Wowie ☆ Kabowies

Flamey|demigirl|she & zhe/her pronouns  little alien(s)

[loverboymoreau]

Ahh yes gay, lesbian, *looks at smudged writing on hand* bi- bicycle, tr-transport, pa- panoramic and uhh ace of spades :-)

[lesbianprivileges]

i thought we were done with this meme that acts like gay identities esp lesbianism is accepted and/or oppressive and/or pretends that our hypervisibility isnt harmful to us

[8743dghhjbfd-blog]

i don’t think this meme is trying to say that at all, of course gays and especially lesbians aren’t 100% accepted but they’re the only two things that cishets care about when it comes to “gay rights” to the point where they erase everyone else in the community

speaking from a person who’s mom who brags about being an ally but only talks about cis gay men and has ignored me being trans and pan and just brushes me off as a lesbian

so yeah

[lesbianprivileges]

you say “gays” and “homos” so forgive me if i dont think youre the best to listen to on what is and isnt homophobic

[8743dghhjbfd-blog]

I apologize if I came off that way, but I really do mean what I have said

I’ve experienced being erased all my life as a person who is within the community, by both cis gay men, lesbians, and heterosexual people. I’ve been lashed out for liking girls before discovering myself being nonbinary, it hurts on both ends.

I do understand what homophobia is like, but I also especially feel transphobia and biphobia more… this is what I’ve been trying to say.

[lesbianprivileges]

ive experienced shit too including from bi people. neither of these experiences are factoring in to the fact that you are not gay, yet you call us “gays” and use the word “homos”

[8743dghhjbfd-blog]

mmm you do have a point... i'm really sorry for using those terms but thank you for pointing it out to me ill try and remove those words from my vocabulary

[loverboymoreau]

Ahh yes gay, lesbian, *looks at smudged writing on hand* bi- bicycle, tr-transport, pa- panoramic and uhh ace of spades :-)

[lesbianprivileges]

i thought we were done with this meme that acts like gay identities esp lesbianism is accepted and/or oppressive and/or pretends that our hypervisibility isnt harmful to us

[8743dghhjbfd-blog]

i don’t think this meme is trying to say that at all, of course gays and especially lesbians aren’t 100% accepted but they’re the only two things that cishets care about when it comes to “gay rights” to the point where they erase everyone else in the community

speaking from a person who’s mom who brags about being an ally but only talks about cis gay men and has ignored me being trans and pan and just brushes me off as a lesbian

so yeah

[lesbianprivileges]

you say “gays” and “homos” so forgive me if i dont think youre the best to listen to on what is and isnt homophobic

[8743dghhjbfd-blog]

I apologize if I came off that way, but I really do mean what I have said

I’ve experienced being erased all my life as a person who is within the community, by both cis gay men, lesbians, and heterosexual people. I’ve been lashed out for liking girls before discovering myself being nonbinary, it hurts on both ends.

I do understand what homophobia is like, but I also especially feel transphobia and biphobia more... this is what I’ve been trying to say.

[8743dghhjbfd-blog]

I do get that both cis gay men and lesbians aren’t fully accepted yet, (especially lesbians since they’re ridiculously fetishized) but it really does concern me whenever I see other people in the community being accused for being homophobic and lesbophobic.

Not that there is to say that there ISN’T homophobia and lesbophobia within our community, of course there is. It definitely isn’t their fault either that they’re over noticed, that’s why we address the issue that they aren’t the only ones that need paying attention to.

If theres also times where it gets a little too hostile, it’s also because some of them (maybe a little too many of them even) like to take advantage of that and use it towards us. They don’t deserve discrimination either, but they definitely need to be called out on not only for their oppressive but really hypocritical behavior too. 

Even tho we’re different, we all share something in common. We all suffer and experience abuse and neglect from social normality, that’s something we can’t change. We can’t force each other down into being the same exact identities or choose to be on their side, we need to fully embrace every part of the spectrum as the community that we are.

[kai-zzer]

I could stay here forever. (at Frenchman’s Cove)

[opale-de-lune]

Finally got my cubby shelves up!

[somethingvain]

Lacoste Fall 2008, by Nick Knight for Visionaire #54

[shamewave-deactivated20150424]

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[antlered-vixen]

On BDSM safety

So, it seems the 50 Shades of Grey phenomenon has claimed some of its first victims. People have already died because of unsafe BDSM practices copied off this poor excuse of a book. So, to any of the people here who might have an interest in BDSM, let me beg you to at the very, very least, never forget the following:

[anarchivefullofmems]

Keep reading

[spiralstaircased]

honestly im really glad that we have so many better popular iz artists in the fandom now , at least on tumblr

referring to both their art skills and to them just being generally better people than the old popular artists were

and theres so much more good representation when it comes to gender/sexuality/race/mental illnesses and its jst far more positive and better overall i love that so much im so glad we’re moving past all the things that were fucking up the fandom for years

[misterintoxicate07]

Feels like its been forever since I last used my copics..

[megalotis-deactivated20200622]

tak 15?

[loverboymoreau]

Ahh yes gay, lesbian, *looks at smudged writing on hand* bi- bicycle, tr-transport, pa- panoramic and uhh ace of spades :-)

[lesbianprivileges]

i thought we were done with this meme that acts like gay identities esp lesbianism is accepted and/or oppressive and/or pretends that our hypervisibility isnt harmful to us

[8743dghhjbfd-blog]

i don't think this meme is trying to say that at all, of course gays and especially lesbians aren’t 100% accepted but they’re the only two things that cishets care about when it comes to “gay rights” to the point where they erase everyone else in the community

speaking from a person who’s mom who brags about being an ally but only talks about cis gay men and has ignored me being trans and pan and just brushes me off as a lesbian

so yeah

[schizoyuri-deactivated20160514]

if this gets a million notes

im taking the  Down With Cis bus to disney world

[squided]

“no homo" says the boy cuddling next to you.  You figure he means he isn’t homosexual.  It never grazed your mind he may be stating he isn’t a homosapien.  That was a very big mistake on your part.

[victorianho]

[millenniumitem]

Hey i know tomorrows #mothers day and it can be a shitty day for a lot of ppl so

If u have a Bad mom or an absent mom or no mom im your mom now. Its me. I am so proud of you and everything you have done, and ur a good person. im taking you out to get ice cream

[ghovlfriends]

Does anyone else feel really guilty when they start talking about their own feelings and then immediately regret saying anything because you just feel so annoying and pathetic and ugh

[floozys-deactivated20180908]

this is the lamp i spent my handbag money on