"Don't you know that danger is my friend."

Florida based. Aroace. Mentally Ill.  Don't actually live in Anaheim. Dorkiest dork to ever dork. 

[aceyjujube]

Gonna unpin the gofundme and remake it since Ive had to use it for rent mainly and also the plan to like not end up yeeted has changed.

[confines]

communication

[traumasurvivors]

One bad day doesn’t undo all the work you’ve done. Feeling triggered doesn’t mean you’ve gone back to zero. Healing is noticing, understanding, and gently choosing what to do next.

[yeris]

HOWL'S MOVING CASTLE (2004) dir. hayao miyazaki

[aceyjujube]

Gonna spend the last day in Ecua just thinking about grandpa I think.

[astriiformes]

Inspired by my walking past a home built in 1754 in my new neighborhood, which isn't even the oldest building in the city. As someone born and raised in the Western US (where we do have some very old buildings, contrary to popular belief, just not in the middle of most cities), it made me curious!

When was the oldest extant building you can reasonably walk to from your home built?

20th century

19th century

18th century

17th century

16th century

15th century

14th century

13th century

12th century

11th century

10th century or before

Remaining time: 4 days 1 hour

(Use your judgement for definitions of "extant," it doesn't have to be used for its original purpose but my intention is a building that could theoretically still be used, not just the remnants of one.)

[reshidei]

dying in the hospital with a duel disk on my arm

[zoctopode]

this is why you shouldn't swear

[beybuniki]

Lebanon, Kansas

[beybuniki]

the queer thing with cas and the son they're raising together aside, I love that when Dean corrects his dad saying he does have a family, he's including his brother too. John may have chosen spousal revenge over being there for his sons but Dean (and Sam) wouldn't, they put their relationship as brothers over whatever they could have with wives. John only knew his sons within a dysfunctional family paradigm that he created, he never got to see his estranged sons rebuild their relationship as brothers and reconnect as brothers/friends/colleagues etc., he doesn't know that his sons are still primary family to each other because they choose to. i like how the episode showed that Dean can be happy with his present family while still carrying the wishes of a wounded child, there is no moralization, he's allowed to feel gratitude and grief, his dad is allowed to not understand him

[beybuniki]

sometimes i think that while it would have been logistically complicated it would have been way funnier if they made jack like 10 yr old

he would have been even more stubborn with no concept of an indoor voice

[beybuniki]

sam voice guys can everyone please stop saying fuck in front of the child

[beybuniki]

trailing behind

is john there are they following papa who knows. i know that sam and dean dress like twins because sam wears dean's hand-me-downs + it's easier for john to find his sons should one of them get lost or abducted, he can point at dean and go have you seen a little boy dressed exactly like this boy. or when the yellow-eyed demon finally finds them and tells his goons to grab the kid in the green flannel well they're both wearing green flanell so what now. the flannel and carharrt have a job in this family too.

[cerezko]

WASSUPPP, hey .. followmeinig..yeyy..

[valtsv]

[cecenyss]

I wish I was a muppet so I could flail uncontrollably with no consequences. And for the scrunch

[urgentkettle]

The flail

The drama

The scrunch

For reference

[aceyjujube]

Getting to sit in bed with my ñaña and grandma has become very important in "things I need to be able to do more than once a year"

[aenigmatica]

vagueposting but in a positive, uplifting way … i literally love them so much … not saying who … don’t ask ahahahaha …

[teaboot]

The number of times I have been delighted by witty banter only to find out later that I was “Flirting” is both unfortunate and disappointing.

[teaboot]

“haha so what about that guy, huh?”

Me: what about him

“Well you seemed super into him”

Me: what why

“…dude you were flirting all night”

Me:

Me: Whoms't™™

[trainerdelaney]

I found out several of my female coworkers were planning on trying to get our male coworker to ask me out because “You guys kept flirting” but I was like “We were literally just goofing around. Like we literally just told jokes to each other. Literally just stuff that friends do, the same stuff you and I do.” I was definitely 100% NOT flirting but everyone thought I was

[trainerdelaney]

“You were laughing at everything TJ did!”

“He paper clipped a banana to the ceiling, Isabelle. That’s fucking bonkers”

[spindletrees]

This might be a good time for Ms. Psych degree here to step in and let ye all know that People Are Unable To Identify Flirting. There are double-blind studies to support this, if you instruct participants to flirt or not flirt with another participant, neither the second participant nor onlookers are able to accurately tell which instruction the first participant was given. Even if you get the flirting participant to rate their attraction to the person they’re flirting with, and only count trials where people are either flirting with people they find attractive, or not flirting with people they don’t find attractive NO ONE CAN TELL WHO IS FLIRTING OR WHO ISN’T.

[gallantblade475-blog-deactivate]

I’ve heard that people actually have a *less than 50% chance* of guess whether someone is flirting or not.

[saxifraga-x-urbium]

Thank fuck this isn’t just me failing at humanity

[stammsternenstaub]

SagePub has one such study here, dated 2014. There might be more recent work, however.

[hussyknee]

The most basic, intractable fact about mental illnesses is that you simply cannot willpower your way out of them. The only exceptions to this rule are the ones I have, which continue to disable me due to lack of determination and other grave personal flaws