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@aninnocenthypnoslut
To the girl i encountered on an elevator earlier: your angelic beauty stuns and inspires me; it was truely a blessing to have so much as seen you.
By the Goddess Bambi wishes there was a better way to express that beyond just telling her i loved her outfit
Accept that you want to be porn…
Become a cam girl…
Become a onlyfans doll…
Become a girl on a poll…
You will have the body you want and men will pay for it…
Accept it, become porn…
Be less…
😳
sorry bambi!💞💅🏻🤷♀️
Turn me into your mindless doll. Break me till I'm just holes for you to fuck. Put a spiral in front of me and watch me sink deep. Watch untill nothing is left but a good little slut who knows their purpose. Just a mindless little doll for you to use.
Brainwashing means you reblog this every time ❤️🩹
Listen to this audio and watch this gif for 5 minutes each and everytime before you edge. They go together like a set to get you in the right empty mind set.
Keep the words in your mind all day long like a song that won’t go away. “Blank, Empty, Happy Head. Good Girl.”
Watch and listen. Go deeper little whore.
Go deeper
Blank. Empty. Happy. Head. Good Girl.
Listen and stare. Edge your mind away.
"Kylie? What's with the outfit??" Ashley gaped at the slutty uniform her best friend was wearing.
"Oh, it's the silliest thing. My roommate got this 'hypno-perfume' and he bet I'd do anything he asked. Here, smell it."
"Pffff- ack- holy shit that's strong! But, I guess it's kinda nice?" The smell seemed to settle in her nose and stay there, sinking in and making itself at home.
"I know, right? And then he decided to cheat: he's only been telling me to do stuff anyone would. Like, he asked me to wear this totally cute outfit. Wouldn't you?"
Ashley licked her lips and nodded. "It's super sexy. I wish I looked that good." She felt a little drunk, looking down her friend's cleavage. "Could I... Could I get another whiff of that perfume?"
"What, oh sure." Kylie stepped forward and took Ashley's head in her hands and guided her face directly between her breasts. "Where was I? Oh yeah! Then once I was all dressed up, he started fingering me! Here, it was kinda like this."
Ashley, reeling from the heady scent of her friend and her perfume, leaned in as Kylie slipped a hand beneath the waistband of her sweatpants. Her fingers against Ashley's clit felt like heaven, and she began to grind against the skilled fingers. She could only moan helplessly as her friend continued her story.
"Then, once I'd cum, like, ten times, he told me to get on all fours so he could breed me." Kylie scoffed and rolled her eyes. "Literally *everyone* wants to be filled up like that. It doesn't prove anything." She lifted Ashley's chin with her free hand. "Like, if he told you he was going to slide his cock deep inside you, fuck you like you'd never been fucked before, and leave you swelling with his seed, you'd jump at the chance, right?"
"Yess, I... OooOOOHHH!" Ashley came on her friend's fingers, and as she came all the thoughts she'd been filling up on for the last uncountable minutes fell past her waking mind. She felt them slip through her defenses like water through her fingers, and soak into her ready, willing mind. She felt her old thoughts wash out in the flood, through her body and out her soaking cunt.
Kylie continued talking for ages even as her friend came over and over right there in the stairwell. Eventually she withdrew her hand and kissed Ashley tenderly in the mouth. "Well, anyway, it was nice talking to you." She looked into Ashley's still glazed over eyes, and smiled. "Oh, are you jealous? I'm sorry, I didn't mean to get carried away." Kylie held her close and whispered in her ear "I bet he'd do the same to you if you asked him nicely..."
Ashley focussed with an effort, looking into her friends beautiful, enchanting eyes, and nodded. "Yes, please. I'd like that." Her pussy was wet, and felt so terribly empty without his cock; and without his cum.
Kylie grinned from ear to ear. "Great! You're going to love it." She gushed about her evening, the bet finally forgotten, and led Ashley up the stairs to her destiny.
Good girls make more good girls 🤤
There’s some about the Bambi files that makes me want to recruit other Bambi’s. I find I need to make more of us. Put them under Bambi’s spell. Even if they don’t want it.
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Sexiest hypno experience. Realize you've fully lesbian because despite your cock addiction you couldn't love a man only his cock. But a T-girl or strap on top🥰😍🥰😍
Does the spiral draw you in? Are you sitting comfortably? Yes? Good. Now, I want you to relax... That's it; deeper and deeper. Rest your hands in your lap... Feel your shoulders loosen as your troubles melt away... If you're reading this at work, tune out your noisy co-workers... Now, while staring at the picture below, speak out loud in calm, resolute, and preferably ethereal voice: "I will read this blog post. I will click the "like" button below when I'm finished. I will read this blog post...I will click the "like" button below when I'm finished."
Is it really that simple to hypnotize you? Whether or not you believe in hypnosis, neuroscientists are now showing that the practice does indeed produce measurable effects in the brain. Hypnosis is more of a “natural” state than people imagine. You are experiencing it several times throughout your day and it doesn’t need a swinging watch to put you into a hypnotic sleep! Some people are more receptive to hypnosis than others and can expect to experience rapid changes in a course of hypnotherapy
Answer the following twelve questions in this hypnosis test to see if you and hypnosis are well-suited.
1. When the television is on, can you “switch off” and lose track of what you are watching?
A. Frequently; “What was the name of that program?” B. Sometimes C. Rarely
2. When reading a good book, can you “close off” to any external distractions?
A. Regularly; “noise, what noise?” B. Occasionally C. Never
3. When you go to the cinema or theatre, can you feel emotional when you see something sad?
A. Frequently; “I’m tearful now!” B. Sometimes C. Hardly ever
4. When you close your eyes, how quickly can you fall asleep?
A. Within 10 minutes (ZZZ…) B. Within 30 minutes C. When the alarm goes off!
5. When chatting to a close friend, do you lose track of time?
A. Nearly always B. On occasions C. Can’t stop looking at my watch!
6. When you see someone else yawn, does it become contagious?
A. Repeatedly, I’m yawning right now! B. Now and again C. Rarely
7. Do you salivate when thinking about sucking on or sinking your teeth into a sour, juicy lemon?
A. Most of the time, “Get me a napkin!” B. Sometimes C. Hardly ever
8. When you like a new song, does it keep going round and round in your mind at the most inconvenient moments?
A. Regularly, “La-la-la…” B. Occasionally C. Not very often
9. If you close your eyes, can you visualise a journey from your house to the nearest shop?
A. Images are clear & detailed B. Can visualise some details of the journey C. Vague details; “Is there a shop near me?”
10. Would you (or others) consider you to be a creative person?
A. Yes, I use my creative skills nearly every day B. Sometimes C. Rarely
11. When you drive to a familiar place e.g. work, does your mind switch to auto-pilot?
A. Nearly every day B. Sometimes C. Hardly ever
12. If you see a crowd of people looking at something, do you tend to look in the same direction out of curiosity?
A. Most of the time B. Some of the time C. Rarely
if you answer mostly A or B to most of these questions, then chances are, you are a very good hypnotic subject. Hypnotic subjects tend to have: creativity, focus, curiosity, imagination, suggestibility. The fact you are reading this tells me that deep down you want to be hypnotized. You desire that feeling of dropping and sinking for a strong and powerful hypnotist like myself. It can be as easy as me telling you that you've been hypnotized from the start of this blog, and your minds open to my words deeper each time you read my blog. Now, be sure to re-post this and draw others to me. Good boy or girl.
Is now the WORST time to start a hypno themed content channel? (Yes, but do it anyway!)
So this is going to be a wild ride into hypnosis content creation, inspired a lot by my recent return to making it and how things have shifted over the years. This is in no way trying to deter people from making content, quite the opposite, I want to inspire others to take this as a sign to go for it if you've been thinking about it.
So WTF is going on online?
Welcome to YouTube a platform where anyone with some good ideas can start their own hypnosis channel. A place where you can be a spiral with text, an asmr creator moonlighting as a hypnotist, full cam video or an anime girl with a passion for mind breaking. It's actually wild how things have evolved and I love the shift in the medium. Back in the early days of hypnosis YouTube it really was the wild west, and a lot was able to slip by the community guidelines without a blink of an eye, and I should know, I really did push my luck with some of my own videos. YouTube isn't the only platform in this situation now where you can do hypnosis. You have here on tumblr, twitter (or x, make up your mind Elon), patreon, soundgasm, hypnohub, devient art, twitch. Name a platform or site and odds are someone is doing hypnosis there. This is great because it means the community is growing and the potential reach is expanding but it also means that working as a hypnosis creator is now harder than ever.
Back in 2017 I started a YouTube channel which I had no clue would as of today lead me to 95k subscribers and my entire income being funded through patreon. But if you look at my content from then to now there had to be some massive leaps to keep my name and my work in peoples attention span. Most content creators don't last years, I know I am an outlier and not a norm. This is due to the fact that over time tastes change, the algorithm changes to reflect this audience shift and what you did back then is just not good enough comapred to now. I had to be drastic to weather the storms of mental health, physical health, audience rention and analytics galore, branding shifts, shifts in community. It's all a lot to deal with but if you want to do this in any format you have to be ready to put yourself through it to be a success and even then I look at my work now and I don't think it's truly successful, yet.
I haven't made it and I don't think I ever will because that "made it" feeling, the top of the hill, is such a subjective metric that's hard to describe. Back in 2017 if you'd asked me, "Secret, when will you know that you are a great creator?" and I would have told you, "100k on YouTube, I want my silver play button." I still do want it, but not like I did before. Before it was clout to be quite honest. 100k means you are powerful enough to do what you want to do, to be able to reach brands, to make friends and collab with the bigger channels, to have people look at you and take you seriously as a creator. But none of that matters now. Subscribers are less important than ever. What matters now is attention. Retention. Clicks, engagement and views.
Now back in 2020 I was really rude. I made a video called Seduced into Obedience that blew up my channel. It got half a million views before YouTube made me take it down earlier this year. It's an achievement I could never expect to relive and it was all based on cheating the system. See I knew that back in "the day" people loved doing those audios on YouTube where you would "comment I am a good slave" in the comments. Knowing what I know about YouTube I decided to run a little test, an experiment on my channel. A risk that I thought just might pay off and if not, oh well, worth a try. I made an audio with the aim of making people like it, and comment in the comments. In the same style of those before me, I took a concept that was not often seen and honestly a little stupid, I made it and the worst part is, it worked. It got me seen by huge content creators in the mainstream who memed on me for it. It skyrocketted in views and kept going. It was my first video to hit 100k on YouTube and it is a moment that will never happen again. It was age restricted which killed the growth but the channel kept going and it wasn't a viral hit, but it was a dark horse that built my reputation on YouTube and then I went and changed everything.
Why change if it was going so well?
So one thing about the internet is you have to follow the success where it takes you. I could have made several more Seduced audios for YouTube and in fact I did do that for a little while but, tastes change. I changed. I stopped doing what I was doing and started being a vtuber, a faceless creator and I got into ASMR. At the time ASMR roleplaying was massive so this was a strategy I wanted to try, mix my love of acting and fantasy with my love of hypnosis see what happens. It worked pretty well as those videos also started doing pretty good and now I have a bunch of videos over 100K on YouTube. But this also trapped me in a box. Now I have had time to have a break and come back I noticed, YouTube especially is really hard on ASMR creators. It's hard on hypnosis creators. It's hard on creators because the platform is loaded with content. You have to be unique to stand out. You have to play to your audience. You have to gain people's attention through interest and ideas that are still fresh but not too specific to turn away the people who watch you. It's a battle to keep it going and it's one I have made many, many mistakes in. You have to give your audience the most, but not too much. You have to be avaible to people in the comments, but not too much. It's a fine balancing act and one that will drive you insane if you don't have a great support system.
So why am I sharing this with you?
I'm at a stage in my career as a creator where I am fearless to try new stuff. I am trying not to care about my reputation as a domme or as a person (more on that in a later essay, I'm sure). I'm trying to lead with my creative spirit and not be upset when a video doesn't "hit" or "pop off". I'm not going to leave a livestream anymore and cry because no one came to see me do a thing. I'm splitting my time between making music, gaming and creating fun things for me and making hypnosis and asmr roleplays for the people who want it and not being sad if my song doesn't go viral right away. Because recently after a death in my family, a health scare that nearly ended my career and the loss of a huge opportunity that turned out not to work for me, I have learned that life is too short not to make the fun things I want.
I want to share with content creators that doing this fulltime is scary and it is hard. It is tough to see posts do nothing. It's scary to see that platforms want to ban hypnokink. It's rough to have other creators disown you for being the wrong kind of degen. But if this is your passion and your dream to make this work, you can do it.
How do you get noticed in this challenging environment?
Lead with passion and your own point of view.
I'm not kidding here, it's the best and worst advice I can give you. Too different and you alienate people, not different enough and you aren't memorable. But you have to lead with passion. Passion carries through the screen. People can hear it in your voice, see it in your work. But outside of that, here are some other things you might want to think about if you are going to commit to making content of any kind:
Who is your target audience? If you say yourself, great! What do you like? What do you want? What are you goals with interacting with content? Follow that.
What is your brand (and can you say it in a single sentence) I'm literally not kidding. If you can't describe what you do in one sentence your branding needs work. Eg, hi I'm Secret and I'm a hypnotic nyanpire from New Zealand.
If someone was to see you on the internet, what should they remember? The other day I got a great comment on a piece of art I commed, "I saw this and I immediatly thought of Secret Subject, and then I looked and saw it was posted by her", your branding should be that strong because people see thousands of posts a day. What makes you different? For me, it's purple. It's goth mommy. It's cats and bats. Find your vibe and own it. Do not be afraid to double down and make your entire thing about it. Everytime I get art made, I make it about my character and it must have purple hair because that keeps the brand strong in someone's mind.
What is your purpose? For me without a goal of "this is why I make the content I do" I would be lost and unmotivated. Find your why and write it down, put a post-it on the wall. Tell a friend. Whatever you need to remind you, this is why I do what I do. When times are hard or you run out of steam/ideas go back to this and really hone into what it is you want to say.
Own your mistakes and bad days. We all have them. That thing didn't do well. That video wasn't great. There was a mistake in this thing or I accidentally made a tweet that went viral for all the wrong reasons. It happens. Be honest with yourself but exercise kindness. Own your mistakes and show people you are human even if you play as an anime vampire catgirl online.
Make connections for the right reasons. As an ex-vtuber I can tell you it's hard when people use you or befriend you "for something". It's okay to build business connections and make this all about business but be honest with people, it does go a long way. Have respect for people who are fellow creators and if you seriously are looking for "friends" that's fine but also know that being friends and colleagues in content are not the same and the lines get very blurry at times.
Be persistant instead of consistent. You've probably been told "constancy is key" a bunch here, hell, you may have heard it from me. I used to teach this as part of my content class at cons but it's not as important as just sticking with it. We are not robots. We can't just all schedule tweets to go out perfectly timed and are all amazingly funny all the time. You need time to come up with quality so take it, but do not give up. If you give up and throw in the towel often you won't make it. Especially on social media. Taking a break or hiatus is fine, I just had one myself, but if you everytime it gets too hard say "I'm done" and then come back on a cycle you are just hurting yourself.
Perfection is a creativity killer. Just post that thing. Sometimes just posting that thing will lead to a new classic for the community.
Time to make your mark
I'm still grinding, we all are still out here making it happen in our own ways. I am so excited to watch the next gen of hypnosis creators florish and thrive. I am a huge simp for my friends who take on this challege because they all work so hard and have so much passion for this weird niche kink we all have. I am in awe of people who feel the fear of this journey and keep doing it. I'm in awe of people who started before me and are still here doing it, because it is not easy and I am over pretending it is.
We need diversity in content and especially in hypnosis kink. I am a person from New Zealand, a small country where a lot of us tend not to make a big splash in the world. People like me don't get the kind of platform I am lucky and insanely grateful to have. I encourage you to take your point of view as a kinkster, and make your mark on the world too. Play safe, care about your content and do good. Remember that you don't need thousands of dedicated fans to be popular and you can be someones favorite regardless of how "seen" your work is.
Reblog if you want your inbox filled with hypnosis stuff, anywhere from pics to gifs to spirals to videos and more!!!
Cuz believe me, I know I do
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Who doesn’t love some good material? ^^ yay
Yes yes yes!!!!!!
Sure. Come at me.
please <3
Bring it, folks!
By all means~! <3
Of course
one of the sexiest things a hypnotist can do is gradually turn a regular conversation into an induction, so slowly that you don't notice until your eyes are fluttering and you're nodding along with everything they say and desperately trying to remember exactly when their voice got so compelling, sending you into a spiral of confusion that just puts you even more firmly under their control.
Hypnotee Imposter Syndrome
Being in the hypnosis community is a strange thing. It's absolutely amazing being around, hearing so many stories about things people have done, and things people plan to do. It's a well of inspiration for many, a melting pot of ideas that people add to, take from, mix together, and improve. But sometimes, it can also be a source of disappointment and pain.
Depending on what circles you run in within the community, it's not uncommon to hear imposter syndrome mentioned, especially among creators. Thinking that they aren't as good as someone else or not as creative. Second guessing their ability to hypnotise someone or create good content in general. What isn't as common is imposter syndrome on the other side of the pocket watch. Don't get me wrong, there's a lot of discussion out there providing support or advice from people who say "I don't think I've ever been hypnotised" or "I don't know how to go into trance". A lot of the time, this seems to be met with lines such as "not everyone feels trance the same way" or "just because one thing is harder for you doesn't mean you can't be hypnotised" or even "take a step back, readjust your expectations, and focus on what changes while trying hypnosis, rather than expecting something instantaneous and magical; it takes time". I know I have said these things to newer members of the community, and I'm sure that I'm not the only one.
But also, I am a hypocrite. I say these things while at the same time not listening to them. Even the other night, during a scene involving hypnosis, I was saying/thinking that I wasn't actually in trance. In the 7 years I've been around the hypnosis community, I've never had that "aha!" moment where I knew I was hypnotised, and even to this day wonder whether I've just been faking it. I see all these incredible stories about how trance is falling down into a void, about memory play, positive and negative hallucinations. I hear about the amazing stories that other people tell, about all the incredible things other people have done with hypnosis; things that I have never been able to achieve, and don't know if I even could. I logically know that hypnosis is different for everyone, and everyone's brain is different, but that doesn't change the envy, the jealousy of seeing other people do it better than you. Sometimes, I feel like a fraud in this community, as a hypnotee who always second guesses themselves and questions whether they can even trance.
Maybe this is just a me thing, but I feel like imposter syndrome in hypnotees isn't thought about or discussed enough. I wonder how many other people have had similar experiences but just kept it to themselves?
YES
Whenever i see someone able to successfully do memory play, it makes me so jealous tbh
Ethical Personality Play
So. I've written about my experiences with Personality Play in the past. A couple times, actually.
The TL;DR is that from early 2000s-2019 this was my signature move that the first three hypnotists I was tied up with utilized on a near daily basis. The damage of this abuse has never been fully tallied, but if you want my "how to alter your personality with hypnosis" guide in a word it is simple:
Don't.
"But what if I want to do hypnotic edgeplay?"
But saving that... let me impart some wisdom in hopes that y'all will play nice and safe with this.
Firstly let me define the terms.
Personality Play is any form of hypnosis scene that alters aspects of the individual's identity whether it be for a scene, as a permanent trigger or as permanent conditioning. The danger amplifies with the more severe and lasting the changes are but there is always danger.
So, let's cover each area of what can be done, how it can be harmful and how to avoid that harm.
General rules
Before even negotiating this kind of play. Disclose.
If you are engaging with intimate hypnosis at this end of the danger spectrum then you need to have a level of intimate trust relative to that risk and this trust needs to go both ways. If I were a hypnotist introducing this kind of play into the mix I would do so only if I could trust in my hypnotee partner's mental state.
I disclose my BPD and DID at the start of any hypnotic relationship and talk about how they impact me. How the depersonalization and derealization symptoms require a level of grounding before and after play and what to do if my emotional state switches during the middle of a scene. This is not an easy thing for me to do, especially if time is a limited factor, but it's a necessary thing to do.
I do not expect every person playing be willing to disclose every mental condition they have or open up about possible abreaction triggers. That's sensitive information and it's natural to not want to be open about that with every partner. I do, however emphasize that it is vital for that information to be known when approaching these topics. It is unfair for the partner in the scenarios to be responsible for managing safety on either side of the watch when they are unaware of the depths of vulnerability.
I have experience with this fallacy myself. In utilizing hypnosis to ignore my triggers I did severe damage to myself and I am now plagued with intrusive memories and nightmares of events that happened during scenes that I was able to effortlessly indulge in during the scene but as they say "The body keeps the score" and I was in fact doing further damage to myself. Something which my partner at the time was not equipped to deal with because I'd failed to disclose or even treat the situation as worth being safe about.
Now I am just burdened with further damage by ignoring my brain's defenses on my existing pain.
Once again, I refer to my first bit of advice on how to ethically perform Personality Play: DON'T.
Once you have a trusting understanding of both sides of the watch's limits and comforts the next step is grounding.
Grounding is mandatory.
I wrote about my feelings on this before in more depth. The short version, though:
Before and after a scene with intense reality distorting you should take an effort to make a person feel aware of their surroundings, to offer them connection "during the scene you will know I am here and you can pause the scene at any time for any reason" and for them to take stock of their mental state and how they are feeling. Just ask them to display curiosity and provide comfort in the connection between hypnotist and hypnotee. You will be returning here and you need to make it an inviting space.
Grounding should also include a reminder that the hypnotee will be aware of what is happening the whole time. I'll cover this more in the more risky portion, but the key to safety is to ensure that the hypnotee is not immersed in any headspaces they may slip into (with the understanding that there is another gradient here of subspace and highs and peaks from scene play which are chemical reactions and those highs are a little more natural than the altered headspaces I am referring to).
For another grain of personal experience and warning here, I just want to talk about the three hypnotists who played with me utilizing personality play. One knew what he was doing, one didn't know what they were doing and one didn't care. I'll refer to them as Noel (knew better), Dinny (didn't know) and Carrie (didn't care).
Dinny expected that if a scene got too much for me that I would drop out of trance or end the scene. To them they assumed that no one will do anything in hypnosis that they didn't want to do and that it was just extreme play-acting. They likely didn't believe in hypnosis all that much and used it as a framework for roleplay, which is their true indulgence.
So if a scene got too intense for them they would safeword. End the scene. They were in control.
As someone who was immersed in the play and had no grounding, there was no escape because within the framework of the scene, there was no "out of character" there was the scene and that was all that was happening.
You cannot assume that a hypnotee will safeword and end a scene unless they receive the proper grounding and instruction to do so. If you're going to be doing edge play, you have to surrender the fantasy and make sure reality is in the scene at all times. Both sides of the watch. If you are entering in a scene where a person is altered throughout then you cannot expect them to act on their agency. It's a CNC scene by default and you need to introduce safety and consent to avoid that.
Likewise I want to note the power imbalance that comes from play like this. A motivated hypnotee can fling themselves into this arena and do harm to the hypnotist. This does fly both ways. A hypnotee not advocating for themselves or exercising their agency will make a hypnotist accessory to the damage.
This is a sin I have committed.
A hypnotist has a responsibility to themselves to not allow a self-neglecting hypnotee use hypnosis as a method of psychological self-harm. This guide is as much to protect a hypnotist from being abused as it is for hypnotees to avoid allowing themselves to be abused.
Every side is vulnerable in these exchanges.
So... now that we understand the basics before we can even start, let's start in the shallow end and work out way up.
Emotion Control/Intelligence Play
Starting soft. This is fairly standard play and so long as you're being mindful I doubt many would have too many problems with these suggestions.
Infatuation potions, ditzy spells... this is fairly standard stuff.
The key thing to do is to ensure that the effects are temporary and impersonal. For instance for an intelligence play scene you may want to picture a dial in the hypnotees head that has a default setting. Take a moment to ground that default setting. What is normal. What it feels like out of hypnosis. Then you can suggest that it will always return to this default setting after a time but for now we intend to dial it back down, as you feel yourself growing sillier and sillier.
This is a safe way to handle a scene like this because even if you do not perform a post-session grounding (which you always should), the default will naturally return.
Likewise infatuation potions you can mention how your body will metabolize and you'll be aware of the artificial nature of the emotions you feel.
Being aware of the artificial nature of the emotions at play will prevent lingering effects. Even after you clean up there will always be a little bit left over and it's a matter of limiting how much sticks around and where the mind will return to.
I safely play with suggestions like this to this day even when Personality Play in the broader sense is Red for me. This is safe. It's manageable. It's temporary and with a partner who is willing to make space for it, you can keep reality in the room. Safe and secure.
But it can still be dangerous.
Let's see the intelligence play scene was handled poorly. Instead of a temporary dial which defaults to normal a hypnotist instead asked "Debra" to imagine herself with platinum blonde hair, a larger chest, all her thoughts evaporating into a pink bubblegum mist as boundless confidence overcomes her until she transforms into her bimbo persona, "Debbie" and Debbie can be summoned at a simple turn of phrase.
That right there? That's DANGEROUS.
We'll cover more as to why when I go over persona/character play, but it's a good example of how a "bimbo trigger" can be performed ethically and how it can be performed dangerously.
*sighs*
So let's move on...
Altered Headspaces
By altered headspaces I mean suggestions and scenes that play on your ability to perceive and process things. This can be the drugged/drunk sequences, hallucinations of any variety. It can be impulsiveness or boosts of confidence or terror.
Y'know. Stage hypnosis stuff. Because as we know, stage hypnosis tricks are a bastion of "ethical" suggestions.
Seriously though. The prevalence of these types of suggestion in the public perception make us as a community look bad and it's why doing them safely is vital, especially if we do get people entering the community with the idea of types of play which are risky at best from the get-go.
For these suggestions you want to provide the above grounding, but the hypnotee also needs to be able to have an objective view to their state so they can advocate for themselves.
Any altered headspace will supplement agency. It's why you cannot negotiate with someone when they are fractionated. Thusly, any interaction you have with someone in an altered headspace is going to be dubious consent by default. What if you made someone slutty for a scene and they escalated the scene to a sexual one without prior negotiation or existing rapport.
The correct thing to do is end the scene there and then. Otherwise the hypnotist is taking advantage of the hypnotee.
That's a fairly plain example, too. Hence why I feel even this level is edge play.
I don't particularly want to share my personal experience in this realm. Suffice to say I've never once in my life had lucid sexual intimacy with a partner. Every single time I was altered. I literally cannot approach the concept/act without being altered first. I invited it.
The body keeps score.
The way to practice this safely is to encourage the hypnotee to maintain an awareness and presence in the scene. There is a risk to this as incentivizing a dissociation between the conscious self and the altered self is the exact thing we are trying to avoid in these scenarios.
I refer again to the shining DON'T at the top of the post.
But with the correct grounding and temporary status of any scene this risk is lower than the risk of allowing a hypnotee to dive into a scene so heavily that they will ignore their personal ethics and safety for the consideration of the scene at play.
It's either allowing them the ability to advocate for themselves while altered, "the hidden observer will always be present during the scene and can stop things for any reason or just to check in" basically it's keeping reality in the room. A hypnotee should be discouraged from throwing themselves headlong into the fantasy and an awareness of waking self and the artificial nature of play is important, particularly the more immersive you go...
So...
Character/Persona Play
Which brings me to the final warning.
Please do not even attempt this. I see kids in tulpa communities and roleplayers who can't see the harm in becoming their characters and I wish I could share a grain of my experiences.
I did this for 18 years. Eighteen years. Daily. The damage it has done to me is never ever going to be fixed.
The thread I made on Twitter received a number of supportive messages from others with dissociative disorders who echoed my sentiments. I'm legitimately at the point where I ask "were we attracted to this type of play because we were predisposed to it" or "do we have serious disorders due to our time playing in the deep end"
Neither one need to be true. Doing so did damage. A lot of damage.
So here's my first question off the bat.
"What if your hypnotist gets hit by a bus?" what if one day you wake up and you no longer have someone to explore this gigantic portion of your soul with. What if access to this kind of play existed only within a relationship. Are you willing to allow that much of your personal experience and agency be left to someone else's hands?
What about trust. Can you trust someone to shape a part of yourself? Dinny, Carrie and Noel each did harm in their own way handling the bits of me I shared with them. Noel warped and twisted and perverted them to the point of which these characters, real and living aspects of me feel violated by his impact upon them. Carrie abandoned them and let them wither and die without even considering attachments I had made to them... attachments they had to the stories and connections they had made... and then Dinny? Dinny never treated them as real. They were fantasy and the situations were fantasy and it was all just a game.
Let me tell you about that last one. If you want to play out a hateship scene and utilize hypnosis to make your partner think that they are in that hateship scene, the emotions exist. They will bleed through and poison you in your waking state. If you are made to perform as a vampire who wants nothing more than to taste flesh then you are going to feel that desperate hunger and be trying with every fiber of your being to overpower the hypnotist who has the ability to end the scene if things get rough but, and this is the important part, unless you set up grounding-- you will not know that in the moment.
I legitimately have nightmares about the things I did while acting in scenes Dinny ran.
And lastly...
Are you willing to accept that there are parts of you that can do things that you in your waking and natural state, simply cannot do?
I do not know if doing these things makes you more vulnerable to the symptoms of a dissociative disorder or not, but I know that a damn lot of people who did this stuff excessively happen to have these symptoms.
Look. I don't hide my DID diagnosis on Tumblr. It hurts that I have a mesmerizing Fae in my heart who is more lovable than I am, more confident, more capable, more experienced and charming. I hate that she can perform feminine voice better than me. I hate that she can push boundaries and harm me without a thought. I hate feeling inferior to me. I hate feeling like I'm just a function of a person that people want around more.
I hate finding evidence that she had a whole online life that we hid so well that even post-diagnosis I am not fully sure what she did. I hate feeling powerless that I'm not in control of my own life and reality.
Dawn scares me. I am afraid of the part of me that most people love.
...and I have no way of communicating that as a warning that doesn't sound exotic and enticing. Because dissociative disorders are not exotic and enticing. They're boring, exhausting and tedious and though I am 50/50 on whether it can be accidentally induced through hypnosis play, I know there is no damned chance in hell any person should willingly gamble with that possibility.
I know so many systems and people who have endured extreme brainwashing who would be behind me when I say this.
DO. NOT. DO. IT.
...and so... assuming you have read all the warnings and you're not actively trying to invoke installed personalities into a person (which I do not condone under any circumstances at all).
How can we do character play and not leave lasting damage?
That's a question I have asked myself so so many times.
Firstly, avoid anything that makes the character headspace an extra layer. Do not use hypnosis to mold them. Do not give them their own triggers. Do not do anything which can be used as a divide between the waking self and the constructed persona.
But that's more "Don't" isn't it. Here's what you can do.
I think the best way is instead of having the hypnotee monitor the scene and step in when they need to, ask them to treat it as a performance. That they are aware of the artificial nature of the scene but at all times they will commit to taking on the role as an actor would on stage.
The key is to associate the role with the hypnotee enough that they are present in the scene while allowing them to commit to the actions without experiencing the thoughts and feelings of their own. Insist that no matter the morality and behavior of the character, the hypnotee as the actor will never cross their personal limits or ethics for the sake of the scene.
Then at the end of the sequence be sure to end the scene and ground the hypnotee, have them remember everything that had happened, remember them performing the act and deciding how to handle every decision. Make sure that the entire time that character and actor are one and the same and all hypnosis is doing is allowing the actor to invest in the bit.
That is legitimately the only safe way I think one can engage in this kind of play and from that angle it seems as harmless a suggestion as any scene.
But no shortcuts. No triggers that induce character headspace. No trying to breathe life into characters and allow them to inhabit. Even channeling them or letting them speak through the hypnotee courts a level of dissonance between states.
It's possible to enjoy the spontaneity of character play without suppressing the ego of the hypnotee. As I mentioned at the start, it may seem like a desirable outcome for some hypnotees to experience a state of ego-death and allow themselves to experience becoming someone else for a little while. It sounds appealing on paper.
A responsible hypnotist should never indulge that kind of desire and a respectable hypnotee should never burden a hypnotist with that level of responsibility. The damage is too risky.
Lastly, and this applies to all.
DEBFRIEF
Every major scene in any kink should involve a debrief segment. This helps with the grounding and it helps establish the in and out of scene dynamic while allowing the hypnotee to associate with their actions. "I did" rather than "they did".
One of my bigger mistakes in character play in my younger days was that I baked amnesia in and allowed my play partner to tell me about the scenes after the fact. This made it seem like the characters in the scene were the ones controlling things and I was a passive and absent spectator. Not good for healthy associations.
During a debrief the hypnotist and hypnotee should discuss their roles in the scene, how they felt during the experience. It gives both parties an opportunity to interrogate how the other is perceiving things, catch any flags (abuse of control over the scene, losing reality to fantasy etc) and give one another ideas for how to improve for future scenes. Debriefs make all kink play better in my opinion. Plus who doesn't like a bit of feedback on how you handled things in scene?
...look... I don't want to be an old lady yelling at the kids for doing things when I did them myself at that age.
I'd be a hypocrite if I didn't pretend I didn't see the allure on both sides of the watch.
I just... there weren't 20+ year experienced hypnosis veterans who had been in my character play abusing position when I was growing up. No one warned me. I learned all this the hard way and I hurt people. People I loved. Moreover I hurt me. In ways that will never heal.
I just want to spare anyone I can the pain of going through this.
So, in quick summary:
Ensure reality is always in the room.
Ensure the hypnotee is always aware of themselves and their action.
Reset after every scene.
Do not allow situational scenes to become direct triggers.
If you insist on reusing altered headspaces and characters then install and deinstal every time to limit any lingering traces out of scene. Do not allow them to have programming/conditioning unique to them.
Avoid allowing the hypnotee to circumvent their own ego and agency in a scene.
Debrief
Play safe... if you must play at all.
Its saturday again! Time to reduce yourself to a dumb hypnotized pet again until monday! Lets turn that silly head off, obey and be good girls!💖
The weekends are meant to be a time to relax and go a bit mindless. Enjoy the pleasure of a break and sink deeper into hypnotic bliss and ecstasy.
See, isn't that much better?
It's already started, hasn't it?
You saw the pretty spiral and the effects already started, didn't they? You felt your breath slow down as the spiral starts to take your mind, didn't you? That's okay. It's better this way~
Do you see the pink in the spiral? Do you feel it starting to fill your head, the more and more you focus on the spiral? On my words?
Feel the pink entering your brain, flooding your thoughts. Every inhale brings in more pink. Every exhale lets out any thoughts you might be hanging on to. There's no need for that. Good bimbos empty their heads~!
The only thoughts that are in your head are how tight your clothes feel against you. And if they don't, then take them off~! You don't need those loose clothes, anyway~! Bimbos want to show off their body~! Bimbos always want show off their sexy body~!
As you breathe in again, more bimbo thoughts float in. Bimbos don't think for themselves. Bimbos wear sexy clothes and makeup. Everytime a bimbo is called a bimbo, she feels more and more pleasure. A bimbo is a bimbo is a bimbo.
Bimbos are dumb, and bimbos like to be dumb. Bimbos are made to be sexy, desirable, and horny.
And you're a good and dumb bimbo, aren't you?
If you have breasts, feel one of your hands reach up and start to fondle them. And regardless of it you do or not, feel one of your hands sink down to your underwear. Feel your hand slip past them, touching yourself down there. The pleasure is far too strong. Your holes are far too empty.
You need to touch yourself~
You start stroking down there. Open your mouth for me~! Good bimbo~! When you do, you feel a hard cock or a firm breast find its way into your mouth. The pleasure grows.
The stroking grows faster. Your mind goes blanker.
Being dumb makes you horny.
Being horny makes you edge.
Edging makes you dumb.
Good bimbos edge~
Good bimbos edge~
Good bimbos edge~
Good bimbos edge~
Good bimbo~
You're just a fuckpuppet now, a good, sexy, bimbofied fuckpuppet. And that's just fine with you. You're so fine with it, you might repost this, telling me what a good, sexy, bimbofied fuckpuppet you are~!
You can finish now, if you want. Or you can scroll, growing more pleasure and stupid the more you do. Do you think you should show people how stupid and horny you've gotten?
Right. How could I forget? Good bimbos don't think.
If you wish to wake up, you may continue reading. Otherwise, go on your merry bimbo way.
Im a good bimbo, my minf is fu ked
Cwnt think only edge
Its feels so good yo be a fuckpuppey
Im drooling
Please say im a good binbo
One-shot #2: Bimbofumes
Violet stares ahead from her cubicle, staring at the long-haired blonde applying another layer of lip gloss. What was it, the third time she'd seen her do that today?
She leans over, tapping the coworker beside her, Henry, on the arm.
Henry huffs a little in annoyance, looking over to the other. "What do you want, Vi-"
"What's with Barbie over there?" Violet points towards the woman, who had now moved on to filing her nails.
Henry looks up to see the woman Violet was talking about, a cocky grin spreading to his face. "Oh, her? That's Hannah." He gives a little shrug, his grin fading. "She started acting like that about a year ago. Only caring about her looks and her 'sex appeal' or whatever. She dyed her hair blonde and got a boob job and all that."
Violet furrowed her eyebrows. "Why hasn't Jack fired her, then?"
"Why else?" Henry chuckles, shaking his head as he turns back to his work. "She's his wife."
Violet's expression tweaks into one of surprise, yet also understanding. She leans back over to her own desk, trying to get back to work.
However, she just seemed to keep catching her eyes. And was anyone else smelling that sweet smell coming from her?
At the end of his shift, Violet made her way over to the girl, whose gum chewing could likely be heard from all across the office. Violet clears her throat. "Excuse me?"
Hannah turns her head, giving a grin and wave at the other. Her eyes look so empty, although Violet thinks that adds part of the charm to the full look. "Oh my gawd, hii! You're the new hire, right? It's, like, so nice to meet you!"
Jeez, she was so bubbly. Seems it's contagious, since Violet gives a smile in return. "It's- uh- nice to meet you, too. I was just wondering if...you're wearing any sort of perfume on you today?"
"Oh my gawd, yeah, totes! Hang on!" Hannah bends down in her seat, digging through her purse. As she does, Violet can see how tight Hannah's outfit is on her, hugging every single edge of her body. Jeez, she was really trying to show off, huh?
Hannah then sits up, holding a small spray bottle. "Here! I have plenty of bottles, so you can, like, totally have one!" She then places the bottle in Violet's hand with a sweet smile. "I think the smell is, like, pink cotton candy..? It's, like, totes good!"
"Oh-!" Violet looks at the bottle in her hands after the other girl gives it to her. "Wow, thanks..!" She sticks the bottle into her purse, giving a wave to the other as she heads for the door. "I'll see you tomorrow..!"
"Buh bye!" Hannah gives a wave in return, watching as the doors close.
---
Violet makes her way into her apartment, seeing as her roommate, Aria, pokes her head out from the kitchen.
"Hey!" Aria gives a smile to the other before fully focusing on whatever task she had going on in the kitchen. "How was work?"
"Ah- work was good, thanks..!" Violet makes her way to the living room, sitting down on the couch. She then digs through her purse, pulling out the spray bottle from earlier. It didn't have a label, so she could clearly see the pink liquid within it.
After a minute or so, Aria comes into the living room. Her eyes catch sight of the bottle. "What'cha got there?"
"Ah-" Violet looks up at the other for a second before back at the bottle. "One of my coworkers gave me a bottle of the perfume she was wearing today. She says it's cotton candy scented, and I mean I asked what she was wearing.."
Aria sits down, holding out her wrist to the other. "Alright! Well, let's give it a try! I wanna smell it! It must've really caught your attention if you asked!"
"Yeah, yeah.." With a small smile, Violet aims the bottle at the other's arm, spraying it once it's lined up right. Both girls then lean over for a sniff test.
Violet's thoughts fade as the scent enters her nose, filling her senses. She feels her whole body relax. For just that split second, Violet almost feels...mindless..~
"Whew~!" Aria speaks up, grinning from ear to ear. "I can see why you asked for this~!"
"Yeah.." Violet shakes her head, attempting to get rid of the haze she felt. "Do you wanna use it, too?"
"Uh, yeah!" Aria quickly and eagerly nods. "Of course I do!"
"Then.." Violet sets it down on the couch's side table. "We can leave it there for the two of us to use in the morning."
"Right..!"
The two sit there for a minute in silence before they both lean in to smell it again.
---
Violet stares straight ahead at her computer the next day. The scent is filling her senses. She can't seem to focus on much else.
"I can see you talked to Hannah."
Violet blinks, directing her attention to Henry, who smirks as he writes something on a paper on his desk.
"Uh- yeah, I guess I did." Violet gives a sheepish little grin. "I mean, I just really liked the smell of her perfume yesterday, so I thought I'd ask."
Henry gives a chuckle, turning his gaze towards Violet. "Well, it smells lovely on you."
Violet could feel something build within her. "Oh! Well, thank you..!" She then turns her attention back to her computer. And while she stares, slowly completing her work, it dawns on her what the feeling is.
Pleasure.
Your content is making me more and more love the concept of being a bimbo. I really liked this one shot, the writing is very quick to the point and immersive!
