strange, strange and wonderful

29 Years Old Dentist Operation Smile New York/California

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alexandra-march:

“Yes and no. Kind of pathetic that you don’t, but that means you’ve never used it so that is good.”

“Well I guess I’m alright with that. Either way now I know that it’s probably something I should ever use.”

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bryce-romney:

“Andi, it was a big deal for me too. I’m not trying to brush it off like it was an easy thing to do. I– I felt a lot of regret over it every fucking day. I picked up the phone to call you all of the time. I had a plane booked to Boston for your graduation,” he sighed, eyes moving downward to let a deep sigh escape. “It wasn’t easy. I’m sorry I made it seem that way,” he tacked on chewing on his bottom lip. “Yeah.. maybe… maybe not.”

“And what kept you from calling? Or even showing up?” Shaking her head in frustration she took a deep breath. It was out of character for her to get so frustrated over anything. She could usually find something positive about a situation and focus on that but right now there just didn’t seem to be a bright side to their conversation. “I’m sorry, I think this is just a little too much to think about at the moment. Maybe a planned meeting might be a better idea for us. Dinner or something, whatever you want.”

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claireamarino:

“But, online shopping is much, much better. You always know what is coming to your door at least. With men, it’s like you’re ordering from China and it could be not what you wanted.”

“I guess thats true. Though I’ve always had bad luck with online shopping too. I have a feeling one day they are going to make one of those subscription boxes for dating too. Not sure how that would work though.”

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unbroken-knight:

  “I will say the first one. You don’t know how many crazy there are out there. Okay i think i might be discouraging you about online dating”

“Good,  I don’t think it’s smart to admit that you ever feel like a stalker. People just wouldn’t understand. Well maybe a little, I mean I wasn’t that into it before but now you’ve just made me question it a bit more. I’ll just blame you when I’m old and alone, that’s fine.”

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alexandra-march:

“I’m offended that you even ask me if I do that. God, it’s like one step above Tinder.”

“Is it bad that I didn’t know what TInder was until last week?”

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trey-ridley:

“It’s a little weird when you think of it that way, but at the same time, it’s convenient, right?”

“Convenient, yes. But it still makes me feel more nervous than I usually do and I haven’t even had to talk to anyone.” 

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bryce-romney:

“What are you confused about Andi?” He asked, though he knew every answer he was giving her was open ended and confusing, but he didn’t know what else to say, he didn’t know how to explain his actions. “That’s good,” Bryce nodded, running a tongue along his lower lip. “Doesn’t sound too happy though.”

“Well I’m sorry but you leaving was a really big deal to me and you’re kind of just brushing it off like it was such an easy thing to do,”she said, crossing her arms again. There wasn’t anything that he had that comforted her at all, rather just make all the feels she had felt come rushing back again. “Happy enough. I think I’m just feeling a bit frustrated right now.” Glancing back over at him she uncrossed her arms,attempting to let go of a little bit of her tension. “Maybe this wasn’t the best idea.”

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jasperwalsh:

“Wouldn’t old school mean that you’d be meeting people in person out at a bar or concert and not through a screen?” Jasper arched an eyebrow before raising his hand to show no offense. “To each their own.”

“Would it? I feel like technology has changed so much that it’s a little hard to define what old school is anymore.”

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benjamin-bailey:

“I haven’t. Well, I’ve been signed up for dating sites by friends, but I’ve never gotten into the whole thing. Isn’t that what dating is like, though? Shopping, whether it’s in person or online, it’s still kinda the same?”

“So you’ve never actually gone out on a date? I guess it is basically the same thing, just you have a lot more information thrown at you when you look at it online. It can be a little overwhelming.”

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unbroken-knight:

  “I will kinda agree with you on that. Well i think a lot of people feel that way, another reason why i stay off dating sites now”

“Because you’re afraid of someone stalking you or because you don’t want to look like a stalker?”

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addisonleighx:

“Uh – I mean sort of, once a year ago, but I don’t really do the whole dating thing anymore —- people find it sorta rough to be with a blind chick, you know? I doubt there’s a ‘blindnessmingle’ or something for me to really get into it.”

“Oh I don’t know, there seems to be a sight for almost anything. Though I can’t imagine that you have a hard time dating. Is it really that big of a deal to people?”

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simone-piaf:

“I haven’t, but do they have a customize section? Because then I might have to consider it.”

“Customize? What would you want to be customized? But if I’m bring honest I really don’t have any idea how it all works.”

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unbroken-knight:

  “Yes i have, during my college years” he answered, “It’s not strange. A lot of relationship now a days are from online dating, i know it’s not for me though”

“I think dating in college was a lot easier. My best friend just insisted that I at least give it a try and I don’t think it’s something that I’d be able to actually continue. It kind of makes me feel like a stalker.”

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jasperwalsh:

“You know they’ve been doing that with mail order brides for years right?” Jasper smiled as he continued mixing the cocktail for the woman sitting at the bar. “I haven’t really tried anything outside of Tinder, anything that involves more than swiping left or right is too much effort.”

“Well now you’ve just made me dislike the whole process a little bit more, I don’t think I’m ever going to be able to bring myself to log back on,”she said, shaking her head softly. “I do feel like there should be a little more effort than just swiping but I guess I’m little old school when it comes to things like that.”

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bryce-romney:

“Oh that’s something you never should have forgotten,” he shook his head. “I mean you were going to leave. And I was going to move. It’s– it’s not that I didn’t trust you, it’s that I had no reason to believe we would work,” he swallowed harshly, realizing how harsh that sounded. “When I was with you, sure, it was hard to imagine it not working, but when I looked at it rationally, just,” he trailed off with a shrug, trying to explain himself. “And you– are you happy?”

“I think you’ve just confused me even more, which I didn’t think was even possible,”she said, unable to put together what is what was that he was trying to say. “I guess I’m just not going to understand. I really shouldn’t have expected for you to be able to go back to all that now though, I’m sorry.” Now convinced that he wasn’t going to say anything that would give her any answers she took a deep breath, trying to clear her mind for a second or two. “Now? Well at the moment not so much but I really don’t have anything to complain about. I like what I have going on in my life.”

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kingkayd:

“I did Tinder for awhile, but when I went on my last date and the picture didn’t match the girl at all, I just couldn’t do it anymore.”

“Was it really that far off that you couldn’t give her another chance? I did try that for a day but I don’t think I lasted even an hour before I deleted the app. I was actually afraid that someone would try to message me, they all seemed a little questionable. 

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“Have you ever tried online dating? I just started to dabble in the whole thing and it’s so weird, you know? It’s basically like online shopping. Online shopping for men. Isn’t that just weird?”