good title

[syscourse-shmiscourse]

Considering that the idea of a single inherent identity is a white colonizer experience, can we actually try to say that plurality is inherently alterhuman when other cultures experience plurality as a normal part of their civilization?

Because this whole topic and pushback just feels like it’s coming from a place of white experience tbh.

[0devil-in-the-details0]

this feels very racist im ngl

[fkic-official]

OK so first off, disclaimer that you& can identify as whatever feels most comfortable/correct, I'm not here to police language, etc. I don't want to invalidate anyone who disagrees with me or say that you can't use a label that resonates with you or anything like that.

BUT.

I'm really uncomfortable with the "willogenic" label. It was coined in 2021 explicitly to "[describe] our experience without there being ANY connection to [tulpamancy] at all." I can't know for sure what that anon's intentions were, but that sounds like the sort of talk you hear from anti tulpa exclusionists. The sort of people who repeat that baseless anti-endo myth that tulpas are cultural appropriation. That we're problematic just because of what we call ourselves, or because of the community we were formed in.

I don't think it's unreasonable to say that willogenic/willomancy/etc. is, by design, anti-tulpa language. As a tulpa myself, seeing it get so popular lately is really upsetting.

Again, all you willo systems are valid and cool and you don't have to change what you call yourselves for my sake. I just want to make it known why I and some others in the tulpa community find it uncomfortable.

[0devil-in-the-details0]

imaginary friends community is infighting again

[0devil-in-the-details0]

you don't believe in transgender identity because you're against freedom to self expression. I'm against transgender identity because I think gender is a tool of control and oppression over the sexes and should be abolished entirely in favor of free expression without links to structures of oppression we are NOT the same

[shamrocks-and-shenanigans]

[0utrenoir]

the casual self degradation of women in the public sphere is driving me slightly insane. why do you have fake nails glued on your nails? why are you wearing a miniskirt when it is 7°? what is that on your face? what is that under your skin? why are you doing that to your poor calves? why are you standing like that? why are you looking down? what is up with the dog collar? why are you calling another woman a bitch?

[pluverapickles]

you can't unsee it once you notice it

[moonpriestes]

Some women will never notice that femininity is a humiliation ritual... but all males do.

[twistedy]

I love sharks

Thought of a cool idea for a shark hoodie crop top thing. Tbh I don’t know what it’s actually called, but it looks cool, and here’s Nauta wearing it because sharks and stuff!

[kesobun]

[z0ruas]

Anti Porn Masterlist

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I included a link directly to Pornhub because it's pretty shocking how open they are about what depravity is popular. Enter at your own risk.

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^^ Enter at your own risk. I included this because the kinds of things they search for are the most solid anti porn evidence I've ever seen.

This is a lecture Dr. Gail Dines gave at the Nova Scotia Women’s Summit in 2012. It’s about how women are portrayed in the media in general, but about halfway through (40 minutes), she starts talking about the research she’s done on mainstream porn. Said research is complied in her book Pornland, which I really recommend. That there links to a full PDF.

This is a group of articles titled The Protection Project by the Journal of Human Rights and Society. Long read, but it talks a lot about how porn contributes to sex trafficking.

This is a TED Talk by Ran Gavrieli about quitting porn that has 20 million views

Pornography: Men Possessing Women by Andrea Dworkin

Anonymous on Pornhub's Parent Company Mindgeek

Hot Girls Wanted is a documentary about the "amateur" industry

I analyzed how often men search for "teen" and other CSA terms in 2016

How viewing porn impacts the workplace

[doingitatmybirthdaydinner]

i don’t give a fuck. you need to understand that if you are neurodivergent and act weird, people will interpret that in different ways. i’m a very quiet person which sometimes people interpret as rude. and that’s fine, i can only control my own actions, not others perceptions. so it’s up to me to decide if want to continue being quiet and interpreted as rude sometimes, or make an effort to be less quiet. so act however you want to act, but if you are a male acting out of the ordinary towards a female, don’t get all offended when some women interpret it as harassment or potential danger. and if being neurodivergent causes you to take actions that can be interpreted as harassing women and making them feel uncomfortable, you need to figure your shit out and fix it. i absolutely hate this mindset where you decide that your actions are entirely out of your control because you have fucking adhd or some shit, and then rather than trying to control your own actions, you try to micromanage other peoples responses. let me tell you something right now; there will never be a time or place when strange actions in public afford you the benefit of the doubt and good will from women. if you are being fucking weird, we have to get out of there, for safety. we don’t have the time and safety to pull out our magnifying glass and our houndstooth coat and launch a Sherlockian investigation into what potential neurodivergence, mental illness, drug use, impairment or genuine ill intent was the cause of your weird fucking actions. we just have to get out of there at the first weird sign. that’s life, people make assumptions because we aren’t mind readers and can’t know everything. you acted fucking weird so people thought you were fucking weird, boo hoo. either keep crying about it or work your shit out and fix it. you are responsible for your own actions and behaviors.

oh and neurodivergence does not account for 90% of male on female creepiness nor is it an excuse for ANY amount of male on female creepiness.

[carbonemissionshater]

I’m also a bit on the spectrum and funny how even with people noticing that (even without me telling them) still hold me accountable for my actions. Anything off color (like once I took a selfie with a coworker and they thought it was sexual harassment) I’ve done—regardless of the fact it’s never been bad and while getting harassed myself—they still reprimanded me. Like women do not get that grace men do for being neurodivergent. Like at all.

But even men who are perfectly neurotypical can make actually sexual jokes or comments or touch and still don’t get in trouble. It’s not about neurology, it’s about sex.