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@angryandaromantic
As an aro who has been abused by those who loved me, I want to see more love as horror. Love as suffocation. Love as violence. I don’t want to hear “if they really loved you they wouldn’t have—” as if love is some pure force, some inherent good. Show me love that is evil. Love that is haunting. Love that is poison dressed up as a cure.
Why is it such a crime to crave intimacy without romance, why do people just assume I want to hookup like no???? Maybe I just crave it that's all I don't want one night stands [nothing bad with them] I just want someone I'm a very physical person who's aromantic and somehow that's like a crime bruvh
I need to kill amatonormativity!!! who's with me in this, hold hands rn!!!!
i hate that moment where i'm watching a show and just feeling how desperately the characters need to deconstruct their amatonormativity
being aroallo is so silly like wdym kissing on the lips and sincerely loving relationships genuinely ARE too kinky for me that was supposed to be a funni funni joke what
Man, the idea of someone kissing me on the lips makes me wanna puke
being aroallo is so silly like wdym kissing on the lips and sincerely loving relationships genuinely ARE too kinky for me that was supposed to be a funni funni joke what
I didn't choose to be apothiromantic, but I'm glad I am
Aro culture is immediately discarding 70% of all media because OH MY GODDD I DONT FUCKING CAAAAAARE
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I hope that I'm not the only one who has felt this.
Sometimes, when I see a representation of a homosexual couple, I feel like an "ick" and I ask myself "wait a minute, am I a fucking homophobe?" And then I realise that I feel that same ick with straight couples, and that I'm not homophobic, I just hate all representations of romance.
Man, being apothiromantic sometimes is an emotional rollercoaster
Aro culture is not understanding why so many people feel left out on Valentine's when they have a whole group of friends to celebrate with
✨amatonormativity✨
one thing that does often actually genuinely break my heart about aromanticism is that it opens so many ontological pathways to methodologies that would unilaterally improve people's lives but most people can't even be bothered to learn about aromanticism much less apply those lessons to themselves
being aromantic (and being aspec in general) prompts you to unlearn the thought that a romantic relationship is going to fulfill you in a way that nothing else can. to unlearn that your worth is tied to your desirability. to unlearn that your life is defined by love. it prompts you to restructure your relationships. to reevaluate the ways in which the people around you contribute to your life and the ways in which you want to engage with them. it shows you that everything we know about relationships is defined by social constructs that don't need to be heeded. it opens you to a life of such blissful freedom and i feel such a sense of grief for the way that this information never seems to get beyond us
stop getting married are you stupid
It’s so hard to explain being aromantic to someone who isn’t. Like I don’t know if you understand how much I love you, just in a way that’s not entirely romantic or platonic. It’s both and neither at the same time. And I don’t want a regular romantic relationship, that just doesn’t feel right to me.
And I know it’s not fair, but part of me gets irritated too. I don’t understand why you feel like you’re “waiting” for a relationship. I’m right here? I just don’t wanna date?
I don’t want to invalidate their feelings at all, I understand that we just feel differently about it, but I don’t know. It’s just stressful.
Aro culture is not understanding why most people associate heart-shaped things exclusively with romantic love.
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I mean, I understand it. I don't like it, but I rationally understand it
why is this post completely broken in every way imaginable
Broken notes… deactivated account… removed image….
Finally, we have them all.
In addition: OP’s name is just… gone. No “[insert username]-deactivated[insert a bunch of numbers]” as is the standard for deactivated blogs.
Just the world “deactivated.” Look upon their post, ye mighty, and despair.
It’ll be almost impossible to find this post unless it wanders across your dash.
its so weird being aromantic. like.. people talk about datign and their desire for romantic connection and i don’t relate in the slightest and like to me not caring about having a romantic partner is normal ,??? but people actually desire romantic relationships?????? like idk.. its so weird to me. like what do you mean i’m in the minority on this
TERFs are weirdly obsessed with trans men having incontinence. I've been studying TERFS for like a year, and in the off chance they mention trans men, they always bring up the fact that testosterone MIGHT cause incontinence. Its weird and borderline fetishistic
Oh yea TERFs fetishize trans men to an absurd degree. They’ll say shit that if a man said it, he would rightfully be ostracized. They’ll drone on and on about the fertility of young girls. Lament over the “lost beauty” of trans men once they start growing facial hair or balding. God forbid you get top surgery! They love to use the term “healthy breasts”. The “healthy breasts” of minors is a big concern for TERFS. it’s so fucking creepy.
TERFs aren’t feminists. Not only are they not feminists, they’re sexists and this may be an unpopular statement but I’d consider them sexual predators as well.
"Fuck TERFs" is always a correct statement. Except if you actually plan to fuck one. Don't fuck a TERF
