Where to Never Land?

Person with a lot of problems ranging from "what's for lunch today?" to "how long until death?" Hobbies: Eating, Sleeping, Fangirling ------------------------------------------------- Why? Because sometimes screaming into the void is better than being silent.

[sandandglass]

At Midnight, August 19, 2015

[boredpanda]

Cats’ Deepest Secrets Revealed On Felines Of New York

[brutereason]

Seeking permission, telegraphing non-aggression, displaying humility—these are all things that men, especially those in corporate leadership positions, should be learning. Female styles of communication are not inherently or even practically wrong or inappropriate. Even Teddy Roosevelt, who believed in brandishing his very large stick, counseled leaders to speak softly. It is time for us as women to stop assuming that the way men speak and conduct business is the right way to do it. Since we are not the problem, maybe we are not the ones who need to change.

In Defense Of Women Saying ‘Just’ And ‘Sorry’ In The Workplace - Role Reboot (via that-vicious-vixen)

[chronic-illness-cat]

from the amazing doomdyke.tumblr.com

[picture of a Siamese cat’s head against a triangle-sectioned background with many shades of blue. Top line of text reads: Comorbidity: || Bottom line of text reads: But wait, there’s more!!]

[thehikingastronomer]

Writers

Laying in bed: *constructs perfect plot*

Standing in shower: *constructs perfect characters*

While driving: *constructs perfect setting*

Staring at blank page: “wut r werds.”

[gimme-choco]

well it seems someone wants me to test out their new web-based MMO game again

[firelordsarah]

Omfg drinking wine is too feminine for you that you gotta call it “brosé” grow up

[thejurassicjuan]

i can’t believe this nonsense

[barbelllift-and-fooditem-deacti]

Manscato

[rageturtleswaggg-blog]

Penis Grigio

[meghanwaslike]

Cabronet

[maeamian]

Broquet

[inabasket]

Zinfandude

[phantom-quantum]

it got better

[depressioncomix]

[depressioncomix]

from the archive: depresion comix #168 - main - Patreon

[little-miss-tragedy]

I meant to say, “I’m on the verge of a breakdown, and I want to die.” But it came out as, ‘I’m tired.’

(254/365) by (DS)

[5-sossage]

“You were a shooting star amongst ordinary stars.” -Jack (1996)

R.I.P Robin Williams

[gettingahealthybody-deactivated]

Thank you.

[anirrationalpi-blog]

me: *makes a mistake*

me: *holds a grudge against myself for 10 years*

[blackhawks-shuffle]

[idiotsonfb]

[urie]

my depression is just like “hey instead of making you sad we’re going to make you really lazy and unable to function so that people just get annoyed with you rather than feel bad for you”

[anti-feminist-pug-deactivated20]

Imagine This

Imagine that your partner has been hitting you. Yelling at you. You’ve been married for a few years, you’re both in your 30s, you have a little daughter, and everything you do seems to be wrong. You’ve been made fun of, mocked and belittled by your partner. 

But you need them, because you can’t take another failed relationship. You can’t be alone again, and they’ve got you convinced that all the beatings and scratches and scrapes are your fault.

You tell your friends and they laugh. No matter how many bruises or cuts you show them, it’s still your fault, so you hide them. You feel trapped, but you don’t feel like you can escape. You’re convinced that you’re just locking yourself in.

And you see online one day an article. Someone else went through what you have. They got the cuts, the bruises, the scratches. You see that here is hope and freedom from these beatings. The physical and emotional pain can go away, there is someone there to help!

So you write down a list of 10 abuse victim hotlines, for people being abused. And you call them one by one.

If you were a man:

6 of those hotlines would refuse to help because of your gender.

3 of those hotlines would refer you to or give you a number to a hotline dealing with people that abuse and are looking to stop.

1 of those hotlines would help.

Out of those 10, 2 of those would also laugh at you or say you deserved it.

If you were a woman:

10 of those hotlines would help.

Abuse is very scary, but what seems scarier to you; being abused, reaching out and getting the help you need, or being abused, reaching out and getting laughed and turned away over 60% of the time because of who you are?

Only 8% of men who call abuse hotlines find them ‘very helpful’ and get the assistance they need.

Women can abuse. Men can be abused. Men need equality and help too.

[seaweedgrrrl]

Wtf is this trash lol

[grannythots-deactivated20190917]

how is this trash?

[nsepstein-blog]

All they could say is “this is trash” because this study was written and published by a woman with a PhD and is comprehensive and heavily sourced.

Just to add some quotes found in the study from men who tried to seek help:

• They laughed at me and told me I must have done something to deserve it if it happened at all.

• They asked how much I weighed and how much she weighed and then hung up on me…I was told by this agency that I was full of BS.

• They accused me of trying to hide my “abuse” of her by claiming to be a victim, and they said that I was nothing more than a wimp.

• They didn’t really listen to what I said. They assumed that all abusers are men and said that I must accept that I was the abuser. They ridiculed me for not leaving my wife, ignoring the issues about what I would need to do to protect my six children and care for them.

And maybe the saddest one: They just laughed and hung up the phone.

[milkgif-deactivated20160318]

[nicolettabertolissi]

Today I Like: Garden Igloo

Sì, lo so, dovrei occuparmi di interni… ma appena ho visto le proposte di Garden Igloo non ho potuto resistere. In un certo senso, però, si parla comunque di interni Queste cupole geodetiche da esterno creano delle confortevoli aree riparate dal sole, dalle intemperie e dagli insetti da utilizzare in infiniti modi grazie ai tre […]

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