acethetic

aesthetic blog based off the asexual flag personal • submit

[soluksuret-deactivated20260516]

[aspec-quilt-project]

welcome to the ace quilt project!! quilt square submissions are open now. check out the faq if you have any questions, and follow along at @ace-quilt-project to see how this project grows. 🫶

[infinitenovastar]

Excerpt from Refusing Compulsory Sexuality: A Black Asexual Lens on Our Sex-Obsessed Culture by Sherronda J. Brown.

[steal-this-album]

oh my god. it's aromantic day

[tripleabutitsjason-deactivated2]

I wish all aromantics or people who dislike Valentines day a wonderful day of nobody bothering you about who you’re with or if you have a valentine.

[sa-dnesss]

[arosuggestions]

While aromantic is trending I’d like to say that aromantic people deserve so much better than we’ve gotten in this community so far. Step it up, be a better ally. Listen to our voices, uplift them, and stop letting aces speak over us and for us (Aroaces are fine cause you know. They’re aro too). We have our own voices and they deserve to be heard as well. 

We all have unique experiences and labels and it’d be great if we could be uplifted instead of ignored mostly. We deserve to be included as part of this community just as much as aces do. 

[synqra]

MM6 Maison Margiela Teddy Shoulder Bag

[agnesmontague]

happy ace awareness week

“ace people can still have sex or engage in sexual activities” and “no one, including ace people, is obliged to have sex, enjoy sexual activities, media, or kinks, and it’s super okay to never engage in any of those things if you don’t want” are ideas that can and should coexist

[agnesmontague]

for ace awareness week i will be dressing up as an angry bitch which is what i already am 100% of the time so there will be no effort put into this costume. anyway i’m always glad to see content out there for aces who are not sex-repulsed and who retain their ace identity regardless of sexual activity, but i hope we can blast this weird fucking stigma once and for all against sex-repulsed aces as being somehow aligned with puritanical values just because restrictive christian culture encourages celibacy. aces in general have been through the blender for everything ranging from just “being embarrassing” to serious accusations of homophobia/discrimination against other queers just for being ace thanks to rhetoric originating from actual bigots that want to divide the lgbtq+ community for their own twisted little purposes and i just want to say from the bottom of my heart if you fall for that shit in your adulthood you either have a lot of shit to (un)learn or you are in fact just a fucking idiot

[acetheticc]

happy tdov to all my trans aces out there!! 💙💗💜

[mythicalcoolkid]

Asexuality is weird because you’ll be 12 going “wow why are people my age concerned about sex we’re just kids” and then you’re 16 going “wow why are people my age concerned about sex we’re just kids” and then you’re an adult suddenly realizing that other people are attracted to people and want to have sex with them and that’s the normal thing at that age and you’re like oh maybe it’s me

[b4bysitter-deactivated20210208]

shout out to ace and aro kids who are constantly bombarded with the opinion that sex and romantic love are directly connected to living a happy life.

[b4bysitter-deactivated20210208]

Y’all are just reblogging this at the speed of sound tonight

[beaniebaneenie]

Since it’s almost valentines day, and this message is about to get hammered in even more, reblogging this again.

[fucknuggetmaguire]

probably been done before but still funny

[thespiritofcliffhangers]

For the people out there who think you need to have had sex at least once before you can really say your asexual.

I will say this

Straight men? You are no longer allowed to say your straight till you've fucked a guy and decided you dont like it.

Straight women? You are no longer allowed to say your straight till you've fucked a girl and decided you dont like it.

Gay men? Ditto. No saying your gay till you've fucked a lady and found you didnt like it

Lesbians? Fuck a dude first or you just not valid, sorryyyy!

Did this make you angry?

Guess what! Now you know how asexual people feel when you start this shit with them. I'm 30 years old. I am asexual. I have never had sex. Never had the slightest inclination to have sex.

And I do not need to have had sex to decided I'm just flat out not goddam interested.

[acetheticc]

hi happy october this is your reminder that trauma induced asexuality is just as valid as being born asexual

[boypositiveplace-deactivated201]

Boys who are sex-repulsed/don’t enjoy sex/are too uncomfortable to have sex - you’re doing an amazing job at coping in a society that associates your maleness with having strong sexual desires. You are valid, you are loveable, you are not ‘weird’ for not fitting into the stereotype of men wanting sex all time.

[magicallygrimmwiccan]

… I really needed to hear that thank you

[themasterpupil]

…. 😦 I never thought I would ever read something like this

[acetheticc]