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[bvlgaribitch]

!!!STILL URGENT!!! PLEASE HELP, PLEASE DO NOT JUST SCROLL PAST.

PLEASE HELP MY FAMILY GET OUR WATER BACK AND KEEP US OFF THE STREET.

hello all, i’m sorry to ask this again but i’m sure, as most of you probably already know having seen all of my annoying posts begging for money, know that i am currently going through extremely hard times as my water has been turned off (if by some miracle you know nothing of this, refer to THIS POST) and the fee that they are charging me to have it turned back on is extremely outrageous and way way out of my means.

unfortunately, DONATIONS HAVE COME TO A COMPLETE STOP FOR AT LEAST FIVE DAYS. i am not even a third - maybe not even a fourth of the way to getting my water turned back on and as a lot of you know I’m sure water is kind of super important to pretty much everything survival related. we are currently on the last bit of our emergency water reserve (which were kept in plastic jugs and rubbermaid tubs so…not the most clean or sanitary water for drinking) and we have had to spend a portion of what has already been donated to buy fresh water from the store for us and our two emotional support dogs to drink, the reserves have been used mainly to wash dishes and maybe three loads of clothes, wash up my mother and i, give the dogs one joint bath because it was less water consumed to wash them together, and now it’s almost gone. 

i have been doing all i can do on my own to secure more money through my commissions and by other means but it is simply not enough and i CANNOT do this alone, and i am terrified that i will fail and lose my section 8 and become homeless along with my disabled mom and our dogs and that is probably one of the scariest possibilities anyone could ever be faced with. i 

really cannot thank those who have donated and reblogged enough. you have done for us more than i could ever put into words in a way fit for y'all. but again, i am being forced to live without water or pay $784 - over $800 after all the fees they’re pinning on me due to my landlord allowing a leak to skyrocket my water bill. i am also now forced to cover the cost of hiring someone to fix the leak as my landlord will not accept responsibility and section 8 (at least my local housing authority) will not do anything (likely because they have been known to accept bribes, the apt i live in is not in any way shape or form “livable” or even mildly “acceptable” in the condition it is in and it has been this was since we moved into it, yet it has passed three years of inspections without a hitch? 🤔) 

THIS WILL RUN ME BETWEEN $200 & $300. 

i am begging for your help. any help. this situation has caused me so much heartache, i have several mental illnesses including bpd, clinical depression, intermittent explosive disorder, generalized anxiety disorder, & more. unfortunately, my mother also share a good few of those same illnesses along with her physical disabilities which include fibromyalgia, spondylosis (c4/5/6/7 vertebrates are rubbing against each other causing chronic pain and bone degeneration), peripheral neuropathy, sciatica, osteoarthritis, the list goes on. 

if you can donate, PLEASE do. if you can’t, PLEASE reblog, i can do nothing but beg in hopes that the kindness of both strangers and friends in this community will be able to help us, and if not for me, at least for my mom and two dogs. they do not deserve to live this way and they do not deserve homelessness (and being put in the shelter in the case of my dogs who are my literal babies.) please help. 

i know this is annoying for some people to see and i know i am asking A LOT, but i am desperate. please help my family. we are scared. i am scared.

DONATE HERE: paypal.me/bvlgaribitch cash.me/$bvlgaribitch venmo.com/bvlgaribitch thank you for your time and consideration.

[closingtomb]

I’m 21. I have rapidly tearing nerves causing respiratory problems that could eventually KILL ME. There is no guarantee of effective treatment. As my condition worsens, I’m also at increasing risk of deadly mistreatment by psychiatry or in emergency departments, due to being bedbound, cognitively impaired and potentially subject to laws that allow paramedics to force me into hospital against my will if/when I do asphyxiate. I ABSOLUTELY need all the resources I can get to find effective treatment, and avoid death and institutional brutality

i have a neurological condition featuring torn nerves that developed after an accident in late 2012. This recent post explains the recent alarming decline in my condition, past mistreatment by psychiatrists + assault by patient transport officers + indifference from police.

i really would like people to try to understand where I am at - having no access to effective treatment nor any guarantee that it can be found, and continual rapid decline re my physical, respiratory and cognitive issues. i am only 21, so continued decline will either result in an untimely death or unthinkably severe disabilities for the rest of my life. all of this is compounded by having limited resources and no government services in place apart from a $336/week payment.

any additional support that can be provided will help me greatly. I have to save up for medical care + need to pay up to about $1457 USD/week for home care, transport and accommodation bills; as explained previously I’m trying to increase the hours  of home care i access to limit deterioration. I am also trying to save at least about 800 USD per day from now for the accident compensation case that could potentially result in adequate funding for disability & medical care for the rest of my life. (the exceptionally high cost is explained HERE). I have to raise the legal fees quickly, or delays could jeopardise the case.

You can view my medical reports on  fundraiser-evidence.tumblr.com

The short term goal is to raise  $2,625 by 10am 21st Aug ET (i.e. end of the day in Sydney) for medical treatment savings, disability care payments + legal fees.

the reason for this high amount is partly because of funds I wasn’t able to raise last week [x]. You can view a detailed outline of the payments here.

Please donate something if you can! Thank you.

- PayPal.me page (PayPal account required; no transactions fees for PayPal balance transfers) - PayPal page (no PayPal account required) - PayPal transfer to [email protected]

- If PayPal doesn’t work, please try my old gofundme page which uses Stripe. Note: the info there is 20 months old, please just use the page as an alternative means of donation. https://www.gofundme.com/hmnad

[allyourfavesareasexual]

This is off topic to the blog, but you mentioned sga ace, and I was wondering what you meant by that? I haven't heard that term before, sorry about my uninformed-ness...

Nah don’t sorry about it!  Sga stands for “same gender attracted” (ex., gay, bi, pan, etc. type identities).  Sga aces are asexuals who are same gender attracted.

[allyourfavesareasexual]

drunkscully replied to your post “aces ain't queer for being ace honey”

HOLY SHITTT KDFfsdf. no im in the same boat, as an sga ace, i've been uncomfortable talking about anything asexuality-related on tumblr. yay tumblr! way to make both the real and online worlds unsafe for me!

Haha yeah... the topic of sga aces is like a terrible discourse hot spot on tumblr.  Over time my opinions have mostly shifted against “aces are queer” type arguments so like, I can’t even disagree with anon about their actual point because I think they’re right, but they’re showing aggression towards me that’s not actually called for.  It’s like the experience of sga acehood on tumblr in miniature.

Anyways, glad to hear from a fellow sga ace, & if you ever do want to talk feel free to drop me a line either as an ask/PM on this blog or on my main @jade-ellsworth; I keep asks private on request and in general try to err on the side of not publishing.

[allyourfavesareasexual]

aces ain't queer for being ace honey

buddy.... the thing is that i agree with you.  I agree that asexuality is not an inherently queer identity, and thus i’m really questioning why you felt the need to send me this ask.  This blog has been inactive for four months (in large part because as an sga ace i find ace discourse pretty draining and have become pretty distanced from the community as well as lots of mainstream ace discourse) and I’m really wondering 1) how you found the blog 2) having found it where you got the idea that I think aces are inherently queer.

In fact, i just now used control-f to discover that the last time I used the word queer on this blog (outside of some mentions of qprs) is in this post, 16 pages back and a year ago.  Guess what?  It’s a post explicitly criticizing the use of the word queer in order to refer to asexuals.

So I’m forced to conclude that you came upon this blog, immediately assumed the mod’s discourse opinions & orientation and then decided to send a somewhat rude ask.  I invite you to analyze why you felt this need.

[allyourfavesareasexual]

To the aces out there who want relationships with aces: look no further than acedate. I, Team Cat Space, will put your profile out where other aces can see it and find it and speak with you! Submit a little bit about yourself and maybe a photo and I'll publish it where it can be seen. Thanks for your time, Team Cat Space

[girlidiotdotcom-deactivated2023]

I can’t believe I have to say this in 2015 but for goodness sake

1. Stop assuming asexuals are skilled in long range combat

2. Some asexuals prefer hand-to-hand physical attacks

3. There’s nothing wrong with being asexual and using gauntlets while in combat

4. STOP ASSUMING ALL ASEXUALS CAN’T USE HALBERDS

[allyourfavesareasexual]

1) Literally everyone in the Queen’s Thief series is asexual. Eugenides, Attolia, Sophos, the magus, Eddis. EVERYONE. Even Costis. 2) Eugenides and Attolia have a lovely ace marriage full of political intrigue, personal growth and adventure, based in mutual validation and support. 3) Despite all the wild rumors about the royal couple’s sex life, when Gen ninjas his way to Attolia’s chambers late at night, they don’t have sex, they talk about their day and snuggle and argue and gossip about their friends and brainstorm new plans for national security and social reforms.

[allyourfavesareasexual]

Geralt of Rivia from The Witcher is actually totally ace tho

[allyourfavesareasexual]

Don't know if this has already been done but Elsa is most definitely aromantic and asexual

[allyourfavesareasexual]

Sherlock from BBC Sherlock is definitely asexual.

[allyourfavesareasexual]

Ash Ketchum from Pokemon is Ace/Aro.

[allyourfavesareasexual]

Toriel from Undertale is ace.

[allyourfavesareasexual]

Jim Hawkins from Treasure Planet is aro ace.

[allyourfavesareasexual]

Demiromantic asexual Derek from Teen Wolf

[allyourfavesareasexual]

Aro/ace Ryouko Matoi from Kill la Kill

[allyourfavesareasexual]

Lynn from TwoKinds is asexual.