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I am a practicing Muslim and I can’t agree more. Here in Indonesia, many celebrities love to show how religious they are. It’s nice to some extent, but it’s bad when you do that extensively, so bad that when you do something terrible people will say, “oh, I guess this how a Muslim acts” or “that’s how Islam teaches them”. Relationship with God is not something you should flaunt or brag about on TV or social media. It’s personal and you don’t need anyone else’s approval. Share everything else. News. Recipes. Fashion. But keep your most intimate relationship private: your relationship with God.
Team Mom!
I made a decision to leave my day-job as market researcher for almost 7 years for many different reasons in mid 2015. Kids being one of those reasons but I never feel like I was forced to do that, especially by my kids. I think that was the perfect time for me to quit the job; perfect time for me to start my own business; perfect time to re-arrange my life and what I want to do with my time and how I prioritize it. So I don’t want people to think that I quit the day job because I prefer to be a Stay-at-Home Mom. No. I am a working mom. I am working, writing and making sales and pricing strategy for my home-decor brand on my computer, at home, while my kids are having snacks and watching TV. I always see myself a s a working mom who stays at home.
I’m a mother of two (you all must be aware since I’ve constantly blasted your facebook feed with photos of them – and for this, I give you my sincere apology) and I start to get tired hearing other people saying, “oh, so you’re a working mom. Don’t you feel guilty leaving your kids at home? Aren’t you afraid there will be time they won’t recognize their mother since you’re very busy working?” or this classic statement, “oh, so you’re JUST a stay-at-home mom? Interesting choice considering you graduated with good GPAs from reputable university…”
What make this even sadder is the fact that those questions sometimes addressed by one mom to another. I mean, really? Well guess what? All of us are full time mothers. Some of us are working, some of us are not. Some working moms are working for the money so they can feed the kids, put them to school, and keep them healthy. Are you really going to point a finger at them while they’re working their asses off to provide the family? Some others are working for their dream. But more importantly, to show their kids that you can be a mom AND a lawyer. Or banker. Or architect. Or anything you wanted to be. You really can. Are you really going to point a finger at them while they’re encouraging their kids to dream big?
And being a stay-at-home moms doesn’t mean they’re lame. How can they be lame if they can cook meal while answering the phone, cleaning the dishes and answering their kids’ constant questions? So what if their biggest dream is being a stay-at-home mom. Isn’t it a great dream, great ambition? Are you really going to point a finger at them, women who are basically chasing after their dreams? Even Oprah admitted that being a stay-at-home mom is one of the toughest jobs there is.
To all the mothers, can we please just stop this? Can we stop label the teams because there’s only one team: FULL-TIME MOMS? We feel each other. We didn’t expect most of this. We didn’t anticipate loving somebody so intensely, or loathing our post-baby body so much, or being so tired, or being the mom we’ve turned out to be.
To each of you who feel tired with the old “working mom vs stay at home mom” debate”:
You’re not a perfect mom. No matter how you try, no matter what you do. You will never be a perfect mom whether you’re a working mom or stay-at-home mom. And maybe that haunts you. Or maybe you’ve made peace with it. Or maybe it was never a problem to begin with. No matter how much you do, there is always more. No matter how little you do, when the day is over, your children are still loved. They still smile at you, believing you have magical powers to fix almost anything. No matter what happened at work, or at school, or in daycare, you have still done everything in your power to ensure that the next morning will dawn and your children will be as happy, healthy, and wise as could possibly be hoped.
You’re not a perfect mom. And that’s good. Because, really, neither is your child. And that means nobody can care for them the way you can, with the wealth of your understanding and your experience. Nobody knows what your kid’s singing, or what their jokes mean, or why they are crying, better than you do; regardless you’re a working mom or stay at home mom. And since no mother is perfect, chances are, you are caught in a two billion way tie for Best Mom in the World.
With that being said, I don’t think it’s relevant for us telling each other what to do (to work or not to work). We should pat each other’s shoulder and exchange some kudos instead. Cheers!
Disclaimer: this is the article I wrote on my facebook page one year ago. This morning, I still receive several notifications from certain someone who likes to compare, being bitter and just love to spread negativity towards another moms who don’t have the same principles as she has. So I guess this article is still relevant, that’s why I want to share with you guys, with a little update about my current situation. Go Moms!
On Demi Lovato's comments about Taylor Swift
To begin, let me state:
1. I am a fan of both girls. Furthermore, I agree that Taylor Swift is unfairly demonized by the media and the Internet.
2. With that said, Demi makes a fair, although a poorly worded point.
3. Demi’s statements do not expect Taylor Swift to take to Washington with a picket sign. The point she is clearly trying to make is one about a passive vs. active approach to the issue.
4. Demi suggests that Taylor’s donation to the anti-rape charities is generous, however a very passive and somewhat lackadaisical gesture with regards to the issue at hand. A good comparison would be a removed relative writing you a check at Christmas time out of familial (social) obligation.
5. Why is Demi targeting Taylor Swift? Likely because Taylor Swift has almost become synonymous with “celebrity feminism.” Swift frequently uses her platform to speak on feminist issues; however, her tight lips over the Kesha situation was odd, to say the least.
6. Let me clarify some things: first off, the question might be posed: “well, why do celebrities HAVE to comment on this instance in particular?” They don’t, however, it’s important to frame the Kesha trial within the realm of the industry and pop culture as a whole. I was talking about the case with my best friend earlier today. My friend, we’ll call her Janet, a former music business major at NYU, works in the industry, has worked for major song writing companies, and serves as an assistant in a music management company. Anyway, Janet explained this case to me within the context of the industry. Now, let me state, Janet has worked with very legitimate people (I can’t name them because I don’t want to intrude upon her privacy or any contracts she might have signed), but she insisted that this court case is a huge deal because it’s incredibly uncommon to find a producer vs. artist war like this. Furthermore, she suggested that this case will likely become a chapter in a music business textbook years down the road. So, yeah, TLDR: this case is not something to be easily ignored, especially by people in the industry.
7. Therefore, most artists are incredibly aware of the case. So, it’s not just something that could have slipped somebody’s mind.
8. Demi is insisting that Taylor, as one of the top artists in the industry and a huge vocal proponent of feminism, should have addressed this situation before being called out on it. WITH THAT SAID, I do not agree with Demi’s specific targeting of Taylor Swift. Although we can’t say for sure that she was referring to Taylor Swift, we can only assume that’s the person she was referring to on Twitter. Regardless, I don’t think that Taylor Swift deserves the full serving of public criticism for keeping quiet about the issue. Beyoncé, another incredibly influential feminist artist, also failed to speak out. Emma Watson, although an actress, did not comment on this situation either (as far as I’m aware). So, any criticism directed specifically at Taylor Swift is, in a way, unfair.
9. Is the criticism merited? Do these quiet feminist icons deserve to be called out for their silence? That’s your call. My personal opinion is that, if you’re going to call out one quiet feminist artist, you should call out all of them.
10. Is Demi’s point derailing the issue? No. “But what about her use of the phrase ‘then I’ll be impressed’? Doesn’t that infer that she doesn’t care about Kesha, that she’s making this about herself?” No. And anyone picking apart Demi’s use of the phrase “then I’ll be impressed” in her commentary is overanalyzing the sentence to the point where they’re neglecting the phrase’s implication and identity as an expression. The “I” does not mean she wants Swift to LITERALLY impress her, Demi Lovato. It is not meant to be taken literally. Why are people interpreting it as such? Do you honestly think that Demi is requesting that Taylor Swift “try” to impress her like a jester performing for a king? No! What the hell? This is how the dangers of overanalyzing come into play. You pick something apart so much that you distort your interpretation of the sentence. Demi was CLEARLY using the phrase as an expression saying that actions will gain legitimacy when they address a situation actively rather than passively.
11. “But what about the Capitol Hill line? Does she expect Taylor to drop everything and go to DC?” No. Again, people are taking things too literally. She is implying that Taylor take a more active approach by opening a dialogue. “Hahaha, okay but what political shit has Demi Lovato ever done?” Demi has been to Washington countless times and has spoken at many mental health events and conferences. Google if you don’t believe me.
12. “What about Kesha? Demi is making this about herself!” Demi is bad at expressing her intentions coherently, but she is not trying to derail the conversation by ignoring Kesha. She is trying to call more attention to it by signaling to the “big boys” of feminism and pop music, A listers like Taylor Swift who have larger platforms than her, to use their powerful influence to bring this issue to the forefront so that the mistreatment of women in the industry can be prevented in the future.
This is, so far, the most objective article regarding this issue. My takes on this: stop overshadowing the rape into celeb feuds over feminist view. This, after all, about the effort that Kesha and the rest of the world make to free her up. To put rapists in the place where they belong.
Kudos to Taylor who make generous donations, a REAL action is what Kesha needs, I suppose. And kudos to Demi for supporting the movement. We all know that Demi has been actively advocating about mental health and eating disorders several time, so I can positively say that THIS ISN'T ABOUT HER. She just can't articulate her intention well.
However, bashing over Taylor is one useless move. How about other so-called feminist celebrities that have been echoing this subject throughout their careers yet still keeping their mouth shut about Kesha?
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This Week's Highlight: Ashley Perez and Andrew Ilnyckyj
Who the hell are they?
Only two coolest (okay, maybe not the coolest because all of Buzzfeed Video’s guys are all equally cool) person on Youtube nowadays. Ashley and Andrew are Video Producers at Buzzfeed. Okay, so let me introduce you to Buzzfeed Video Universe (as if you don’t know it already). They create several series (you can start here) about daily life, fun facts, foods, or even unimportant facts you’re dying to know on youtube. They have the staffs as the casts on those videos; and each staff (or some of them, the video producer ones) responsible in one certain theme. Other than Ashley and Andrew, we have:
Eugene
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and many other hilarious staffs.
So? Why Ashley and Andrew?
Because ever since they made the videos of them being a couple, people ship them. Yep. #Ashdrew is a real thing. And the shippers are hardcore. They want Ashley and Andrew to be together so badly because they look cute, awkward and crazily hilarious together. Both of them have their own series (Ashley for The Awkward Series; Andrew for The Creepy Series) where sometimes they join their charm super couple power on the videos. The result? Super mega hilarious.
Are they an item?
Of course they are! Or Not. Ooooh, I don’t know. But I would love to see them together. I love them. I ship #ashdrew!!!
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2015: The One-Third Life Crisis Averted
I’m not gonna sugar-coat it. 2015 has been one hell of a year. It’s been one roller-coaster ride and boy did I scream. Several times, really. Like today, as we speak, I’ve been struggling to write this post while desperately yelling at the kids to give mommy 30 minutes to write.
I’ve got accepted in a prestigious position, in a very reputable research agency, as a consultant to the biggest FMCG company here in Indonesia. I got a whopping salary increase, I couldn’t even believe it when heard the number for the first time.
8 months later I quit the job. One biggest lesson I learned in 2015 was the fact that I pursued my career for the wrong reason: money. I quit the job with no spare money on my pocket, a vertigo that still need some therapy up until today, deem to be incapable of doing my stuff by my client due to my health condition and my kids barely recognized me as their mother since I got home at 11 PM almost everyday. I feel like one big loser. Torn apart at the age 29. I’m almost 30 yet I haven’t earned something that I can feel proud of.
I quit the job with no backup plan. All I know was the fact that “This is not for me”. I’m not saying that that kind of life choice is wrong. Some women pulled this amicably. I can see some of my friends who are able to juggle career, kids, and even have some times to do yoga in their spare time. And I admire all those people. Let’s be honest: 3 years ago I aspire to be one of them. But realistically speaking, now I realize that it’s not for me.
I then ask myself: what do you really want to do? If you die tomorrow, what do you want to people remember you as? Those two questions helped me through the transition process that actually still happening right now. I know my parents still expect me to have a career. I hope I can change their mind if they see that I’m slowly get my life back together now. Three things I want to do with my life: I want to write; I love anything craftsy and artsy; I love to travel.
I decided to start a business that I know I can manage well: something craftsy. I get a new sewing machine earlier this year, learned how to use it while still working as a consultant and start sewing right after I quit the job. 2 weeks after I quit the job, I joined my very first Pop-Up Market (similar to craft fair) and it went surprisingly well. I decided to get more serious with this business. I sell home decor stuff like pillow cushions, apron, table runner, cute mugs and jars, vases, pots, even small furniture. I know that this is still a very small business, but this is my 3rd baby, my first project and I’m very proud of it despite the drama I must deal with, and some terrible sales at some craft fairs that I learned the hard way. I’m not gonna stop until I can find one nice, permanent place / office to develop my business. There goes one of to-do list for 2016.
I then got this offer from a travel advisor website as a freelance writer. Yesterday. You should seriously consider of praying (while working really hard, of course) because God knows the perfect timing to give you some sweet surprises (after all the shit you’ve been through :p, which makes it all worth it). Trust me on this.
I get the chance to visit some places I never been to before with my kids; get my son who was traumatized while swimming back then to get back into water again; celebrate birthdays and anniversary and really, just be present for them; son’s first day at school; decided to postpone the school for another year for my son coz I know he wasn’t ready and even prepared some curriculum to teach him at home; redecorate their bedroom and just enjoy more ice creams with them.
I get to meet amazing new friends (and of course one best friend that’s been there for I don’t know how long). I now realize that you don’t really need that much of friends. All I need are just a bunch of close friends that will be there for you no matter what. I thank you all for listening all the crap I vent out. I love you all.
All and all, I feel humbled (more than ever) this year. I have amazing kids, amazing close friends that supports me through the hell; and God that always keep watching me and listening to me 24/7. Cheers for all the lessons learned in 2015. Here’s for a hope that 2016 will be less dramatic, more happiness and health, the strength to power-through the obstacles, and for the power to give zero fucks for all the nonsense and unnecessary comments. God bless you all!