Out of sight and out of mind.

Allie / TAKING SOME TIME AWAY / My writing @ramblings-of-a-cavill-lover / My Bucky fics / My favorite fics

[femservice]

Here is the secret to fandom:

Give zero fucks about what anyone else is doing.

Seriously.  I mean it.  Because inevitably you will love something that no one else loves.  Or you will love something that everyone loves and people will shit all over it because it’s “so trite and unimaginative and done.” Or you will love something that no one else has ever heard of.  Or you will love something dark and edgy and or obscure and people will roll their eyes and say, “What, do you want people to think you’re dark and edgy and obscure?”

Alternatively, you will not love the thing that everyone else loves, and you will wonder what precisely is wrong with you that the sight of that thing is aggravating the shit out of you now when the whole world sings its praises as one.

People will irritate you.  They’ll irritate you with headcanons that make no sense and misinterpretations of canon.  They will make the same jokes 500 times.  They will overwhelm your corner of fandom with something you either are tired of hearing about or don’t care about.  They will post art that isn’t theirs.  You will meet people who think you are the greatest person ever and bombard you with messages  only to wander off when they find someone new or shinier; you will meet people whom you admire and who do not really seem to notice you exist. 

So give zero fucks about it.  Seriously.  Like what you like, blacklist what you need to blacklist, and ignore everything else.  Be friends, play nice, enjoy it.  And in the meantime, just do you.  Like what you like, love what you love, and to hell with all the rest of it. 

[catchymemes]

[ramblings-of-a-cavill-lover]

Thoughts On Henry

My thoughts on Henry in real life:

I think he is that kind of person that is so proactive, goal oriented and dedicated that being around him when he’s on a project is both awe-inspiring and downright annoying.

When he’s not working he’s the best (or worst, depends on your pov) drinking buddy.

I think he’s the kind of guy that can be the sweetest and most devoted of boyfriends, but at the same time he could have a few good laughs at your expense.

I think he’s the kind of boyfriend you can be in silence with. Or raise a ruckus with. Or read with/next to. Or have a party with.

He’s reliable, honest, patient and honorable.

2023 Update: Boy was I wrong on the previous one. He can be all those things when convenient. More on this below.

He’s playful, naughty and can be a jerk sometimes.

He’ll call you on your bullshit and expect the same from you.

He’ll introduce you to a world of things he knows and expect you to do the same.

He’ll be your worst opponent in a game of Trivia.

He’d be down to teach you whatever game you wanted to play with him.

He’s patient with your fears of him on a motorcycle or doing his own stunts, and would do his best to reassure you.

He would definitely not give up the things he loves just because of your concerns, though. He’d acknowledge them, but he wouldn’t change for you.

He’s a pain to be around when he makes up his mind on some subject you disagree with.

Expect some attitude when he’s putting his foot down.

As to getting to know who someone really is through interviews, I agree with you. It’s too limited in terms of subjects you can talk about, most of the time answers are rehearsed and actors are, for the most part, still acting as they answer.

The trick to interviews, mainly junkets, is that they are repetitive.

So if you watch enough of them, you’ll see they wear the actor down. Their responses become clipped and close to the rehearsed material. But if they’re asked something unexpected, they tend to stick to the shortest possible version of the truth.

Sometimes they’re just in a good mood and tell a little about themselves voluntarily.

But you’re right. You’ll never see the whole from an interview.

2023 Update: Adding to that, when he’s got a dream, a huge plan that is way too important, he can be ruthless in both word and action, telling anyone who expresses the smallest of criticisms an unapologetic f* you.

He makes up his mind about something and becomes a wolf with a bone. Vicious and suspicious.

He’s relentless in the pursuit of his own happiness, or what he believes he truly desires, and will disregard anyone who stands in the way or say something contrary.

I also believe that the stubbornness typical of him, increases to a detrimental level when receiving input contrary to his wishes. He digs his heels and goes against things he used to uphold, probably because he knows no one other than selected few can see the whole picture.

I still love the guy though. I fall more and more in love with the person I know he can be. It’s stupid but I can’t help it.

[rhymeswithbacon]

[eros-infinite]

[alyxkbrl]

Have you ever found a person online who you just click with? Your conversations flow, the topics come up easily and you spend hours chatting with them.

It's great.

Too bad (at least for me) it doesn't last.

It's like something happens on either side and things are not the same anymore.

And time passes.

And you see yourself feeling awkward about sending them a hello, let alone tell them you've been missing and thinking about them even after all the time that's passed.

I find myself in this very situation right now.

I don't know how to come back to Tumblr despite really wanting to.

It sucks and I'm sorry.

If you've just stumbled across this mini rant and read it this far, I hope you have a great day.

[alyxkbrl]

My new pj. To remind me of @poledancingdinos ' amazing writing.

[vikaq]

Clark this week 102622 2

[thingsiwant-nl]

[levi-ish]

saw this on twitter rn, if you ever feel discouraged about writing fanfiction, read this again

[chandelyer-deactivated20241003]

‘Black Tulle Skeleton’ gown by Frieda Lepold

[inklore]

this is your reminder to write whatever the hell you want. if you’ve been debating on wether or not to write that fic don’t think twice. just do it. it’s your blog. your idea. write it. share it. no more excuses!

[generalized-incompetence]

spent an hour making these instead of writing

[sanerontheinside]

me @ the first one on this post:

[thoughtkick]

“Courage doesn’t always roar. Sometimes courage is the quiet voice at the end of the day saying ‘I will try again tomorrow’.”

— Mary Anne Radmacher

[alyxkbrl]

About me:

Hi, I'm Allie and I love memes, cute animals, the idea of social interaction, fanfiction and Henry Cavill.

No wonder I just lost another job opportunity because my math skills ain't good enough.

[writeblrsupport]

Shoutout to the writers who are busy with school or jobs. You're still a writer and you're doing amazing. Keep it up

[vikaq]

“Superman Returns”