Kara and Alex + “Destiny”

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@always-kalex
Kara and Alex + “Destiny”
Hi, I’m here. I’m here. Missed you so much. I really missed you.
Why?
Okay, the last few weeks I came to know that many of my fellow Kalex shippers got harassed again. And it all started with the search for a new shipper name for Alex/Kelly. And someone from Tumblr started this war by saying that Kalex cannot be used because it is “tainted” from the Alex/Kara shippers. And also another user said - who seems to be a Danvers Sisters fan (much like Kalex shippers) - that she is horrified whenever she accidentally reblogs Kalex thinking it is platonic, when the OP intended for it to be romantic. I have to say that this poster did appologize. Thank you very much for this.
(BTW doesn’t that lend credence to Kalex, but I digress).
I am myself a Kalex shipper, and yes I ship them romantically. I also had to deal with haters. And learned that it is almost impossible to reason with them. Many words were thrown at me and my fellow kalexers. We were told that we were abusing the importance of adoption, incest shippers, gross and the list goes on and on. So I know of many Kalex shippers who are afraid to be open about their passion, because of fear of harassment and hatred.
But here is the deal, first and foremost, this is just a TV Series - this is not reality. No one of us would ever abuse the importance of adoption, guardianship or a sister relationship. As for incest, that is a loaded word and it doesn’t always mean what you think it means i.e. did you know you can marry your first cousin in California? In many jurisdictions, an adopted child is allowed to marry the child of adoptive parents. Anyway, Kara is an alien, Alex is human, and Kara’s adoption isn’t even a legitimate adoption. She was fostered (much like her speedster canon counterpart).
So it is alright to ship them Alex/Kara much in the same way people ship Kara/Lena. What is not alright is searching for Kalex tags, either on Tumblr or AO3 or any other social media platform and harassing people. We are a minority we know it, but we live in our own little corner, we don’t shove our opinion down the throat of others. We don’t search for tags and tell people how they have to think and feel. If you don’t like what you see and read, block it!! Just as simple as that. I didn’t like Maggie, and I am not a fan of James nor Kelly, although I have to say that I do like Kelly more than Maggie.
What is not okay is going to the official accounts of the actors and harassing them just because you are not happy the way they are portrayed or the way they act. Actors have little choice in what they are able to play freely. Yes, they can adlib some things here and there. But the big choices come from the CW. You don’t know what kind of pressure the writers must endure. It is also not alright to harass them. The writers can write episodes, but the bosses from the CW have to approve that. It is also not alright to harass them.
If you don’t like what you see, you are free to “talk” to them, make maybe some suggestions. But it is not alright to hunt them down, to abuse them and call them names.
This also counts for us Kalex shippers. As I said before, if you don’t like what you see, feel free to block us. Don’t search our tags, don’t read our FF, don’t read our tumblr entries. Let us live our own little happy lives. We are not gross, we are not monsters. We don’t go out and kill people, rape little children or abuse animals. Most of us live a normal life, have family and friends ( who also can be non-Kalexers, mind you), we like to go out and have fun. We just know the difference between TV shows and reality.
Ship and let ship. Why are there always people who poison certain Fandoms? Every ship has the right to exist. Be happy with what you ship, live your passion, talk with others who also feel the same way. Start interesting discussions and debate certain episodes. Go out to Conventions where you meet other interesting people, likeminded or not. Yes, hear them out, even if you cannot agree with it. But let them be for god’s sake. Respect and Tolerate it.
As I said I am not a fan of Alex/Kelly, nor Supercorp. But this is because I am a Kalex shipper by heart. But I do respect other ships. I won’t go out and harass Azie, Chyler, Katie, Melissa or Mehcad. Nor am I going out and harass the fans from this ship. Why? Because I am an adult and respect it. I don’t search the tags and abuse everyone who don’t feel the same way as I do. Again, if you don’t like something, block it and move on with your life.
We Kalex fans are here since the first episode and we are here to stay. I am usually someone who don’t write that much on Tumblr or Twitter and I don’t get involved in fandom wars. But if someone is harassing my fellow shippers or the actors, I won’t keep quiet because that is wrong. Same for anyone who harasses the actors.
Lets channel the spirit of the show, and the cast and spread positivity and joy.
Thanks to @queerdesi for betareading and helping me since english isn’t my natural language.
This is an appreciation post for the fanfic authors who aren’t included on rec lists
For the fanfic authors who don’t get art of their fics
For the fanfic authors who can’t get to 1000/500/100 hits
For the fanfic authors who don’t get comments/reviews
For the fanfic authors who write for small fandoms
For the fanfic authors who write rarepairs or gen fics
For the fanfic authors who get hate for the ships/characters/fandoms they write
For the fanfic authors who write in English despite it not being their first language
For the fanfic authors who don’t write in English
For the fanfic authors who don’t think anyone reads or likes their work
For the fanfic authors who aren’t big name fans
For the fanfic authors who don’t get requests in their inboxes
For the fanfic authors who can’t write stories that are more than a thousand words
For the fanfic authors who only write one ship
For the fanfic authors who are just starting
For the fanfic authors who have been writing fic for years
For the fanfic authors who use fanfic to practice writing
For the fanfic authors who write self-insert fics
For the fanfic authors who write about their OCs
For the fanfic authors who write to vent or cope
For the fanfic authors who are just waiting for their big break
Keep creating, I love you ❤️
Whats a soulmate?
It’s a.. Well, it’s like a best friend, but more.
It’s the one person in the world that knows you better than anyone else.
It’s someone who makes you a better person
well, actually they don’t make you a better person
you do that yourself– because they inspire you.
A soulmate is someone who you carry with you forever.
It’s the one person who knew you
and accepted you,
and believed in you
before anyone else did or when no one else would
And no matter what happens.. you’ll always love them.
Listen, “asshole with a heart of gold” is a good trope but you know what we need more than that???
Dumbass with a heart of gold. Just, a complete moron who cares a whole fucking lot. An idiot who would die for a stranger. A goddamn dimwit so fucking in love with someone that they’d do anything for ‘em.
@kalex-corner that's me. I'm a fricking moron but I care.
list of my favorite characters | Acknowledge the fear, then kick its ass. (Kara Danvers, Supergirl)
Kara Danvers totally makes an appearance on Sesame Street as Supergirl
Kara as Supergirl, with Elmo and Grover and Big Bird (definitely with Big Bird) talking about how to deal with bullies.
Kara in her suit and and cape with that smile on her face that makes people smile back whether they meant to or not and kids trust her instantly, talking about adoptive families and getting along with your siblings. And no she can’t say who her adoptive family here on earth is, because they need to stay safe but she can talk about how much she loves them, just like she still loves her biological family even though she misses them every day. She can talk about the times it was hard fitting in with a new family and how sometimes someone might say something hurtful (and how sometimes that someone was her) but how family means talking and forgiveness and understanding and love whether you were born into it, or you found each other (and maybe she goes home that night and she and Alex don’t talk they just hug tighter than usual and Alex’ eyes are suspiciously shiny when she steals the remote).
Kara with her chin up and her shoulders squared and her voice not shaking at all (J’onn gives her a nod when she comes back to the DEO and a quiet “good job, Supergirl,” that means everything) talking about being far from home and trying to adjust to a new culture and a new language and how it hurt when people made fun of her and how they live in a big world where a lot of people have to leave their homes sometimes for very bad reasons and how sometimes all it takes is someone holding out their hand and saying “you can sit with us at lunch” to make things a little better.
Kara kissing Elmo on the top of his head and Elmo giggling, and then floating up to hug Big Bird so he doesn’t have to bend down.
Kara definitely being invited back.
Kara and Sesame Street
Reblogging again for the heartbreaking commentary. The Sesame Street episode I never knew I always needed.
I consider it canon that in the universe where Supergirl and Superman are real, the Muppets are real also, and Superman has sung ‘Rainbow Connection’ with Kermit at least twice.
— never let this cruel world steal your spark.
— despite this big cruel world. x
James Olsen and Why he is a terrible character. (Anti James, in case it isn’t clear).
So I’ve been thinking a lot about James Olsen and the reasons why I don’t like him that have nothing to do with him getting in the way of Supercorp.
The truth is I haven’t liked James Olsen since the first episode. He isn’t James Olsen to me. I know I know they changed up the character and people often do this. But James Olsen is a canon and iconic nerd with a camera. To be honest if I didn’t know who the characters were already I’d have clocked Winn as James, Winn is more James Olsen than this James is.
I disliked him almost immediately, he was basically there for a fresh start but he also took it upon himself to keep an eye on Kara. I didn’t like the fact that he knew Kara’s secret, something she should have control over. Imagine if she had just out right told Winn who Clark was? (OK,she and James kind of did by accident while arguing but that’s beside the point).
James also instantly started flirting with Kara, probably not what Clark had in mind. Isn’t there a bro code? No sisters or only living relatives?
James and Winn both acted all put out when they realized that they both knew Kara’s secret, ‘you told him?!’ Well actually Kara told Winn, she didnt tell James. Neither one has the right to feel indignant here. Kara is allowed more than one person in the know and more than one friend.
James and Winn started a pointless rivalry over who was going to get with Kara, instead of just being the friends she needed. They both even said that Kara wouldn’t be into Adam since she wasn’t into either one of them!!
James didn’t believe that Kara could deal with issues on her own. He told her that even Clark couldn’t beat Reactron, therefore there is no way Kara could. He immediately called Clark when she was fighting him, granted he was worried, but it wasnt his place to decide Kara wasn’t capable. Especially when it turns out she was capable.
Then Lucy turned up, Kara discovers this by walking in on her and James. James it turns out hadn’t exactly fully broken up with Lucy. She spent time on her career while he neglected her in favor of being up Superman’s ass. She was understandably upset about this. But he decides they should give it another try! He completely forgets that he had been leading Kara on from the moment he set eyes on her. Now his ‘sort of ex’ turns up and Kara is a distant memory. Or is she? James decides that he is still going to give Kara longing looks, which isnt fair on either Kara or Lucy. Granted he doesn’t want to take Lucy to game night, but he does and he spends time bonding with Lucy right in front of Kara, no regard for her feelings, and he gives her longing looks all night.
James then starts neglecting Lucy in favor of running to Supergirls side whenever she needs him. Once again doing the same thing he did that caused Lucy to leave the first time. This eventually causes Lucy to leave again, and i dont blame her. Thankfully she doesnt hate Kara for it.
I think General Lane had it right ‘You’re a glorified paparazzi’ yes, he is. That is James’s strength and he should have stuck to it. ‘You surround yourself with special people but that doesnt make YOU special’. Yes, right again General lane. James does do this, he is always surrounded by Superheroes and seems to leech off of their fame.
Remember how into Kara James was? Up until he realized that she in fact not perfect! After the Red K incident, Kara went to see James and apologize and he didnt want anything to do with her. He realized she had faults, and women apparently cant have these, so he basically gets her to leave. Ill give him kudos for not getting with her when she came onto him at the club though.
When Barry Allen turned up James was once again instantly jealous, even though he was the one who had basically rejected Kara. Kara wasn’t even into Barry, she was just excited to have a new friend with Super powers. ‘Jealousy! Thy name is Olsen’ Yes Winn, you are absolutely right! She is allowed friends James!
Season 2 James isnt much better, he has less redeeming qualities. He is instantly jealous of Mon El. He tells Kara that Mon El isnt a hero, like he gets to make that decision. He basically decides to become a hero because everyone else around him was one, Clark and Kara were super heroes, Alex and Lucy worked for the DEO, Jonn was part of the DEO and has powers, Winn even got brought in to work for the DEO, oh and Mon El was instantly welcomed to be a hero and be at the DEO. I see James becoming a ‘hero’ because he was simply feeling left out. At one point he just turns up at the DEO to see Winn. How is he getting past security? Even Jonn tells him to leave and go back to being a photographer.
James talks Winn into basically stealing materials from the DEO to make him a suit, then he gets all pissed at Winn because Winn is taking his time and he does actually have a job! He doesn’t want James to get hurt with an uncompleted suit, but no, James is so demanding and yells at Winn! So desperate to be relevant.
He does in fact nearly get himself killed and Kara is understandably pissed! Yes its not up to Kara who gets to be a hero, James uses Mon El as an example here, The difference is though that Mon El had super powers and James had a tin suit and a black belt. James uses the fact that he ‘has a black belt’ as justification for him being a hero. Sorry, but who doesn’t have a back belt now? James doesnt even train, he just gets his suit and jumps straight in. Even Kara and Alex had to train! Remember how cocky Kara was and Alex kicked her ass? Alex wasnt even allowed out in the field until months of training! (Her words) But James apparently can just jump in with no issue. I really dont get why Alex didnt put a stop to this.
Anyone who says ‘well Batman, Green Arrow, White Canary etc’ can do it. Yeah but Batman was was trained by the League of Assassins, same as Sara. Oh and Oliver Queen trained and survived for years on a desert Island. He trains every day honing his skills. Do we ever see James train at all?
Then we have James being instantly against Lena. No evidence against her, just her name and the fact that she is related to Lex. He is so prejudice against her, he even vows to prove to Kara that she is guilty, even though she isnt and he doesnt get to prove this.
James is left in charge of Cat Co? Such a dumb story line, What does a photo journalist know about running a multi media empire? Honestly Kara as Cat’s assistant would know more about it that James!
When Lena saves Cat Co, James is surprised she turns up and is staying there. What did he think was going to happen? She would pay millions of dollars for a company and not care about what was going on? ‘Thanks for saving us, i was thinking of setting up weekly meetings and carrying on running Cat Co the way i want to’. Yeah, Lena kind of shot that down didn’t she?! ‘Ill be here everyday’ ‘We dont even have an office for you?’ Well she is entitled to your office now James, but she didn’t take it did she?. Yes Lena set up meetings without telling James, which she probably shouldn’t have, but maybe she wanted to see what was going on without his influence? Even whens she asked why Kara kept running off on the first day James was rude to her and said ‘She’s a reporter its what she does!’.
Then suddenly we have an awkward flirtation. We have that awkward kiss, then James and his creepy hand on Lena’s bare shoulder. Even she looks uncomfortable and squirms out of his grasp. He looks surprised and a little miffed she isnt allowing this. She calls Kara and James ex and he allows her to believe that, this simply isnt true. They had one date at Kara’s loft, then Mon El turned up and Kara forgot she ever liked James.
James had the gall to tell Lena he knew her better than her own best friend does! I mean What the actual f**k?!! Lena steps down when she is under suspicion, somethng James cant bring himself to do later when he is involved with he COL.
James reveals himself as Guardian, no regard for how this will effect Lena in anyway as his boss and girlfriend. He has zero respect for her as his boss. She tells him to stay the hell away from the Children of Liberty and to do the interview with Ben Lockwood. He completely disregards her and goes off to meet with some random member of an Anti Alien Nazi group. he even told her that her opinion didnt matter. No, sorry James but yes it does! If i was Lena id have sacked his ass!
Lena still saves his ass from going to prison for a long time, all the while he insists he can handle it on his own, how? I want to know how he thought he could do that? In fact he doesn’t actually do anything to fix the issue. He then throws it in Lena’s face when she tells him not to go back out as Guardian because he will be arrested. Something he doesn’t care about because he is so desperate to be relevant and involved. He throws the fact she worries to much and he sorted the DA problem out, forcing her to be like ‘For Gods sake! I did that you moron!’ (i know she didnt say this). He even has the gall to be pissed she saved his ass and he isnt in prison. She tells him she loves him and throws it in her face!
He decided the Children of Liberty decided to be given a voice for some bizarre reason?! He actually thought that by listening to them he could get to know them and change the minds. What a pig headed and dumb thing to think! Good intentions or not that was incredibly nieve and stupid.
He nearly killed Kara by blowing her up, something that could have been avoided altogether if he had just listened to everyone around him and stopped being friends with COL. But no, he knew best?
Lately, he told Lena he supported her, but he clearly didn’t since he looked awkward as hell when he was sat up in bed with her asleep beside him. She gave him opportunity to tell her how he felt but instead of talking to her, he placated her and went back to bed with her!
Last episode, he told Lena their relationship was basically over if she went ahead and took the government contact. Simply because he didn’t agree he was willing to end them. It’s not like she was about to so something evil! But she has to live up to his impossible standards. The poor girl can’t win. I’d of ended it with him to. Again, James’s opinion on these things aren’t really relevant, he can disagree yes, he can have an opinion. But anything he says doesn’t matter, he isn’t part of the DEO, he isn’t a member of the government. He isn’t even Guardian anymore because he’s not allowed to be. All he is is a CEO of a magazine. He doesn’t get a say. This is very like when he gave up on Kara for a while when she suddenly had faults and she wasn’t what he envisioned. Same as Lucy, she doesn’t give him the power and eveything he wants and suddenly it’s over.
James should have continued to be a photographer and stuck to that. He’s at his best when taking pictures. He believes he deserves to be a hero, it’s ‘his calling’. No it isn’t, do you think it would be his ‘calling’ if he wasnt associated with actual heroes? Of course not. All I see a jealous, immature guy who sees those around him being heroes and being relevant to the defence of the world and he feels the need to be part of it. He could have been a different type of hero with his camera. Once he got some authority he suddenly became even more arrogant and had a sense of self entitliment. He dated his boss and suddenly thought he didn’t have to listen to her. He could act on his own accord. Not one thought to what Cat Co’s CEO’S affiliation with an Anti Alien Terrorist Group would do his girlfriends reputation. Poor Lena who has gone out of her way to distance herself from anti alien sentiment, James used her company for his own self gain. Then he got pissed at her when she tried to protect him, all the while thinking of him, maybe she was thinking of protecting her company to. He doesn’t think of her even once. He actually pushes her so far she had to pull rank on him. Something he still had the arrogance to ignore. It’s all about James and what James wants.
James is a fool who thinks he should be a hero. He wants women to be exactly what he expects them to be. If they do things he doesn’t approve of he suddenly loses interest .
James should either leave, go back to Metropolis or go back to being the photographer he should be.
FYI, James does have good qualities, but they doesn’t outweigh his bad ones.