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“you don’t need to be stressed!” okay but consider this: I am

soft thought 15

the future can be pretty daunting to think about. you might not want a qpr. you might want one, but you’re afraid of never finding the right person. you might have no clue what you want. it’s a lot to think about, but it’ll be ok. let time take its course and always go with your gut.

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The sun will shine

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Okay so I don't know why people say sex or love is what makes us human. Lots of organisms in nature have sex or mate for life. You know what makes us human? Cooking. Nothing else in nature cooks except humans. Checkmate aphobes. Sincerely, an ace cook.

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is that true??

Holy shit!!

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wisdom begins in wonder.

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Hi LGBTQIAP+ Tumblr

I need your help!

I’m about to talk w/ my colleagues about the LGBTQIAP+ community, so they’ll know how to react when somebody comes out of the closet to them.

It could really help if you send me stories about good/bad reactions you got, or how you wish ppl will react.

(I have anon option if you need)

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“Homophobia and transphobia has body counts, aphobia has screenshots!!1!!”

Yeah,

Screenshots of statistical studies about how aces are as likely to be suicidal as gay or bi people, and twice as likely as straight people because of their asexuality. Screenshots of statistical studies showing that A-spec trans people face significantly higher levels of homelessness, and eviction than any other demographic of trans people. Screenshots of how A-spec people experience some of the highest statistics for corrective rape of any marginalized community . Screenshots of aphobes bullying, harassing, sending rape and death threats to ace people,and wishing horrible things to happen to ace people because they are ace Screenshots of posts about how In 2015 Russia took away the rights of asexual, binary trans people, and many groups of nonbinary trans people, to have driver’s licenses. Screenshots of how many religions dont support asexuaity Screenshots of people opening up about how they were sent for conversion therapy,abused and harassed both by other people and their families for being asexual and being hated after coming out as asexual Screenshots of studies and articles about ace people being raped for being ace Screenshots of aphobes Repeatedly misgendering and mislabeling people , calling asexual people nazis ,telling suicidal ace people to stop whining , saying that asexuality shouldnt be taught in schools . Screenshots of asexual people receiving rape threats to “fix” them and actually being raped to be fixed Screenshots of asexuality being pathologized and not being considered real by straight people.

Its so easy to brush away aphobia as “Cringey aces being dramatic on the internet on no reason lololol “ when you see “true” oppression as “people being killed for their identity” and not the numerous ways society makes marginalized community feel that they are broken,wrong and are disgusting for existing and dont belong among the society.This includes harassment on the internet too because the people harassing ace people for being ace on the internet are real people too.

Genocide is the last stage of oppression for an identity and the fact that you think that bigotry against some identity has to reach the stage where the people of that identity are being killed for them to be “truly oppressed” then you are a despicable person and have no idea how resistance and social justice work.

Note : I copypasted most of the links from this post so yall can check this out too

#acephobia