Spencer

A pansexual, nonbinary, poly, slice-of-life/romance/comedy anime lover!

[proudnb]

It's ok if you feel like you need to change your pronouns again.

Being nonbinary is a complex way to be. It's also flexible and adaptable.

Finding better pronouns now is just as important and legitimate as the first time.

[spookygayferret]

Putting "trans rights" in your bio is cute and all, but do you actually support trans people? Trans Rights means:

You support all GNC trans people (including butch trans women and feminine trans men)

You support pre-op/no-op trans/non-binary people

You support non-binary people in general

You don't misgender anyone for any reason

You don't mock or belittle GNC people (trans or cis)

You support the deconstruction of gender roles

You support any and all gender expression, including ultra-feminine trans women and ultra-masculine trans men (or vice versa)

You don't dismiss fringe gender identities/expressions even if you don't understand them

You don't refer to young (or older) trans people as "trenders" for any reason

You don't feel the need to coddle/protect trans men ("precious uwu baby!!" and that kind of infantilizing bullshit)

You don't ask trans people about what surgeries they've had/are planning to get

You don't make a distinction between "trans men" and "real men" or "trans women" and "real women" (spoiler alert: all trans men are real men and all trans women are real women by default)

You don't say stuff like "trans men are so much better than cis men!! uwu" or "trans women are basically just women, but better!!". Fucking stop.

"Trans Rights" is more than being okay with trans women. If you support trans women, but also infantilize and degrade trans men or non-binary people, you're not an ally.

[kaylahadlington]

i often wonder how many ppl from 2012 tumblr are still active on here

are u also still here, lurking in the shadows????

[guccixcoochie]

[claviclez]

[trr3rr]

[thatfunkyopossum]

[durnesque-esque]

[oatmealaddiction]

[psyduckscience]

[tokidokifish]

[the-dread-prevails]

[alemanriq]

[animusrox]

[scavengedluxury]

[judygemstone]

[clubmedea]

[satyriconmp3]

babygirl i am going to chop these vegetables so roughly. does the diversity of shapes on display in these pieces of onion make you want me

[strongermonster]

now that i’m older and understand how absolutely fucked the housing market is, all those horror movies that take place in nice houses where the family refuses to leave make sense. if i had a 4,000sqft vintage home you’d need to kill me before i ever moved out as well. fuck the ghost. charge it rent.

[beardedmrbean]

[bumblebeerror]

My very unpopular opinion apparently:

Straight cis perisex able-bodied neurotypical people using aids designed for disabled people (I.e weighted blankets, grabby claw, sock holder, etc), going to therapists occasionally to keep up their mental health, using fidget toys, choosing to call their bf/gf their partner, using pronouns besides the ones associated with their gender just because they like it, and doing a million other small things that make us fitting in and being accepted a little bit easier is in fact exactly the type of support these communities need, and will ultimately help us so much more than gatekeeping ever fuckin will

[youreastargirl]

So I’m at a library in a town I don’t live in to spend time with my nieces and I go to the bathroom and see this sign.

They turned their old card catalog into free supplies people can discretely take on their own.

This is the coolest thing ever, a great way to help people without making them ask, and an amazing reuse of a the card catalog. I’m seriously about to cry I love it so much.

[millennial-review-deactivated20]

[glass-gears-deactivated20250123]

The only “Not All Men” post I’ll reblog.

[dxmedstudent]

To break down rape culture, we need to stop teaching people that men can’t help themselves; they absolutely can look for enthusiastic consent, and they must. This is absolute bare minimum decent human being behaviour. 

[mrdyketator]

💯

[ashstfu]

i'm SO laid back, i only care about like 3 things in the world:

my favorite fictional characters and music

every person on this earth and their opinion of me

the crushing psychological weight of being alive

[thedicepaladin]

When your DM does something super fucked up but it enriches the plot:

[whimsycore]

COVID is straight up more deadly for people of color in the western world. Like we’re not going to be the ones screened. If you have mild symptoms they’ll say you’re overreacting. I know especially black people are more at risk because we have a 20% higher chance of having Asthma. 40-60% higher chance of having lupus. And Especially Indigenous and Black people have a History in the US of being denied healthcare

[mmelaninmedicine-deactivated202]

One of the things I’ve learned as a healthcare provider and a person of color is the strongest words you can use against any medical provider is “ I want it documented in my chart that you are refusing to test me OR that you deem this test unnecessary.” The most important part is getting a copy of your discharge paperwork with those words written. Everything in our notes is permissible in court and in healthcare we have a strong saying “ if you didn’t document it then it didn’t happen”. I’d love to say that 99% of physicians do believe they are doing the right thing or making the right judgement call and do not mean any malice or have ill intent towards any patient regardless of the persons race or socioeconomic status but we all know that shit just isn’t true. Trust your healthcare providers but if you don’t feel heard try explaing that to them and if not you can always ask to speak to another provider for a second opinion. We all have bosses just like you do.

[randomfandomteacher]

In Chicago, 70% of COVID-19 Deaths Are Black

Black residents make up only 23% of the population in Cook County, yet they account for more than half of the COVID-19 deaths. A retired nur

[noelyely-deactivated20200826]

Honestly really wish we’d normalize respecting children more. We’ve got parents treating their own children like property, whole ass governments trying to figure out if they deserve toothpaste and soap, and grown ass adults bullying/stalking them on Twitter, like it’s just absolutely fucking astounding how much people just refuse to interact with children like they’re actual human beings.

[indiemovies]

I don’t drink, I don’t party.

[sheevr]

going out with your lgbt friends

[positiveautistic-deactivated202]

I know you’re sad, so i won’t tell you ’have a good day’. Instead, i advise you to simply ’have a day’. Stay alive, feed yourself well, wear comfortable clothes, and don’t give up on yourself just yet. It’ll be better soon. Until then, have a day.

[transboysuggestions]

stop scrolling for just a second and take a few nice, deep breaths.  things will be okay. everything will sort itself out eventually. hang in there. i hope you have a great rest of your day, friend.