het aces are straight

call me luna because it's mysterious just like my identity

[queenapple]

Y'all I’m so lost I keep seeing posts about heterosexual asexuals and that makes no sense you can’t be both those are contradictory ideas…

[acecourses-blog]

so like youre basically saying that a homosexual person is someone who is ONLY SEXUALLY attracted to the same gender..........do u not see how gross and sexualising that is???

so no the -sexual ending doesnt mean sexual attraction, it just means any kind of attraction. (do not use the split attraction model on people without their permission)  and because of the history of the word homosexual, dont use it unless youre gay. (why do you think gay people and lesbians created the words gay and lesbian?????)

straight ppl are straight whether its sexual or romantic or neither if ur not same gender attracted you arent gay, bisexual, pansexual, polysexual etc. etc. 

[transmarcy-remade]

me: what resources do cishet aces/aros need from the lgbt community?

them: ummm support of their identity ????¿???¿ just like everyone else in the lgbtqaxyzjrlrlf+

[hoydenol]

The fact that ace people are way more than eager to out themselves than lgbt people as a whole are kind of tells you who’s actually facing structural oppression on that axis

[i-need-more-time-for-books-deac]

@people who refuse to use they as a singular pronoun: you’ve been using they as a singular pronoun since you learnt how to speak. you’ve been saying “someone’s left their bag here”, “i don’t know who they are” and so much more. you do it all the time. so no, you don’t care about grammar. you’re just transphobic.

[thelonelygodwithabox-deactivate]

Nope, my mom made me speak correctly, so I don’t do those things, which is why I don’t like doing it.  Sorry.  I say, “Someone’s left his or her bag here,” or “The bag has been left here,” and, “I don’t know who that person is.”  So no, this isn’t a universal.  I internally cringe whenever someone uses a plural pronoun for a single individual.

[my-lesbian-aesthetic]

Grow the fuck up and learn to use gender neutral pronouns

[acecourses-blog]

@thelonelygodwithabox who cares??? who cares. your unwillingness to help someone feel more comfortable is transphobic and pointless and i can pretty much guarantee that you have in fact said "they" without even realizing it lmao

[retrogaydad-deactivated20190324]

friendly reminder that trying to push the “no label” agenda on someone who wants to find a label that properly defines them/is happy with their label is just as bad as trying to push a label onto someone who doesn’t want one. thanks

[lgbtqi-support-equality]

!

[diiscourse]

I have literally seen cishet aces talk about how tired they are of seeing everything be gay, or how gross allos are or how gay people are “awful and are just as bad as the straight people”, etc.

And yet a post later they’ll be demanding entry into the LGBT community. The same people demonizing us for celebrating our sexuality want to be one of us.

It just doesn’t make sense to me, but w/e ace community

[electric-nope]

I’m so fucking sick of people calling cisgender asexual heteroromantic people “cishets” and saying we don’t deserve a place in the LGBTQIA+.

[dlscourse-archive]

CISgender asexual HETeroromantic

[jokesontoast]

There are only 2 genders

Please people thee are only two genders…. I can’t believe that Tumblr is allowed to exist and make up all these ridiculous identities and not have all its users in mental health facilities. 

[magnumbot-deactivated20240227]

someone reblog this with the two real genders because this guy sure as heck didnt specify

[09nerorelatable]

Pokemon and Digimon

[horuss-moved234567865-deactivat]

sun and moon

[miyushinoharaofficial]

super trans and mega trans

[mcfucko-deactivated20180520]

chungo and scrungus

[dfbdbdghngfnfgngfnghfghghfh-dea]

salt and pepper

[inter5tellas]

Neither and both

[followpearlpinesnotthisblog]

Nintendogs 1 & 2

[goth-gay]

handmaiden and fuedal lord

[filthyheretic-deactivated201901]

Birdemic: Shock and Terror and Birdemic 2: The Resurrection

[thatstoomanypilots]

Team lads and team gents

[fuckyouroosterteethproductions]

Achievement Hunter and Funhaus

[thresholdofzero-deactivated2018]

Khal Drogo and Not Khal Drogo

[jupitersaurus-deactivated201807]

Mario and Luigi

[funkpunkandrollmuhfucka2]

Tom and Jerry

[boy-and-girl-crazy123456]

Ass and tiddies

[cultural-goldmanism]

Star Trek and Star Wars

[yteicosanievilew]

Simon and garfunkel

[realvladimirlenin-deactivated20]

Primmie and techie

[bintilleil-deactivated20200510]

Marina and The Diamonds

[butchmachine]

Grump and Not So Grump

[twynkdeth]

Bread and butter

[fsthhdwefg-deactivated20180515]

Ramones and Clash

[mockiato-deactivated20200315]

Coke and Pepsi

[bcpk-deactivated20210131]

Skype and Oovoo.

[psychophancy-deactivated2021072]

Derek and The Dominos

[irltrash]

the proletariat and the bourgeois

[iamfuckingtrash]

feudal lords and handmaidens

[soulsingerinasessionband]

Dungeons and dragons

[gaylawyersmoved-deactivated2020]

narumitsu and narumayo

[acecourses-blog]

kinder and milka

[buippy-deactivated20210405]

when will it end,

[homoantagonist-blog]

im trying to figure out what the acronym in the corner stands for but I’m stumped

[gentlegravity]

It stands for Girlfriends and Boyfriends. This is from YouTube

[sgaprivilege]

I think they meant “LGBTQQIP2SAA”.

[sgalien-deactivated20220823]

[sgaprivilege]

[acecourses-blog]

things u could do instead of blocking me:

tell me why you think cishet aces are anything but cis and straight. like please im just dying to know exactly what about not wanting to fuck makes you gay PLEASE ITS KILLING ME

[acepaws]

People going around saying “queer community” and acting like it’s any different from me saying I’m part of the “faggot community” or “retard community”, lol

[acecourses-blog]

i cant believe amatanormativity is ... a word

[trans-allogaytor]

tbh

it’s cool and all if you’re going to use the split attraction model to define/label your own personal orientation

but please don’t enforce it on other people (eg calling someone a biromantic asexual when you don’t actually know if they use the split attraction model) or use it in discourse because it’s actually kinda problematic 

[fiduspavvn-deactivated20160609]

Do I have to build my acephobic reputation from scratch since I have a new blog

[womanifest-density-deactivated2]

Why are people so close-minded? if you’re gonna participate in The Discourse then don’t treat people like dicks unless they’re literally saying something fascist. Seriously the Acecourse is literally people saying “let’s toss Ace people out of a group that has harbored them for literal decades because I have decided that they are not oppressed enough for me” and then dismissing people who try to dispute that with “lol tag urself i’m” or some stale-ass “TRIGGERED”-tier meme. If you cant defend throwing ace ppl under the bus for the sake of sectarian infighting than please shut up.

[acecourses-blog]

so like, youre wanting a reason???? the reason is that cishet aces arent oppressed at all. they are straight and cis and hold privilege over trans and ~~SAME~~ gender attracted people.

and those responses are given to shitty posts bc we are EXHAUSTED with saying the same things over and over again

[acecourses-blog]

Straight person: gays are disgusting the only love should be between a man and a woman

Aroace tumblr: wow look at this AMATANORMATIVITY here look at this APHOBE wow