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Oscar | 18 | Pan | He/They | Taurus I curse and use caps a lot so early apologies. EXCLUSIONISTS, TERFS, TRANSMEDS/TRUSCUM, MAPs/NOMAPs, FUJOSHIS? DON'T INTERACT PLEASE!! YA'LL FUCKIN' SUCK!! Go ahead and tell me if you need anything tagged through either asks (anon or not)

[abandoneda]

Update

I think I might delete this blog. I can’t message anyone, I can’t follow anyone on my alt because it’s connected to this one, and it’s stressful enough on all my other social media accounts.

However, I’m going to try to make a new account with a new email and see if that works. I think it will but if it doesn’t, I’ll just leave this account as an archive and link my other social media accounts.

[renthony]

Reminder that the discussion about needing non-alcoholic and all-ages queer spaces was pretty universally agreed on until asexuals started agreeing that we wanted access to them, too. Then suddenly it was "homophobic" to point out that gay bars aren't accessible to all.

I have a hair trigger for this conversation because of how many times it has been brought up SPECIFICALLY to drag ace and aro people through the mud. If someone shits on the idea of queer cafes, my hackles go up, because of how often that topic has been used to abuse aspecs.

"do you have a source"

I was a mod on a few different ace & aro positivity blogs roughly between 2015-2019. I have seen some shit, y'all. "Queer cafe" discourse isn't inherently aphobic--of course it's not!--but it gets used in a shitty way A LOT.

(TW sexual assault & substance abuse) Also, I won't go to queer bars anymore. Half my friends are recovering alcoholics, and one of the few times I DID go to the local queer bar, some twink I had never met tweaked my nipple because he thought it was funny. So.

Alcohol companies prey on queer people. Underage queer people exist. Disabled queer people exist. Sober queer people exist. All these are reasons for non-bar queer spaces.

But the SECOND aspec people started agreeing with that? The discourse changed. Suddenly queer bars were sacrosanct and could never be critiqued or you'd get called a homophobe.

It's directly rooted in aphobia. And nobody really talks about it outside aspec places.

tbh I feel completely insane a lot of the time because of how many things immediately put my hackles up bc they've been used to abuse aspecs

but y'all, there is SO MUCH of it

Aspecs have been consistently abused by the entire rest of the queer """community""" for so long.

"dare I say asexual" is a phrase that will immediately activate my fight-or-flight

I can't look at aspec pride edits anymore without remembering the mass-spamming of aspec tags on tumblr. They were full of gore, animal abuse, and fake pride edits proclaiming people like Ronald Reagan and Charles Manson as "ace icons" for no fucking reason other than hurting people

There used to be a lot of common community pride symbols that were pretty well known across most English-speaking aspec spaces. They're almost completely gone now.

And I just...I feel so paranoid and insane and overreactive, and it's so hard to explain to people who didn't live through it that, yes, there are lots of seemingly-innocuous things that got used as abuse tactics against entire aspec communities. And we don't get believed.

idk man, I just want to see more people talking about the way pretty much every single ace or aro person has been traumatized and gaslit and forced out of queer spaces. The "it only happens online" bullshit hasn't been true in fucking YEARS.

It IS happening IRL, y'all. I don't go to queer events in my city anymore, even pre-covid, because I've had falling-outs with multiple ppl in my community who decided to shit all over aspecs. It's not the only reason, but it's on the list.

Aphobia is REAL, it has MATERIAL effects, and it HURTS.

[winslowsfaust-deactivated202410]

fuck you actually if youre an exclusionist unfollow me i love pansexual people & asexual people. theyre both deserving of our support and a spot in our community and if you cant find anything better to do with your life than argue with teenagers online over their identity im BEGGING you to A. evaluate yourself and your personality and why maybe you dont have many friends and B. find literally anything else to occupy your time

[aroacedavestrider]

we fucking love aromantic people in this house too !! exclusionists we know you fucking lump us in under “asexual” and treat us like were not even fucking real but we see you and we know every shitty thing you say about aces you extend to us too

ASPEC AND PAN RIGHTS, PHOBES GET FUCKED.

[s33r-9f-6l99d]

Her

[fefairys]

i really don’t think anyone thinks dsmp is just cringe is the thing like there’s a fucking reason people hate him he’s a bad fucking person. like “lol i know dsmp is cringe or whatever” no ?? we don’t think he’s cringe we see that he is a nazi apologist and trump supporter??? this isn’t about cringe culture and “let people have fun” it’s about supporting a racist antisemetic piece of shit and his friends that don’t care enough to call him out on his shit or cut ties

[crownquill]

I made a what the fandom thinks of you generator

[xundeadqueenx]

[jamieaiken919]

yeah sounds about right lmao

[abandoneda]

Hmmmmm

[cursedwoods]

white people hijack every single movement they join

[cursedwoods]

white feminism is inherently racist and white women are a danger to poc

[cursedwoods]

trends on tiktok like the 'shut it off' one show how self trained white women are to cry on command to get things they want, this does not mean anything by itself, but in the context of historical incidents, this is not only a weapon but one that can be pulled at any moment of disagreement with a poc, most commonly men of color therefore weaponizing the security of the white woman over the "violent brown/black man".

white feminism and white politics are centered around the exclusion of the perceived enemy which targets marginalized demographics such as poc, trans folk and sex workers, and about anyone who can be seen as a threat to the white womanhood and the white man's rage.

[cursedwoods]

this is encouraged to be rbed by white folk but I'm not open to discussing anything with anyone.

[starleska]

Dave the Octopus | Dr Octavius Brine - Oh No! [Penguins of Madagascar] hello Dave/Dr Octavius Brine fans!!! :3c i was so surprised to see there were very few edits of our favourite cephalopod, so here’s a gift for you all!! i hope you enjoy :D

[onionrimgs]

*slaps dave’s bald head* this octopus has so many issues to unpack

[blue-paintbrushes]

Say Nick Wilde from Zootopia and no one bats an eye. Say Dave the octopus from The Penguins of Madagascar and society goes wild

[sienku]

⨳ パンティー 🍳 anarchy 🍴 i c o n s ! ! ⇀‸↼‶

wA1T ¿ 🚸 REQUEST 📎 / : like or reblog if u save pls 🍞

[yallstillhere]

Come get this dick-fil-a

[yallstillhere]

I’m tired of y'all reblogging this every Sunday

[yallstillhere]

One of you shit heads are saving this post and waiting until Sunday to reblog it

I will fucking find you

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take a nap

[abandoneda]

Me and my sister at church

[onionrimgs]

dave’s introduction is x2 funnier in japanese due to the fact that V sound doesnt naturally occur (to put this very roughly) in japanese, so the penguins pronounce his name as Deibu and Dave keeps trying to correct them 🤭

[napstachill]

been rewatching the penguins of madagascar tv show & film lately

[abandoneda]

You draw him so well!!! 💜

[onionrimgs]

:)

[onionrimgs]

Dave: What? No. My Medusa Serum doesn’t kill anyone. Where’s the fun in that?