iāve heard a lot of people say ādonāt reach out to your friends first and see how many people will remain in your life. those are your true friendsā and i get it. it sucks and itās tiring constantly being the one to message first, to initiate hang outs but donāt take this so literally. some friendships require initiation. i have lost touch with so many people who genuinely cared about me and wanted me in their life because i stopped reaching out. itās a hard pill to swallow but honestly some people just suck at it and it doesnāt mean they donāt love and value you. iāve reconnected with some people over the past few months and itās crazy how genuinely happy they are to see me and how engaged they are in the conversation. i just think sometimes weāre too harsh on each other & too quick to emphasize other peoples flaws and remove them from our lives but then weāll all be alone and whatās the point of life then!!!!









