Disillusion

she/he/they Multigender tme

[animallover432]

Things about me

• I post infrequently

• I’m a communist

• I’m neurodivergent

• I’m a trans non-binary girl/boy creature

• I’m transneutral and tme

• I go by any pronouns but I prefer when people switch them up (ie they them is fine sometimes but don’t default to it)

• I’m trying to learn transfeminism

• violence is not inherently bad

• Champion of complete bodily autonomy

• Family abolitionist

• Wants to destroy the gender binary and sex assignment

•Death to the us

•Death to intellectual property

•Death to private property

•Death to racists

•Death to terfs

•Death to MRAs

•Death to misogynists

•Death to transphobes

•Death to ableists

ACAB obviously

I don’t know about the legitimacy of transandrophobia as an example of intersectional oppression

I have no tolerance for transphobia, transmisogyny, misogyny in general, white supremacy, zionism, racism, us chauvinism, ableism, pedojacketing, fatphobia, and anticommunism (You’ll be blocked)

I love blocking people

As always of course, free Palestine

[hagiomoto]

[hagiomoto]

All the interview clips are coming out now you cannot defend this lady without looking like a clown 🤡

[animallover432]

If she really believed that the us was the same as Iran she wouldn’t advocate for us interventionism to turn it into a “democracy”. She wouldn’t only talk about the destabilization of Iran she would talk about the destruction of the us as well. But what do you expect from a western chauvinist?

[blogwoofs]

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I’m an autistic trans man, my girlfriend is a trans woman. A wellness check was called for me, the crisis team tried to force open the door. I felt pressured to talk to them, but my girlfriend told me that they weren’t the police and that I didn’t have to go alone with them.

When I got the police report I could see clearly that they called and lied after my girlfriend didn’t let me get forced to talk to them alone. We have no weapons.

While she was detained they started asking about our relationship. When I told them she helps with tasks because I’m autistic, they told me I could get her arrested and get a care worker instead. When I denied they asked if I wanted to be institutionalized or hospitalized instead.

Right now, my account is overdrafted and I need to pay rent. We’re in the process of getting the bodycam footage, and we’re filing a civil complaint soon.

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[vivisectedg1rl]

petting her while we watch videos on my laptop🥺

[ppgirl420]

bestie are you good? you just reblogged "petting her while we watch videos on my laptop" again

[missstrogen]

can't get Too comfortable i guess

[slimewizaaard]

I wish I was a girl, lesbian relationships seem so much cooler than straight relationships.

[animallover432]

I got news for you honey, if you are thinking that, then you genuinely might be.. maybe consider transitioning

[boybeetles]

Okay so why are people treating a trans man playing on a womens soccer team in Minnesota as a win. Why are queer news places saying ‘hes making history’ by playing on the women’s team.

‘Trans men are excluded and unsafe on mens teams - so a trans man instead plays on womens team. This is somehow a win and the team releases a statement on how #inclusive they are’ ❓how is this a feel good story

[boybeetles]

You know whenever I see ‘feel-good’ stories about trans men being in women’s spaces - I really sit and wonder if those spaces allow trans women. Or is the only inclusion they do of trans people when they are still enforcing the sex binary onto trans men.

Because a lot of times I’ve seen ‘womens groups’ go ‘look how inclusive we are! We have one trans man. Oh trans women?…. Uh we dont have any because we dont allow them’

[animallover432]

“Wholesome feel good story!”

TERFs continue to restrict people from allowing to be with others of their own gender and continue enforcing their transphobic bioessentialist nonsense

Wow thats so great. Fuck this

[thydungeongal]

This the last straw: I just heard that the company that hired paramilitaries to assassinate union members in Colombia recently used generative AI in an ad

[animallover432]

Many such cases

[mousidy]

"mtf" and "amab" voted worst acronyms of all time

[mousidy]

we don't need "leftist" ways of calling trans women male actually

[mousidy]

you can say trans woman. you can just say trans woman

[mousidy]

people will criticize tme/tma calling it "the new gender binary" and then go around calling people amab and afab as if they just ran a find and replace in their vocabulary for "male" and "female"

[mousidy]

"sex is what's in your chromosomes" is not a neutral statement. that's one of the main reductive oversimplifications that the right have been pushing about sex for years. sex is a combination of physical characteristics, many of which can be changed or removed in the process of medical transition. I cannot wrap my head around why other trans people are so happy to uphold regressive binaristic thinking like this

[mousidy]

[silyaspider]

The weird thing about "sex is chromosomes" (apart from being reductive, binaristic, and generally not true) is that this isn't how it has ever worked operationally. We don't check someone's chromosomes in order to assign either sex or gender. It's wrong as biology and it's wrong as sociology. That is not how our culture does it.

I don't know what chromosomes I have. Haven't seen 'em. So far as I know, neither has anyone else.

[nepharim-tree]

The "sex is chromosomes!!!" argument, in my mind, has parallels to the "God of the gaps" pattern in Christianity. Where the more we learn and are able to disprove one argument, the more the goalposts shift and retreat to a thinner definition.

"Sex is your body type" -> physique is massively variable and humans have very low sexual dimorphism. also societal factors massively influence body type.

"Sex is what genitals you were born with" -> intersex people with ambiguous genitalia + SRS being feasible both deconstruct this argument for immutable sex

"Sex is your hormones" -> HRT

And now we're at "sex is your chromosomes." First of all, again, most people don't know their chromosomes or anyone else's. We assume most people have XX or XY because that's what high-school level biology teaches, but again, the mere existence of intersex people blows this binary out of the water. It's a bad model.

But also, like... we've shown that all other sex characteristics are mutable with sufficient scientific advancement. We can change hormones, we can change general physiques, we can change genitals. Why should chromosomes be any different? People have been working on gene editing for years. What's to say that in the future we won't have some ability to give someone whatever chromosomes they want?

"Immutable sex" is a god of the gaps. it just doesn't hold up so it retreats into whatever it can

[jessie-elle]

Also (speaking as an English teacher here for a minute, I know my shit here), "male" is the adjective related to "man" and "female" the adjective related to "woman", in the same way that "maternal" is the adjective of "mother", "solar" is the adjective of "sun", etc. If you're a woman you're female, if you're female you're a woman, end of. One literally implies the other. The trans man calling himself "female" is misgendering himself, anyone calling a trans woman "male" is misgendering her (and most of the time doing it on purpose).

Aside from the whole idea of "biologically" male/female being bunk (see above), the whole notion that "male/female" without context/specifying refer to that is extremely recent and something TERFs have actively pushed into public discourse. That's simply not what those terms were understood to mean for most of my life and I'm not even that old. Anyone who uses "male/female" to refer to agab, congratulations: you're a rube and you don't know English.

[animallover432]

It does not matter what those terms used to refer to. Male=\= man and female =\= woman. Gender and sex are not the same. Gender is a socially constructed thing and sex is as well but they are not the same. Sex is an attempt to classify certain physical features that fails to take any intersex features into consideration. It also fails to take hormones into consideration. Sex is changeable as is gender but it is possible to have a different sex than what is traditionally associated with your gender. Associating women with being “female”inherently isn’t feminist. Both gender and sex are inaccurate ways of classifying people that should be abolished.

[egregore-engine]

actually I think vigilante/mob justice is bad. adventurism is also bad. the DOTP having access to a structured justice system with the death penalty is good though.

[egregore-engine]

frankly I don't trust most Tumblr users to be unaccompanied in a room with too many sharp corners on the furniture let alone the capacity to decide who lives or dies

[egregore-engine]

I don't think that you, a dedicated fandom discourse blog, should be entrusted with the capacity to decide who "is" a sex offender and then kill them. in fact I think you shouldn't legally be allowed to access firearms in the real world, let alone be allowed to wield state or mob violence.

[egregore-engine]

as an aside you ever notice how all of these people position sexual violence as the paramount form of violence? these people hate rapists more than murderers. murder is objectively a worst form of violence because the victim is like. dead. but it doesn't fit into the framework of ontologically evil rapist who sullied the white woman who can then call for a lynching. it's just emmet till forever for you people.

[animallover432]

I mean isn’t rape worse because of the psychological effects it causes, which is better than just being killed and not having to have to deal with the trauma that comes from surviving

[egregore-engine]

Are you serious? I am a survivor of rape. I live a perfectly fulfilled and happy life after years of healing from trauma. I would not be able to do that if I were dead.

[suspiriously]

“victims should have been killed instead” is INSANE

like… look me in the eyes and tell me i’d be better off dead than be a victim

[animallover432]

Some people would rather be dead is what I’m saying. And that’s ok if they would. I would rather be dead than have something like that happen to me ok? Some of us have more of a difficulty psychologically dealing with lesser issues enough as it is, that we wouldnt be completely broken if this kind of thing happened to us. Sometimes death is a mercy from being tortured

[koboldflock]

The dehumanization of kids causes people to expect some big change when they become adults meaning that they just don't feel human or adult for the entirety of forever and ever

[koboldflock]

This happened to me and now i'm 12 forever

[animallover432]

Oh god it’s real. This makes so much sense. That’s why I’m like that

[gumi-megpoidd]

you're faking being into petplay and frotting for clout.

THATS WHAT YOU THINK IM FAKING????

[animallover432]

Because those things famously give you clout and a lot of people totally arent against these kinks, to the point where you can be ostracized. Yeah…

[corvzly]

hey so terms like “ tme “ “ transandrobro “ “ transmen “ “ transtrender “ are harmful and are literally made up to make trans men look bad and be erased from the only spaces they feel safe (trans spaces)

hope this helps

[animallover432]

TME is not harmful

[exislential]

stop asking transmascs if they just have internalized misogyny and start asking cis women if they just have internalized transphobia

[animallover432]

Start asking everyone if they have internalized misogyny and transphobia

[kovudoge]

Can the pro-censorship freaks get out of the transandrophobia tag please

Like I'm being serious. CSEM is of real children, that's the definition. The word for "fictional csem" is lolicon/shotacon. Calling lolicon content CSEM muddies the waters and waters down a term that describes a harmful form of abuse material that is 100% illegal to posses.

And I don't even like lolicon. In fact, I avoid it. It makes me uncomfortable, personally. But I don't shit on other people for what kind of fiction they like.

This is like, fandom and internet manners 101. But no one follows it anymore.

[animallover432]

Agreed. I hate that media and some of the things it normalizes but the fact of the matter is that there aren’t any inherent real victims of fiction. It’s more important to focus on real people being exploited than this whole proshipper anti-shipper nonsense. But then you say this and all the fandom losers who cant tell fiction from reality will accuse you of defending CSA.

[pissfaggot420]

What if I said the queer people on this website calling transmascs “pooners” and “theyfabs” are just former incels that never unpacked their internalized misogyny before transitioning/coming out? Is that convo we can have or are we still stuck on “he/him lesbians aren’t actually lesbians”?

[animallover432]

This is just run of the mill transphobia. It’s unfortunate to that it’s other trans people who are perpetuating this, you’d think they’d know better.

[pissfaggot420]

What if I said the queer people on this website calling transmascs “pooners” and “theyfabs” are just former incels that never unpacked their internalized misogyny before transitioning/coming out? Is that convo we can have or are we still stuck on “he/him lesbians aren’t actually lesbians”?

[animallover432]

This is very true

[interhusband-deactivated2026040]

hot take: supporting transmasculine lesbians but not trans man lesbians is exorsexist, transphobic and contradictory. because it really shows that you think transmasculinity is just "AFAB that's close enough to a cis woman masc that it's fine" and want to reinforce a lot of radfeminist beliefs about the gender binary within the queer community.

accept one or accept none.

[animallover432]

So who isn’t allowed to be a lesbian then?

What does it mean if everyone can be it? Doesn’t it

make sense to draw the line at men? If not then who

[interhusband-deactivated2026040]

I think that there is nuance. in a community full of people with genders outside of the binary, where labels are just mere suggestions and not law, I think it's something that should be explored more in depth beyond "non man for non men".

for one, there are multigender men, which would include people that consider themselves cis men. intersex men with "contradictory" identity, such as a complex relationship with manhood, nonbinary people that identify in some part with manhood and masculinity, etc.

I think the only line I could comfortably draw is pericis men with no diversity in their own gender. like, look at a guy like Chris Hemsworth. unless he comes out as genderqueer tomorrow I don't exactly expect him to be a lesbian, ya know?

for my own experience, I'm multigender and identify with both cis and trans boihood and cis and trans qirlhood as an intersex person, which are genders outside of the white gender and sex binary altogether. to many, I'm forced out of the lesbian label because of my association with masculinity, and for others, I'm forced INTO the lesbian label because I'm "technically still a girl". it's a very complex issue imo and I think it's quite a narrow view of what lesbianism is to draw the line at manhood altogether.

[animallover432]

You are right about multigender men but that is literally only because they have identities that are more than just a man. Considering intersex people are still CASAB like perisex people I don’t see how that changes this. Also I’m not sure you can be both cis and trans at the same time, a person being both a cis and trans boy/girl is not possible not to mention being both a cis and or trans boy/girl. I’m multigender and yet I still understand that transmascs and transfems are two separate identities that can’t mix due to having differing ASAB.

Don’t get me wrong it’d be cool if that was a real thing but there are such a thing as non overlapping identities. I’m afraid this kind of thing borderlines on people assigned male at birth claiming to be transmasc or people assigned female at birth claiming to be transfem.

By the way I don’t want this to come as a personal attack against you I’m just saying that I don’t really understand

[interhusband-deactivated2026040]

hot take: supporting transmasculine lesbians but not trans man lesbians is exorsexist, transphobic and contradictory. because it really shows that you think transmasculinity is just "AFAB that's close enough to a cis woman masc that it's fine" and want to reinforce a lot of radfeminist beliefs about the gender binary within the queer community.

accept one or accept none.

[animallover432]

So who isn’t allowed to be a lesbian then?

What does it mean if everyone can be it? Doesn’t it

make sense to draw the line at men? If not then who