A relationship that doesn't get talked about enough but I feel like it's really important especially to me as an arospec person(s) is roommates. Everyone either has or knows roommate horror stories. Some people only strive to be cordial with their roommates and that's it, not really caring to have much of a relationship besides sharing rent and utilities and space and dishes, but for us roommates are some of our most important relationships. We are in the midst of the most stressful move of our life and the thing that made us choose the place we ended up moving into was the fact that we clicked with the roommate here. We love our own space and with every roommate we've honestly interacted very little, but every time we have interacted it's been very meaningful. With our previous roommate (who we're very sad to be splitting with, but we were prepared. Even before we had to very quickly move due to circumstance beyond our control, they are planning on moving out at the end of our previous lease. We're basically just splitting a few months ahead of schedule) we both mostly kept to ourselves, but I'm the 2-3 years of living together we did have a couple of "roommate dates" as I secretly referred to them where we would watch a movie together, have a drink or smoke some weed, or just parallel play kind of stuff. It was very easy to talk with them and spend time with them. They ended up getting to know some of my friends through some activities that they do that I don't and it was so joyous to receive an invitation to their wedding addressed to both of us. I'm going to miss them a lot. I don't know if "love" is the exact word I would use to describe our feelings for them, it's definitely a very aro, queer kind of care. Idk just thinking about roommates tonight(early morning)