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I get tray meals through my health insurance because of my disability. To alleviate decision freeze I ended up finding two meals I like enough to eat every day and that's my breakfast and lunch.
There are accounts where people share photos of their daily meals.
How fucking funny would it be if I did this.
health updates:
I'm not sure which pollen is circulating right now but I've become more or less allergic to the outdoors. Forty minutes of being in the community garden with the same plants as usual left me with itchy red arms and little hives bubbles, eyes that felt like I'd rubbed them with cayenne, and swollen sinuses. HOWEVER. WE START ALLERGY SHOTS THIS WEEK. Good gods thank goodness jeez. It does mean the plants are probably not doing great in the yard because even spending time on the screened in porch for more twenty minutes three days in a row puts me down for the count. I've had such bad sinus issues I thought I caught something.
Waiting patiently by which I mean impatiently to test my Vitamin D levels and see whether the supplements are actually taking. If not we'll cross that bridge when we get there I actually have no idea what that means other than a possible reason for lots of issues.
Possible LOCAL neurologist referral for a generalist who can then refer me to a neuromuscular specialist YAY not having to drive to Boston for fast!
Giving the CPAP an attempt. Not sure how long it'll work because I'm so sensitive to the feel of a thing on my face. But the sleep I'm getting is apparently very resting.
Trying a little experiment. I'm not a gratitude journaler. I'm aggressively constantly noticing little happy things and it helps my mental health, but it does more when I share those things that might also make others happy, too.
So other than health and book updates I'm going to try to make this am aggressively joyful place in the most mundane ways possible. This isn't an ignorance thing or a practice of holding my hands over my ears and singing over the terrible stuff going on; I'm a visibly queer-trans, invisibly disabled person on SSDI living a little above the poverty line with my also disabled visibly queer-trans spouse. Our loved ones come from a whole lot of marginalized groups. The world is on fire and people in our own communities are making escape plans while those of us who can't try to figure out how to wait things out. We're still, in many senses, very lucky.
Switching it up on here is no extinguisher. It's a little like using one of those spray bottles you might use to mist plants. But we're gonna try it anyway.
Anyway this disability pride month I would like to shoutout disabled folks whose creativity has suffered because of their condition. I’m talking people with hand tremors and pain that stop them from drawing, knitting, and playing instruments. People whose thinking has become so disorganized that nothing they write makes sense to other people. People with chronic pain who can no longer dance. People so over medicated in a fruitless attempt to maintain stability that the wells of their imagination have run dry.
I see you and I love you. You are more than your creative output. You are not a shell of what you used to be. You are a whole, complete person, regardless of what your creativity has been, is now, or will be in the future.
HOLY MOLY, THIS IS IMPORTANT!!
okay so i work in the deli of a grocery store, yeah? and today i got this guy who came up with his two twin children, around five years old. he walks up to the counter, carrying one kid in each arm, and loudly goes "oh, no, i forgot what i wanted!" and turns to the boy in his left arm and, in a perfect blues clues style voice, goes "caleb, do you remember what i wanted?" and the boy goes "half pound of yellow cheese!"
i, obviously, say "you've got it little sir!" and slice up half a pound of yellow american cheese, handing it to the little boy, who looks it over, nods, and tucks it in his lap.
then the man goes "well, we can't just have cheese on our sandwiches. but what else can we put on there?" and the little gurl in his other arm goes "half pound of ham!" so i nod and say "yes ma'am! what kind?" and she points at a random cut of turkey, so her father nods and says "like she said, honey ham!" i cut half a pound of honey ham, hand it to the little lady, she looks it over, nods and puts it in her lap.
then the man goes "now, what should we have for the side?" and the kids both simultaneously start cheering "macking cheese!!!" and the man spins on his heel and marches off, presumably to find the macking cheese.
later, the little boy comes wandering back to the counter while his father looks on and loudly and proudly proclaims that he wants to know where the mustard is. i point him to the correct aisle, he nods, says "thank you mister deli woman" and walks away.
So I work at a library and about a month ago I helped a little old woman who is legally blind figure out how to listen to our audiobooks on her tablet. We got to chatting and I mentioned that I always listen to audiobooks while I knit, which made her very excited and she told me all about the afghans she used to make when she could still see. She was so sweet and I was so glad to be able to help her figure out a way to still enjoy books without being able to read.
Yesterday I answered the phone at work and when I said my name the woman on the other line got so excited and said “Madeline?? You’re exactly who I wanted to talk to! This is Marie, you helped me about a month ago. How late are you working today?” It was her!! And about an hour later she and her husband showed up, and she was carrying a huge stack of old knitting patterns for me, and her husband brought in a few boxes full of yarn. They couldn’t stay long but I was so touched that she remembered me, and I struggled to not just flat out start crying when she handed me the patterns. When I looked through them later I realized it was her entire personal collection from over the years, including all her personal notes and drawings and even some photographs of her finished pieces. No one in my family knits, and to have someone pass on their legacy to me like that was incredibly moving.
This isn’t what I usually post here, but with life being especially dark lately I wanted to share a moment of happiness and a reminder that a bit of kindness goes a long way ♡
I DONT WANT TO LEAVE THE SOUTH!!!! THIS IS MY HOME!!!
I want things to get better here instead of having to leave it behind to be safe!! I literally live in North Carolina i KNOW about the bathroom bills, i KNOW i PROMISE YOU.
Queer people who look down on the south and refuse to acknowledge that there are queer people here infuriate me. The south is not just Bigotry World tm! There are poc here!! There are trans people here! There are queer people and disabled people and tons of other people who deserve your love and support!
Don’t forget about us please.
Not that I've been listening to too much Chapell Roan
But this chapter I'm finishing has been entirely devoted to an anxious lesbian trying not to panic. It isn't over gay shit but still feels pretty queer to me.
I'm still alive. Fascia doing weird things and heat is very hot so much bed time wow. But also book? First draft almost done. Also wow. Screaming in terror. Attempting not to immediately put in trash folder. This is not fishing just impulsive thoughts.
I'm way more easily reachable on Instagram and discord and texting so dm me if you need those but I'll try to drop in here more but also make no promises. Considered just connecting my Instagram but I do decent amounts of local/identity and location blatant stuff there and this place will always give off a healthy dose of caution so maybe not.
Saying "voting doesn't matter" might reach your younger peers online but it certainly hasn't reached Clangus Hargbarg who was part of the kkk in 1951 and still sends in his ballot. He hasn't missed a one.
Perhaps one of the most succinct depictions of the importance of recognizing journalistic tone
The guy running the New York Times admitted in an interview he is mad at Joe Biden for refusing to sit for an interview with the NYT and that's one of the reasons why the paper is trashing him at every turn.
I know many of you have legitimate problems with Biden's decision making and for that matter so do I, but make sure your understanding of what he has or hasn't done isn't being driven by this useless nepo baby asshole and his family's generations of hatred for Democrats.
Follow the [fascist] money.
Tax cuts, abortion bans, and deregulation make things worse.
Starfleet @ Leonard McCoy: Could you please just stop violating the Prime Directive for humanitarian reasons, just for a second
Leonard McCoy:
[ID: 1. Black text in the Star Trek font on a white square, reading, “The Hippocratic Oath Is My Prime Directive, Bitch”. 2. Three gifs from Star Trek IV, the first two showing McCoy in green hospital scrubs, standing in the hallway of a twenty-first century hospital next to an old woman on a gurney as he opens a black doctor’s bag, says, “Dialysis? My God, what is this, the Dark Ages? Now, you swallow that, and if you have any problems, just call me,” and then pats her on the cheek. In the third gif the undercover Enterprise crew are wheeling Chekov out the door on a gurney while in the foreground the old woman is being pushed in a wheelchair, surrounded by doctors and nurses as she happily says, “The doctor gave me a pill, and I grew a new kidney!”]
I’m still not over McCoy casually telling a random woman in a hospital he does not work in, in a century he does not belong in, to “just call [him]” as if there is any remotely possible way she could go about doing that.
To Bones, there’s no such thing as “out of network,” or out of time and space. He WILL find you.
Option 3: Bones knows that she will have no problems, because he is just that awesome.
Option 4: Having learned nothing from his mistake on Sigma Iotia II, Bones is slipping a Starfleet communicator under the woman’s arm as he casually pats her on the cheek. Its discovery completely alters the future of technology, allowing Starfleet to come into existence, and is why it uses that symbol. Bones is responsible for the creation of every piece of technology that he hates.
Well. At least they don’t have to use dialysis anymore.
Ok I reblogged this with a long talk in tags recently but this is for all you fuckers in the notes, as a librarian whose library has gone fine-free since the last time I reblogged this post:
YES, going fine-free encourages returns. I can tell you that from my own experience at the check-in desk. In the weeks after we went fine-free, we got SO MANY returns on books that were hella overdue.
YES, library fines disproportionately impact poor people. Here's how it works: you're a single mom who checks out 10 picture books for your kid. For whatever reason, you're unable to return those 10 books on time. In fact, you're unable to return them for a long time. Each of those books hits the maximum fine. In my system, this was $5. When you return the books, you owe $50. If you can pay off the $50, fine. If you can't, then you feel like you're fucked. Maybe you've had a bad experience with owing money before. Maybe you've had a bad experience with an incompetent or bigoted librarian. Either way, you don't feel like you can deal with the cost of returning the books. But eventually the books go into billing, and now you're on the hook for the full price of each book. Even if you return them, you still owe $50. An account with $50 or more in fines/fees is considered delinquent, meaning you can't even use the computer or printing services, let alone check out books. So now you're stuck with these books and these fines and no library access and you're fucked. It doesn't matter how you got here. Rich and poor people alike wind up here. What matters is that for rich people it's not a big deal, and for poor people it's a REALLY big deal.
YES, libraries do everything we can to avoid this situation. We send reminder emails. We offer payment plans. We cap fines at $50. This prevents MANY people from ending up in this situation, but it doesn't prevent EVERYONE from winding up here. Libraries serve a LOT of people!
NO, fine free doesn't look the same everywhere. In my library system, we've eliminated late fines on every type of item, but we still charge replacement fees for books that are very long overdue (60 days I think). The replacement fee is cleared if the book is returned. But if you look at the notes, you'll see other libraries using different fine-free systems. This is because every library is different and has to work within its own context. Which brings me to..
YES, libraries need the money they get from late fines. HOWEVER! Fine free IS possible for every library, if their parent organization chooses to fund it! Libraries are government entities. They exist to provide services, not to make money. The last time I reblogged this post, I didn't believe my library would be able to go fine free for a very long time. Then, we made a proposal to the government we work for to use a special fund to replace what we typically collect in late fines. We were able to go fine free because we got the funding from our parent organization - you know, the guys who collect taxes and fund social services with the taxes they collect (at least in theory).
THIS IS WHAT PEOPLE MEAN WHEN THEY SAY DEFUND THE POLICE.
(That's right motherfucker this was an anti-cop rant all along!)
City and county budgets are finite, but they CAN fund fine-free libraries. The question is always, what funds are going to be used? What might they have funded instead?
When people call to defund the police, it is in part because police are funded by public money. (It's mostly because the police are an inherently oppressive and racist institution, but bear with me here.) The exact same money that arms and empowers police officers is money that could be used for fine-free libraries, fare-free buses, or better supplied classrooms. It's money that could go to health departments or senior centers or parks. NONE OF THESE ENTITIES EXIST TO MAKE MONEY, but some of us have to because we're underfunded by our municipality's budget.
UNDER-FUNDING SOCIAL SERVICES IS A GRIFT. It directly displaces the cost of living in a society from rich people (homeowners and landlords who pay property taxes) onto poor people (the single mom in our thought experiment above, or someone who can't afford a car so they pay but fare, or the kids whose classroom doesn't have pencils).
If you're unhappy with social services where you live, look at your city and county budgets. Find out how much money your local governments have and where it's going. If you want to agitate, agitate. If you want to run for office, run for office. If you want to take direct action, then I would certainly never advocate for anything illegal hahahaha
TL;DR Fine free is great, it's in line with libraries' mission of public service, and it is doable, but only if governments choose to fund it. If they say they can't, look at where their money is coming from and where it's going.
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If this sounds bad to you, please remember to vote Democrat up and down your ballot from President to the most local elected official
and Mobilize and volunteer this year, any amount of work helps