Ava

they/she trans lutheran model railroader future welder 09 ford escape

[muzzlesbian]

learning how to be a girl as a trans woman is roughly the same experience as a cis woman’s except it’s ten years too late with ten times less support and ten times more scrutiny

[belayedbybadeline]

What unique combination of neuron firings makes someone respond to “trans women are women and trans men are men” with “okay, transphobe”? Like, what is the chain of logic here?

[maidslime]

"tumblr trans women are obsessed with the gender binary!" say the people who insist trans men can never be men, solely define trans women by their rape organ genitals, erase that trans women can have vaginas/belittle neovaginas, erase the existence of tma nonbinary people, erase the existence of intersex trans women, refuse to stop calling transfems "dude," "guy," and "man," insist men are actually oppressed for being men, and constantly insist trans women (both no-hrt and with hrt) can never experience misogyny like they, the "real females," do.

[tankie-transfeminist]

This is transfeminism

[tankie-transfeminist]

"But what if someone regrets staying up late to play video games later?"

-how transphobes sound when they talk about HRT

[selkiecremie]

i need you all to understand that estrogen literally saved my life. i would be dead right now if i never started estrogen.

I regularly attempted to kill myself because the idea of being a woman sounded so out of reach and unattainable, that the world hated me, that I'd never fit in to broader society. That I'd be rejected by the world if I even made it to the point that I got estrogen, let alone the very, very long time it took to get there.

If not for estrogen, I never would've realized I had CPTSD or how bad my upbringing was. It gave me the clarity to realize what was wrong with my life and start working towards material improvement, like getting out of the house and making friends.

I stopped harming myself. It destroyed my eating disorder in the span of weeks. I started going out and getting fresh air. Exercising. Making friends. I entered long-term relationships with the emotional vulnerability to let them prosper.

Now I have H cups, wide hips, and a soft face. I have a cute, healthy bob. There is light behind my eyes again. I sleep well at night. I have the energy and will to leave the house. I wear pretty sundresses, cute jackets, and I don't boymode in loose hoodies all day. I can wear hats, pants, and flannels without feeling dysphoric. I have friends. I have a community. Sure, there's plenty of transmisogyny in the world, but the joy of being a girl vastly exceeds it.

My constant passion for transfeminism is not simply a desire to argue with people online, nor an addiction to discourse. It is in the hopes that the joy I've obtained from being a woman can be secured for others.

Don't kill yourself. Take estrogen first.

[tankie-transfeminist]

This is transfeminism!

[ah0178]

im planning on starting later this year! i haven’t come out to my very conservative and definitely not accepting parents yet but idc what they say, i will transition

[noname-human-being]

@yay-bunnies has been terminated by Staff as of March 31st at 1:30PM EST, on trans day of visibility. This is your chance to make them see their fuck up.

@staff @support @photomatt fix your fucking hearts now.

[tankie-transfeminist]

This is transfeminism!

[prguitarman]

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[prguitarman]

Happy 15th birthday to Nyan Cat! The post above is the original and first post of the 8bit kitty back on April 2nd, 2011.

I drew it as a cake to celebrate 🎂🐈‍⬛✨

[ah0178]

why did I make a tumblr account

[ah0178]

if making this account didn’t help make me trans, idk what did

[devilcat3d]

let's hear it for trans women who don't do a whole lot and are just making it through the days as best they can. we deserve so much love

[blogofvariablequality]

[ofishal-fish-posts]

i love those gimmick blogs that go around translating shitposts into different languages. gotta be one of my favorite tumblr things. like heck yeah spread the shitposts around in all languages.

[translatingpostsintorussian]

ofishal-fish-posts

обожаю гимик блоги которые берут и переводят щитпосты на другие языки. однозначно одно из моих любимых явлений тумблера. типа да давайте распространяйте щитпосты на всех языках.

[egg-basket]

Asking the real questions 🏳️‍⚧️

[robotmechagirl]

As a teenager and well into adulthood it used to be my idle daydream to be accepted by a group of girls and then "forced" to dress and act like a girl. How convenient it would have been to have plausible deniability because I was "forced", and even more convenient that the scary parts would have been navigated for me. I knew I wanted to grow into/be a woman and yet was so far in the closet that I could not at that time, reconcile or admit to myself that I am a trans woman.

Specifically my favourite was to imagine I had gotten into cheerleading, and having to spend lots of time socializing on trips and competitions and stuff. In this day dream they would eventually get curious what I looked like as a girl and pressure me into letting them dress me up. I dreamed that their life experience would translate into knowing how to feminize me and that I could gleen from them the knowledge. I dreamt of just living my life like a girl/woman and just never telling anyone after. Just doing normal stuff and having friends.

Honestly, I've only had like... 3 people try to help me style myself and dress me up. Every time I learn so much and gain a different perspective on how to feminize myself more. What would be really cool is if I could save up a little bit of money to go thrifting so I can bring my friends along and have them each recommend stuff for me to wear. Bet I could co-ordinate something like that. Lost the plot a little here, but it's fucking rad to have friends willing and accepting enough to help and having worked through the transmisogyny I no longer need to fantasize about being coerced into feminizing myself.

I think as a result of all of this I've grown an appreciation for administering someone else's HRT (E & T) and helping them plot some goals and share helpful strategies to achieve those goals.

[assignedmale]

[ah0178]

there’s tons of biblical evidence that actually supports trans folks and transitioning

[enki2]

[baureihe185]

185 510 in Angermünde am 29.11.2025

[rabbiteclair]

a guy shoots at me with a sniper rifle and I catch the bullet in my teeth and eat it, but he saw that coming and put poison in the bullet, but I saw that coming and drank an antidote ahead of time, but all those weird chemicals still give me a really bad kidney stone a few days later and I pass out from pain and crash my car into, by pure coincidence, the sniper