hinge profile. I’m talking about the rights of adults in day programs to hold hands. The rights of institutionalized people to have sex. The rights of queer teens in life skills classes to get sex ed that applies to them.

you need to presume potential. You need to start from a place of “can.” You need to give autistic people the right to try.

[littlestpetsematary]

honestly it’s kind of upsetting how much of the autism experience is just being shamed out expressing yourself in any way that’s normal for you and learning to keep everything to yourself so you’re not shamed for being weird and then being shamed for being so quiet because it’s also weird to be quiet but if you tell this to anyone else they’ll say “why do you care so much what people think” and that’s when the ancient ape part of your brain gets ready to beat them to death

[marsbotz]

at the insane stage of character obsession where i start getting the urge to post pngs of them every five seconds like im showing ppl a picture of my stupid ass boyfriend that nobody likes but me

[cliffsecord]

[szk0dn1k]

Capple tricks

[szk0dn1k]

Capple but she's all wrong

[szk0dn1k]

Bald.

[szk0dn1k]

[catbyte404]

💕

[mintaikk]

Pavlova if he ever met Cotton Candy

[herbalmutt]

This is why her hair should stay in a braid,, he cannot see

[bigluj]

The Salt of Solidarity and the kid

[shandzii]

muhehehe

[artyphex]

I am still seeing “VivziePop hates women. Can’t write dimensional characters for the life of her” after Charlie, and Lute, and SERA’S introduction this season and I have never been closer to biting people

[katrafiy]

"Of course," the transmisogynist might say. "Most women were raised to be meek, self-abnegating, submissive. You were socialized male, taught from an early age that your opinions and needs matter, that you should speak up." And if they're trying to be clever, they may add, "that doesn't mean you're not a woman! Of course you are! It just means you don't act like one, and it's really not even your fault!"

In fact, of course, it means "you're not exactly a woman, and I want to say that without being called transphobic." It's also completely wrong and erases my actual history. In fact, to keep using myself as an example, before I transitioned I was meek, quiet, terrified of imposing on anyone, submissive. l spent 10 years in a physically, sexually, and emotionally abusive relationship (with a closeted trans man, not that it much matters); I did what he told me to, jumped when he said jump, made excuses for the bruises and sexual violations and exhaustion, never stood up for myself. And then I transitioned and found my voice. A lifetime of pain had taught me what it is to suffer, and as I took charge of my destiny, I learned to love myself, respect myself, advocate for myself, and fight.

To attribute my hard-won voice to "male socialization" is to call me not-woman, to call me a man, to erase my story. It also deletes the girl who was tortured for her girlhood, silenced, attacked, hurt, and dominated. It also deletes the woman who took control of her life and finally learned to stand up for herself and the people she loves. It's handy for silencing me--and nothing else.